Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?
Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s. Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.
This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
Imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy. Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up. One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean? What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!
Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you. For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.
Let's take a minute to pause once more. Here's another example to consider. When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking). When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?
Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!
But be warned. Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure? You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.
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Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk. I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising. Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!
Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time. What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?
Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years. It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too. I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47. I cried happy tears. Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!
Today I will share on the next FREE Masterclass Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You. Come along and join it, you can simply listen.
Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory? No, you wouldn't. Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.
To uncover your blindspots, here are three of them - The Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
Meghan Markle and her Prince Charming
We all know Meghan Markle, she is in the worldwide press, 36 and divorcee. She was once a little cygnet, is now a beautiful swan, princess and inspiration for any modern single or divorced woman. She's the beautiful bride (now wife) to her adorable modern day Prince Charming, the gorgeous Prince Harry.
Meghan also gives a great deal of hope to women her own age. It’s the pivotal age our focus changes from our career to thinking more seriously about settling down if you want a family and the clock is ticking if you're still single and searching for your Prince Charming.
To discover the 5 Enlightening Steps For Relationship Success and a FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster to find and build a strong, healthy, more loving and rewarding relationship that can thrive, I have some valuable wisdom to share today. As the voice of the relationship survival revolution, my vision is to inspire millions of women like you to take a new approach if you’re determined to find your Prince Charming. I prefer to call him Mr Extraordinary!
Does this sound like you?
If you are like me when I was in my early 30’s and single, you may be fiercely independent, have a great career or business, so your single status doesn’t define you because you are choosing to be single. You may have your own home, earn a high salary, are self-sufficient with no time pressure to meet your Prince.
You are also unlikely to focus on finding Mr Extraorindary because you also believe in serendipity when the timing is right, or the law of attraction - that one day the universe will deliver your Prince. However be careful what you wish for. If deep down you believe you will get hurt again, or men will let you down, there are no good men out there. Your genie will deliver what you ask for subconsciously! So let me guide you in the right direction to reset your relationship compass towards a high-quality, loving and rewarding relationship you truly deserve.
I started out believing in the happy ever after, as everyone does growing up. I also focused heavily on my career as most ambitious women do. If you are a modern woman, want a big lifestyle and the money to live comfortably, your career will easily keep you distracted from finding true love.
If you now find yourself over 35, suddenly being single by choice changes into a soul-searching question. Will you meet your Prince to have a family with if your clock is now ticking as your fertility starts to decline? Panic starts to set in. But some woman in their late 30's are now taking even greater control of their fertility and seeking to freeze their eggs or have artificial insemination with no Prince Charming in sight.
Sadly, for many women in their 40s, it’s the decade we have to come to terms with the realisation of not having children (unless you go it alone and choose insemination). Or shift your thinking and become open to new possibilities, as more families blend together. Meghan is a great example of this as an African American growing up with divorced parents. She reflects the real modern day woman and blended family.
Has life thrown you a curve ball and experience you didn't expect if you are still single or exhausted of relationships not working or ending?
When my 3rd significant relationships ended, I was 33 and heartbroken, my mum also unexpectedly died at the same time I was made redundant, so I was in no place by choice to even consider a relationship. Perhaps life has pushed you around and taken you on a journey you didn’t expect? It's why I am now an accredited Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Expert. Mentor. Mind, Body and Energy Practitioner to help women like you find your Mr Extraordinary.
By sharing my qualified education and 9 years experience combined with my personal journey and the wisdom I have discovered over 20 years, let me inspire you today to take a new direction.
Today it is easy for me to understand why my relationships didn't work (1st one lasted 11 years - I didn't understand love or our deeper needs) 2nd lasted 2 years (attracted the wrong man), 3rd 14 months (attracted the wrong man based on his looks and a few similarities). I tried to fit a square peg into a round hole. It didn't work. What transformed my experience, I had gained the valuable relationship awareness I now offer a unique 4 Step Coaching Program Methodology I have designed and created.
Over 13 years when I considered myself single (age 28-41). Over 7 years I studied the relationship mistakes we make and why we make them. Absorbing myself in knowledge, I no longer wasted my time with the wrong men.
I had a mortgage, a career that clearly distracted me from my pain, and there was no one in my life I would even consider settling down with. However, my dream did come true in a way I never thought would be possible!
I was 41 when I met my Mr Extraordinary, it was the perfect timing but also took me 20 years to figure out, so I don’t want you to waste your life making the same mistakes. Serendipity also played a massive part bringing us together when my mind and heart was open. Dave the love of my life was finalising his divorce had 2 children 10 and 13. We married 6 years later and our love and happiness continue to grown 10 years on.
If you want the fairytale and prepared to look inside, focus your energy and time learning new relationship skills, the rest is up to you. You can also f find the love of your life! There are some incredible men out there, as a woman you need to recognise them!
