29 Mar Your Self-fulfilling Relationship Prophecy
Are you still looking for your Prince Charming or Mr Extraordinary?
Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30’s, mid 40’s or 50’s everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. Perhaps you’re still looking for your Prince Charming, you want to settle down with, or have a family with if your clock is ticking. Or maybe you’ve experienced the pain of separation or divorce and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again if you are now considering dating.
Before you do, this is your invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different ahead of dating or getting serious with someone you are dating!
Now for one moment imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called ‘Your love story so far’ on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy. Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up. One thing though you are certain about, you don’t want to keep making the same relationship mistakes!
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now is also your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean? What you believe about love, relationships, men, yourself, will keep showing up. The same love story film will keep repeating itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!
Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you? For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, let you down, you no longer trust anyone, all the good men are taken, men only want one thing. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your mindset with some simple and proven coaching techniques and strategies that work.
Let’s take a minute to pause once more. Here’s an example to consider. When you access your computer database, you can retype new content that overwrites your old data. Your brain does the same thing. When you learn to overwrite your existing relationship data, you overwrite your disempowering beliefs and replace them with new ones your brain begins to create a very different love story – your new self-fulfilling prophecy. Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?
Remember you can create a new self-fulling prophecy anytime you choose. So if you are committed to change your relationship journey, your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!
But be warned. Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don’t do anything different. So ask yourself, how much more pain do you want to endure in love and your life? You will also continue to attract the same type of guys or relationships unless you make a new choice today and overwrite your old files.
To get you started immediately here’s a FREE online COACHING Program Taster to help you with your next steps. Click the link to see if it is right for you. It will only take you 90 minutes to complete (or 10 minutes a day over 9 days).
It’s the same 2-day program I am running for groups of like-minded women who value and learn from a fantastic shared experience. The link includes some powerful success stories too!
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