If you value empowerment and want to be a more successful businesswoman, wife, mother, sister, colleague, girlfriend or friend, investing time learning about yourself will help you achieve greatness in your life!
Sheryl Sandberg is indeed a winning woman who has conquered it all but has also lived through adversity and heartbreak to bounce back in her life!
It will support you through any personal challenge in life or help you achieve greater business success. It’s also a title headline to empower other women Sheryl supports within her Foundation*.
Her inspiring story below, truly resonates with me to continue helping more winning women like you, to live your life more mindfully, powerfully with the understanding to tap into your true potential for life-changing results.
When you learn new skills to feel happier, more confident, how to become resilient, you already have the assets you need when you understand how to tap into the power of your mind, body and energy. It’s the emotional scaffolding you can harness and use when your human spirit is tested.
Life can be hard sometimes, when you hear sad stories, loss of life on a daily basis, or the time you need strength to push yourself forward with determination, persistence and courage, in the face of doubt or uncertainty. Or feel like giving up or giving in. Life will throw us curve balls, of redundancy, relationship breakdown, health conditions, losing loved ones when we don’t expect it. Maybe you are thinking right now, it only happens to other people.
Working as a Self-Transformation Coach I empower clients how to be mindful and resilient. If you wish to be inspired here is my FREE 4 Life-Changing Steps Every Woman Needs to Know, video mini-course including some quick and easy mindfulness coaching exercises to understand where you are right now on a scale of zero to 10 (if you are already practising mindfulness).
Becoming familiar with the way you think, will give you new perspective and awareness to build your resilience muscle. It’s called mindfulness living in the moment, making new conscious positive thoughtful choices for life-changing results. You will think, feel and behave in a new way to approach your personal challenges, business or relationship goals very differently.
Adversity happened to me Karen Marshall. I overcome depression, healing a 10-year skin condition without taking medication, working through redundancy at a time my Mum died unexpectedly and a new relationship ended. Today I have transformed my health, happiness, business approach, relationship success living more mindfully now my resilient muscle is much stronger. I wouldn’t be the person I am today, or passionate about my business LoveCoachingYou.com or the Winning Woman Academy without living mindfully and becoming more resilient in my own life. Today I have the tools, education and understanding to be empathetic to accelerate other women’s lives. My goal for next year is now my mission!
To empower over a 1000 woman (or men if they are willing to look inside) to love themselves, inside and outside, to feel happier, more confident, resilient, to achieve greater personal happiness, business or relationship success everyone deserves by the end of December 2018!
With a net worth over US$1B, due to her stock holdings in Facebook and other companies. In 2012 Time Magazine named her among 100 of the most influential people. She Moved to Silicon Valley in 2001 to join Google Inc. from serving under President Bill Clinton. In 2007 Mark Zuckerberg met Sandberg and thought she was a “perfect fit” for the role of COO she started in 2008.
Sheryl is not only a businesswoman role model, has a loving family and successful career. Unfortunately, her equally successful husband Dave Goldberg sadly died unexpectedly of a severe heart attack in 2015.
Even with enormous grief, Sheryl returned to work after 10 days (In Jewish traditions, the mourning period for a spouse lasts for 30 days). After which, she posted publicly on Facebook, an unfiltered account of her grief-stricken month, attracting more than 74,000 comments to date. Strangers all over the world flooded her Facebook page with tales of their own tragedies and heartbreaks.
She then co-wrote Option B, a partly personal memoir and part practical manual how to withstand catastrophe and grow from adversity. She renamed her Lean In foundation to the Sheryl Sandberg & Dave Goldberg Family Foundation empowering women to achieve their ambitions and help people build resilience to find meaning in the face of adversity.
As a Self-Transformation Coach who has walked my talk, I also help other Winning Women with the tools to build a more mindful and resilient lifestyle. Also a qualified Health and Well-being Therapist in 5 different interventions. Mentor. Speaker, I understand the mind-body-energy connection and would love to help and accelerate your resilience and mindfulness in 2018.
The 4 Life-Changing Steps Every Woman Needs to Know
Both my 1 and 2 Day Group Coaching Masterclass Workshops follow a system I have uniquely designed to accelerate your life with the secrets I discovered over 20 years I have combined with my mind-body-energy qualified experience and personally walking my talk to discover WHAT DOES WORK.
These include:
1 Day Coaching Introduction Workshops
1 Day The Mind-Body-Energy Connection
2 Day F.I.N.D. Yourself and Get Back on Track 4 Step Formula
2 Day F.I.N.D. and Accelerate your true Potential 4 Step System
2 Day F.I.N.D. and Accelerate your Relationship Success 4 Step Formula (also available online)
3 Day F.I.N.D. Formula and Mind-Body-Energy Connection
Reference Sources:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheryl_Sandberg
Christmas and Valentines are key dates in your calendar year when you’re reminded about having a special someone in your life. It’s a time you undoubtedly become aware of what’s missing in your life if your single or divorced, when you see everyone around you sharing it with a special someone.
Imagine, if you could find someone new, you are not only attracted to, aligned with, you can effectively communicate with, in a more loving and happier relationship that works beyond 2 years: what value would you put on finding this gift?
Taking only 2 days out of your busy lifestyle, you could receive all the education, insight, proven coaching strategies and techniques (and knowledge that’s tried and tested over 20 years to discover what does work). That’s if you’ve reached an age in your life, you are prepared to achieve different results, with a potential new partner. Or you may be thinking right now, you don’t know how to even get to first base and attract the right man into your life. This programme will certainly help you too.