My relationship experience exponentially shifted when I tapped into a new way of thinking to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build the most fulfilling relationship of my life. If you continue to think negatively about yourself, men and your relationships, nothing is going to change. Or be warned, you will keep attracting the same type of guys like your ex. or the same hurtful experiences. Remember your genie!
Try your FREE 14 Day F.I.N.D. and Accelerate Your Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster today. Or accelerate your experience over just 2 days instead of the 20 years it took me to figure out! For more information go to Events page to see which 2-Day Masterclass is right for you.
Tip - Your Mr Extraordinary has to be extraordinary because he will impact your heart, happiness, mental well-being, health, your future dreams and financial freedom. It’s why he's to be extraordinary!
Tip - Make a new choice today to become the chooser in love instead of waiting to be chosen, there is a very big difference. Which one are you?
Ready to be enlightened with the 5 Steps of Relationship Wisdom to accelerate your happiness. It's time to figure out what's stopping you:
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If you want to get your relationship right next time- are single, or have been divorced a while and you want to meet your Mr Extraordinary, I have created a fast-track coaching program to give you the toolkit you need over just 2 days instead of wasting your life and time. It took me 20 years to figure out what works, so you don't have to. Learning valuable insight and also working with an expert who has achieved the results you want in your life is priceless. It's what makes me the unique expert to accelerate your results.
Let me now inspire you to fill your heart and life with your missing ingredients to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build your extraordinary more loving and lasting relationship that can work!
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Are separating or going through a divorce and looking for answers to cope better emotionally and mentally.
Newly married couples who want to follow a healthy coaching approach to thrive together.
You are likely to be one of two people. Someone who consistently HIDES from yourself, or you SEEK answers to discover what you can do differently for greater personal happiness or relationship success.
As Brits, speaking our truth at work, with family, friends or when we fall in love, sharing our thoughts and emotions can often make us feel vulnerable and exposed. It’s so much easier to wear a mask and cover up what is really going on inside and HIDE from or avoid our feelings.
To live a more fulfilled life, feel healthier and happier, the secret is SEEK out what your body is really telling you if your stomach is churning, you feel emotional or stressed? It will give you your answers.
Your body is your guiding light to tell you it is time to change your thinking. You have 7 key energy chakras points, best described as traffic lights that will illuminate when it's time to notice them. They are your warning signals to change what is going on inside your head and what you are thinking at that very moment. Your body is speaking to you.
The month of January, of course, is a great reminder to get fitter, go down the gym and eat healthier. But what are you doing to get mentally fitter? It is the key to your life, your wake up alarm call to do something different if an area of your life isn't working right now.
Did you know your brain only hears what you think and say, it doesn’t hear what is right or wrong, positive or negative? So let me invite you to accelerate your new thinking skills.
I bet you would learn a new skill for your career development or business growth. So why not take the day off, to feel emotionally happier, stronger, more resilient, confident. Or discover how to F.I.N.D. and build a more loving and happier relationship on the 22nd and 23rd March 2018 on a 2 Day Masterclass.
Energetically your body will absorb your hidden emotions on a cellular level, if you continue to live your life on a lower frequency, feeling stressed, anxious, guilty, fearful, with judgement, sadness or anger, the chances are your body is storing the emotions you are hiding from. You can easily take charge of your thinking when you know how, it becomes a new habit, like cleaning your teeth.
As a Self-Transformation and Relationship Coach, Mentor, Energy healer (studying the energy body over 3 years), Health and Well-being Practitioner in several holistic interventions, SEEKing the steps to think new thoughts is the game-changer to the life and relationship you truly deserve.
Here's a short exercise to start you off. When you feel any tension in your body, what situation is also going on around you at that moment? Notice any tension, discomfort, or the dominant emotion. If it could speak to you, what would it say? Listen to the answer then change one negative thought into an empowering positive one. Feel what it feel like in your body!
Try saying......I am....and fill in the gap. e.g. I am powerful, I am strong, I am determined. See how you body feels!
How you approach your body and understanding of yourself will help you understand someone else if you are ready and seeking a more loving and happier relationship that can work and last.
The next 2 day program is coming up this month 22nd-23rd March. Interested?
22nd and 23rd March 2018
If you want to transform your relationship happiness, are ready to settle down and want to RECOGNISE and ATTRACT someone extraordinary and understand the steps to BUILD a relationship that works, BOOK your seat today and call Karen to arrange
your FREE 15-minute consultation call to check it is right for you!
Or why not explore your very own Free 7 Day Trial Taster to F.I.N.D. and Accelerate your Relationship Success Online Course you can complete in your own time.
