Is an emotive question and will mean something different to everyone especially if you have experienced heartache and relationship breakdown before. It’s also one of the hardest decisions you will make. So let me give you the informed knowledge, wisdom and coaching education if any of the following points resonate with you:
To make the right decision to save or rebuild what you have together or separate or divorce if this is the best way forward, don't base your decision on ignorance without seeking expert relationship and coaching support first.
My advice speaking to you as a qualified Relationship and Well-being Expert. Life Coach and Mentor. Also speaking personally from experience I have successfully transformed my relationship journey to know what it takes to build a more loving and rewarding relationship that can work. It’s important you remember this. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side of the fence. It is also highly likely you will repeat the same mistakes and feel the same way in another new relationship unless you shift your perspective.
Let’s take a minute to consider your relationship challenges and how to overcome them. To learn a new skill at work, you would go on a course. To feel fitter, you would practice keeping fit. To learn to drive, you would drive. To run a marathon, you would run.
It’s the same principle in your relationship. To gain new relationship skills you will need to practice them.
When you do this, you will positively impact your relationship experience, possibly save and rebuild your relationship. If couples’ therapy or relate counselling is not for you. decide to accelerate your self-awareness with the priceless empowering knowledge below.
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One human need essential in life is self-growth and self-development.
Without them, you will stay stuck. If you are studying for a qualification, learning a new hobby, reading books to expand your thinking and mind, you are constantly shifting your self-awareness.
If you want a more loving, deeply connected and fulfilling relationship, let me expand your mind.
On a scale of zero up to 10 (10= the highest number) what number would you give your self-awareness? If it is 7 or below, what can you do differently to increase this number? Let me show you how.
In my quest towards the relationship survival revolution, if you are you considering separation or divorce, you could save or rebuild what you have together before it’s too late:
Secondly, if you have children, when you decide to invest in your self-awareness you will lead your children with a new example. Before you make a life-changing decision based on ignorance, taking a different perspective is the most precious gift you will give your relationship and your children (who are highly likely to suffer from mental health problems going through separation or divorce with you). So consider your options wisely.
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It will only take you 10 minutes a day, to finish your FREE online 90 minutes Relationship Success Taster including a few simple exercises to shift your perspective. So you have everything to gain!
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If you are looking for answers, this is a massive signpost to help and guide you to make the right decision!
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If you continue to WAIT for the right man to arrive in your life, and only focus all your energy on your career, friends, family, hobbies and social interests, you could be wasting valuable time waiting for Mr Right to turn up. Before you realise, another 1, 2, or 5 years will pass you by, which is precious time if you are now much older in your 30's, 40's, 50's plus and don't want to keep making the same relationship mistakes.
It's important to consider if you have been single for a while, if you meet a new man unexpectedly, you could possibly get involved too quickly if you don't have any understanding of what you DO WANT from another relationship, before it starts. If this is the case, the chances are, you are likely to repeat the same relationship mistakes again (you might not even aware until you identify them).
With Coaching support you will quickly and easily identify who is right for you, before you invest your heart, emotions and life with Mr Wrong. Any new relationship can end as quickly as it starts, if you don't get the basics right before you get involved (especially if your attraction is based on sexual attraction). It will be short-lived and is more unlikely to last. However, if you do the work to understand what DOES WORK, your life could change in a way you never expected. It happened for me, so it can certainly happen for you if you are ready and willing to learn new relationship skills.
I am sure you would happily learn a new skill at work for your job, or something you really wanted to do. and required more knowledge to do it much better to get the results you wanted. The same applies in your relationships. If you want to RECOGNISE your Mr Right, or discover how to become the BEST PARTNER you can be, you need to learn new relationship skills to a) discern and recognise Mr Right, is right for you. This will be the most important decision you will make choosing your next potential partner so invest your heart and head wisely. b) Without the right awareness you could be setting yourself up for failure and more heartache.
You believe.......YOU will know, when the right man arrives in your life?
How will you know he is right for you beyond looks and chemistry? If you don’t understand your values or what you believe is important about Mr Right, you could be sabotaging or stopping yourself from being open to him e.g. if you are fearful about being hurt again or let down. Firstly you would need to explore your belief about fear and how you can change it, then get clear about what type of guy you DO want to share your life with. When you discover what's important, Mr Right will instinctively jump out to you when you know what type of questions to ask him. If he has similar values, lots in common with you, communicates effectively and is aligned with your lifestyle and dreams, you will be better equipped to quickly decide if he is right or wrong for you. So get really clear about what you DO WANT before you start any new relationship.
You believe.....YOU cannot go looking for love?
It’s important to discover how you can become the CHOOSER, instead of waiting to be CHOSEN. When you do this, you will accelerate your relationship opportunities. When you take different steps and actions to change your approach, you will significantly increase and alter the course of your life e.g. If you enjoy cycling, go to cycling social events , or go to fitness shows if you enjoy fitness. You never know where you will meet a guy who is aligned with you. When you go somewhere or do something different today and open yourself up to new exciting opportunities, you will increase your chances of meeting a guy you really want to attract to you.