Karen Marshall - www.Love Coaching You.com
More and more couples are divorcing in retirement. It’s either one of the most painful, emotional and financially life-changing experiences to go through, or it’s a ticket to freedom. But why do people in retirement, nowadays, have an increased chance of filing for divorce?
According to the Office of National Statistics (ONS) dramatic changes in life expectancy have triggered individuals to think if they still want to grow old together. At age 60 or 65, both men and women can still live 30 more years nowadays compared to the early 90's. So, with the kids already old enough to live by themselves, people are thinking "Do I want to live 30 more years of this?"
The Telegraph 8th November 2017 (see link below) mentioned another reason, the "Silver-Fox " phenomenon with men living longer, and still retaining a wandering eye. It also works both ways with women "Cougars", strong independent women, going for the younger man if she is not having her needs fulfilled with her current partner.
Significantly, the figures show that, in stark contrast to other divorce age groups, men over 60 are as likely to file for divorce as women. Overall there were 15,300 people of either gender over the age of 60 getting divorced in 2011 (the last official figures). By contrast in 1991, there were just 8,700.
Perhaps retirement is becoming a later-life crisis? We are thinking of ourselves if we don't have kids to take care of or have needs that aren't fully satisfied. Or, there’s the so-called "bucket-list". Travel the world or move to another country.
As a Relationship and Self-Transformation Coach, Holistic Health and Well-being Therapist, and my personal journey over 20 years I discovered what DOES WORK finding and building a more loving and happier relationship. I now share the most rewarding relationship of my life with my husband I have now been with for almost 10 years. Speaking from experience and 7 years of research to find my answers, qualified education and applying what I learned to attract my now life partner to me, if you are considering separation or divorce, whatever your age, wouldn’t it be worth one last shot to invest 2 days of your time, in the Relationship MOT I offer couples, singles or divorced clients looking for a meaningful relationship?
What you learn and discover in just 2-Days will positively transform your approach and future happiness, possibly with your current partner, or someone new. Also, save you valuable time from making the same mistakes (you are unlikely to even be aware of). Not forgetting the 75K-150K plus your divorce will cost you with legal fees, splitting your assets, pensions, selling your house or buying a new home, and of course the emotional heartache to everyone, including your family.
The 2 Day New Relationship Skills Coaching Program will certainly empower and motivate you to accelerate your life in the right direction. You would discover the informed answers how to BUILD a much stronger, happier and more loving relationship together. Or how to RECOGNISE, FIND and ATTRACT someone new that is right for you.
Lastly, these are some wise words you may wish to consider. Always choose your next steps in love wisely. Your partner or any new potential partner you invest your heart, emotions, energy and life in, will impact your health, happiness, future aspirations, your dreams and the rest of your life, so choose love wisely! Most people don't know how to RECOGNISE if someone is right for them, the most important decision you will make before you start to date, or fall in love again. Then it's too late to turn back.
Before you repeat the same mistakes (you may not even be aware of) consider investing 2 days of your life to take your own relationship MOT that will save you years of more heartache. What price would you pay, if you knew you could discover the knowledge, positively accelerate your happiness and relationship journey, if you could find your RIGHT relationship instead?
Please note, that coaching is NOT a therapy. Coaching will empower, motivate and accelerate the choices you make, to help you move from where you are now, to where you want to be so much faster than you will on your own.
Contact Karen to arrange your FREE 15- minute no obligation introduction call to help you decide on your next steps click here. Or discover when the next 2 Day Relationship Masterclass is coming up click here.
Telegraph link and resource:
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/divorce/10225335/Til-retirement-us-do-part-silver-splitter-divorces-up-by-three-quarters-in-generation.html
Finding love isn’t always easy if you are a woman in your late 30’s, 40’s or 50’s+ and you find yourself single or divorced a while and you want to avoid more heartache. But get this. You still have an amazing gift – your FREEDOM TO CHOOSE.
If you have never married before, would love to settle down, or you have been divorced a while with children and co-parenting with an ex. partner and you are considering dating. You may find it hard living alone, coping through the ups and downs of life, supporting yourself financially, emotionally and mentally. The right life skills would give you the emotional scaffolding to feel stronger inside and also help you to better support your children as you lead them by a new healthy communication example.
There are many times you may feel vulnerable living as a single woman or parent. These such times you would love to be loved and cherished. It is also often too easy to reach out to someone new if you are feeling needy of being loved. Be warned, you are also likely to get hurt again.
Today I want to motivate you with a new choice to find someone extraordinary if you are prepared to help yourself and do what it takes to change your life into a much happier, more loving and fulfilling future you truly deserve.
There are a lot of amazing men out there, but first you need to take responsibility for your 50% of the relationship you want in your life, particularly if you have been heartbroken too many times. What do I mean? It is far to easy to pass blame to a partner if he didn't meet your needs. It is also your responsibility to consider what part did you play in your previous relationships break down for it to end. Did you take responsibility for your emotions instead of telling a partner they upset you?
There are many reasons relationships end, you may have been left the victim, but also you may be sabotaging your relationship(s) without realising it. Your subconscious could be protecting you from being hurt again. e.g. you may push someone away from you because they are getting too close emotionally for the fear of being hurt again.
When you begin to listen much more loudly to the words you use, how you communicate and talk to yourself inside your head, what you say and how you speak to your colleagues at work, your friends and family. Do you talk positively about yourself, or put yourself down? This is a good indicator of your self-esteem and self-confidence. Or maybe, you continue to tell yourself you keep meeting the same type of men, or you cannot trust anyone because you were hurt previously. How you talk to yourself right now will determine the type of man you attract to you.
Imagine you are speaking to a magical genie. You hear yourself saying - men let you down, you are fearful of being hurt again. The words you say to yourself, your genie will continue to deliver what you ask for! Its called the law of attraction or your self-fulling prophecy a subject I could talk to you about for hours.
To start your new journey, it's important to become aware of your language, negative and positive, to change your self-awareness and language into what you DO WANT, instead of what you don't want.
To do this takes practice, on a daily basis to create new neuropathways your brain begins to refer to instead of your old way of thinking where you are right now. When you become aware of the way you communicate, think and behave you will more easily transform and change your approach next time.
In your previous relationships, did you communicate your needs clearly, did you use protest behaviour (e.g. become moody, indirectly say you are fine when inside you feel upset, or use tit for tat approach and not speak to each other for hours or days, or did you communicate your deeper emotions and needs clearly)?
Today the best advice I can give you, having walked my talk, is take the time to learn more about yourself NOW and how you tick, think, behave and communicate. If you want to meet someone extraordinary you will instinctively recognise your Mr or Mrs Right when you meet them. This recognition will happen quickly when you’ve taken the time to understand yourself on a much deeper level, spending time loving you, building a relationship with yourself to feel more self-confident, resilient and happier in your own skin and life. Your energy and the frequency you then emit will also change.
There are two scenarios I want you to consider. The first one. How confident do you feel in business based on your personal performance on a scale of zero up to 10? If 10=highest number, what number would you give yourself on this scale? If you are above 8 you are pretty self-assured and are doing a great job. You may be at the top of your game and doing a great job. You know your stuff.
Now scenario two. Now ask yourself. How confident do you feel in yourself at recognising a man, someone new, who can easily communicate, share similar values and interests, also satisfy your deeper needs to be there for you through the ups and downs of life, beyond sexual chemistry? Most people would possibly give a much lower number on the scale of zero up to 10. Would you agree?
If you are learning anything new at work, or you recognise you need to learn a new skill to perform better in your job, to work more efficiently and effectively, you would go on a course to improve your skill set.
As a Life Coach (now specialising as a Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Relationship and Well-being Expert qualified to accelerate your personal happiness and relationship success, learning life-changing skills today will change your relationship perspective, how you approach a new relationship and you will reset your heart, head and life in a new positive happier direction. You would also be better equipped to attract the man you want to attract to you and begin to build a much stronger relationship together because you have the relationship skills to do so.
Today I would like to invite you to improve your relationship skillset, to discover and accelerate your relationship proficiency, discover what's important to you about the relationship you want to share your life with, how to improve your communication skills in your relationship, how you deal with conflict to bring love back into the flow so much more quickly. When you discover your deeper needs, you will more easily support a new partner's deeper needs. It makes sense doesn't it?
Learning these skills you will become the best version of yourself and the best partner you can be to someone new. You will more easily recognise if a man is aligned with you emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually very quickly. You will have the skills to understand a man is naturally wired and capable of giving you what you want emotionally to build a more rewarding, loving and connected relationship that can work and last, that is right or you.
The greatest gift you can give yourself this Christmas is the gift to super-accelerate your next steps towards the man you would love to attract to you. How you feel in your heart and mind right now, will determine the type of man you attract to you. If you want to avoid meeting the same men, to recognise someone extraordinary (they need to be sharing your life and heart) I would like to introduce to you a FREE 14 Day Relationship Coaching Taster (that will only take you 90 minutes to complete) or 10 minutes a day over 9 days. If you then wish to continue through the program I am only charging £97 to accelerate your next steps with life-transforming coaching exercises to set you on a new pathway in 2019.
I am delighted to introduce you an online experience you can discover right now if it is right for you. Are you ready to invest a few hours of your time to recognise and build a more connected relationship, to get clear about what's important to you, to discover why you could be sabotaging yourself without realising it and whether someone is capable of satisfying your deeper needs?
To accelerate your next steps to find the love and partner you truly deserve in 2019, let me help you this Christmas time.