You believe...the right man will make you happy
When you take time to discover how to become the best version of yourself, you will become an even more amazing partner for your Mr Right. When you learn to love yourself unconditionally, improve your inner happiness, your inner confidence and look after your body, personal self-development is key. Taking responsibility for your own happiness, will kick start any new relationship when you already have your own healthier foundations in place, before you invest your body and life with another partner you pin your hopes and hope will make you happy.
Imagine, if you feel insecure and unhappy inside, you are more likely to attract a similar guy who is insecure with similar destructive relationship behaviour patterns. Or possibly attract, a controlling or more challenging relationship that will make you unhappy . Remember, like attracts like. When you understand how to start feeling happier, become aware of the obstacles and beliefs holding you back your awareness will change, then you will attract or become more open to a different type of guy, who is aligned with you on a much deeper level beyond looks and chemistry.
Top Tip - Become the person you want to meet! Embrace your feminine power, your energy, the strong woman you are, work on the limiting beliefs stopping you or holding you back from the loving relationship you want. When you do this, your beauty will shine and radiate inside and out. Your energy and mind are then aligned to attract the right man into you life, like no other man you have known before.
As Wayne Dyer once said. "When you change the things you look at........the things you look at change". Similarly with your thinking. Change your thinking and your life experience will change in an unimaginable way.
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When it comes to relationships there are two non-negotiable factors for a intimate and successful partnership to work. The first is communication, the second is trust.
Without trust there is very little chance that your relationship will survive or work the way you want it to. Trust is the foundation to build any relationships because quite simply, love is built on trust. As human beings we are hard wired to love people that we place our trust in which takes time to nurture and build.
Vulnerable feelings and emotions will inevitably come up when you meet someone new and fall in love. Working at your relationships also take a lot of commitment, and trust is the basis of any happy and lasting relationship if you are looking to attract Mr Right you would love to settle down and build a future with.
So just how do you gain trust? You may have heard the old adage “trust takes a lifetime to build and a moment to break”. As with most things in life, trust needs to be earned, it’s not automatically given.
Here are 7 Top Tips on how you can build trust in a relationship.
1.Be willing to trust.
Your heart needs to be open to trust before you decide to date a guy if you’re looking for a meaningful or lasting relationship. You have to be willing and open to trust in the first place. Trust is reciprocal, so you can only begin by speaking authentically your feelings inside in a secure and loving way. Or possibly, you may need to work on a limiting belief, to change your mindset if ‘I don’t trust men’ is a belief you are still carrying deep inside you. Such a belief will only continue to sabotage any new relationship unless you discover how to create a more positive and empowering thought instead.
2.Decide what trust means to YOU.
Trust means different things to different people. So get a notepad and just jot down what trust means to you. What comes in to your mind when you think about trust? How would you show that you trust your partner? If you’re clear about what it means to you, you’ll be more successful as you start to build trust.
3.Find out what trust means to a man your dating.
Before you fall in love with someone new, it’s important to ask any man what he thinks about trust and what it means to him. Take some time to discuss the subject, to make sure that you’re on the same page. It's a great starting point and foundation before you enter any new or longer-term relationship.
4.Be trustworthy yourself.
Don’t place the onus on trust with your date or partner. You too have to be trust worthy. Make sure you do what you say you will do, follow through on commitments, be dependable and keep your promises to help your partner feel more secure and trusting in you. So ask yourself the question “Would you trust you?”
5.Keep communicating.
Trust and communication go hand in hand whatever stage your relationship is at. Tell each other how you feel, not what you partner wants to hear, because the moment your thoughts and feelings are withheld, trust becomes harder to sustain if you don’t express yourself or communicate clearly. Loving feelings can easily breakdown, so remember it’s important to discuss your emotions in a secure and loving way if something is bothering you.
6.Know that trust can be chipped away at.
Trust isn’t always just broken by a series of lies or an affair. Sometimes trust issues develop over time. So it’s essential that you recognise the patterns and ensure that you address and work on those little niggles as they happen so you don’t end up with one big argument. When you say what you truthfully feel inside, love will more easily come back into flow once again when you clear any unspoken words you're holding onto. So don't let emotions build up into resentment, this is a difficult breaking point, which can certainly stop any intimacy or sexual chemistry unless you deal with your emotions in the correct way.
7.Building trust in a relationship is crucial for its success.
Learn to see the joy in trust and how you can build and support a new partner to feel more secure. Nurture trust in your own life first, continue to be open and honest, and a more rewarding, happier and loving relationship will grow into what you believe about trust!
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If you're Really Not Ready for a relationship yet, the FIND Love Accelerator 4 Step Formula will also help to educate, empower and transform where you are now, to where you want to be, before you start dating again. If you're looking for a 10/10 relationship, you need to start with YOU first.
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