I am running through this with you now, to give you this most valuable nugget of information first so I don’t waste your time. If this article has already touched or resonated with you, then read on.
How can we help our future generations to build the right relationship
Love is now more disposable as the Y generation shop for it on Tinder, vs the older Baby Boomers in their 40’s/50’s who continue to remain stuck between old and new traditions. As we age and mature, finding true love becomes more competitive with a lower ratio of available men (the hunters) vs women (waiting to be hunted). An older Mr Extraordinary now has any number of older or younger women to choose from.
For you to stand you to the right man, he needs to recognise you’re a high value woman inside and out. It’s now even more important for entrepreneurial career women (waiting to be hunted) to get it right if you’re looking for extraordinary instead of second best, instead of another failed relationship.
Or, if life is whizzing by and you’re now in your 50’s plus and you are still waiting to found the right man you are aligned and compatible with. To make a relationship work you need to take a different approach if what you are doing right now it’s working.
I was the typical career woman waiting for Mr Right to turn up
Already focused on my career. At 28 I ended my 11-year first-love relationship, simply because we didn’t understand each other’s deeper needs. I was also big time naïve and believed another man would make me happier. It’s the mindset we especially follow in our 20s. But life experience has since taught me otherwise. I in fact became a symptom of society, viewing love as more disposable when I expected to meet Mr Right quite quickly and live happy ever. How wrong I was! My life certainly didn’t turn out how I expected it to. Possibly your life hasn’t turned out the way you expected it to either?
The next 13 years of my adult life 28-41, I considered myself an independent single career woman, trying to survive paying the bills and mortgage, surviving emotionally and mentally living alone without the support of the right partner. I continued dating, having short-term relationships that didn’t last beyond 2 years. Life became even more stressful doing everything alone because the 3 key reasons why career women are not finding Mr Right, below, didn’t even cross my mind.
If you find yourself in your 30’s, 40’s, 50’s and over, it can become harder with broken relationships getting in the way of finding your next special relationship if you are ready to settle down. More obstacles are likely to hold you back e.g. the way you think about men, about relationships, about yourself. Mr Right could be standing right in front of you, but the way you think could be stopping you.
As a qualified Relationship Transformation Coach, my vision is to become the voice that will transform the RELATIONSHIP SURVIVAL REVOLUTION to help thousands or millions of single or divorced career women (or men) in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s plus. I want to make a difference towards changing societies approach.
If I can help and educate women how they APPROACH FINDING A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND BUILDING ONE THAT WORKS and LASTS, I have done my job. I work with Executive clients either 1-2-1 who are time poor who want a quick solution or with groups of women. Sharing my knowledge and experience will give an accelerated learning experience, if more women (even men) want to AVOID MAKING THE SAME MISTAKES (they are likely to be unaware of).
The 3 key reasons why career women are not finding Mr Right (rightly or wrongly).
As a corporate career woman, I followed societies lead, leaving love to chance because the fairy tale tells us one day we will meet our Prince Charming and will live happy ever after. Society believes we will meet our special someone, but the chances of finding happy ever is faster declining.
Your next step……
Today, my personal journey has become my passion - to help women (or men who also want to avoid making the same mistakes), and sharing 20 years of my dating experience and relationship education. Now condensed into a 2 Day Masterclass Programme. If I can engage more women with my motivational and engaging talks, I dream of changing more lives. With my qualifications and experience of 5 different therapy interventions of the Mind-Body-Energy connection, my health and well-being experience also supports clients through their journey. What makes me unique, I truly understand how to transform lives much faster than clients can achieve alone.
Why not come along and register to attend a FREE Webinars or a Coaching Taster Events in January/February 2017 to experience some coaching exercises and how the 2 Day programme can help you. My promise is to transform your approach to FIND, BUILD and NURTURE the most rewarding relationship in your life into the future you dream of finding right now.
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My Story
I thought I would have my own family, be happily married by my mid 30’s, which in fact turned into a decade of disappointment in love, dating the wrong guys, and relationships that didn’t last beyond 2 years. During this 10-year period, when I was 33, I decided enough was enough and I took control of my own destiny and future.
One significant relationship that broke me was the catalyst for me to transform my own life. Over 6 years I immersed myself in studying, learning, re-educating myself to BECOME THE BEST PARTNER I COULD BECOME! I walked my talk, applied what I learned in my life and noticed different results with men. I was determined Mr Right would not want to let me go when I found him!
Walking onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas, on February 14th 2014 my life changed in an unbelievable way. It was Valentines Day and my dream had finally came true when I married for the first time in my life. I was 47. It was the most magical day of my life because I had worked so hard to become the best partner I could become for Dave, who is my Mr Extraordinary and has changed my life in an unimaginable way. I am the original career woman Baby Boomer (without my own children) now married to a divorcee with his own family I am very blessed to share and be part of already over 8 ½ years. My life has significantly changed because I took control to FIND, RECOGNISE, BUILD AND NURTURE a more loving and happier relationship I wanted.
Something needs to change if relationships are going to survive. Is Christmas or Valentines your reminder to do something different if you don’t want to keep making the same mistakes?
*The Daily Mail 6th Dec 2016 reported from the Office of National Statistics that Marriage and Divorce as it is lowest since 1970’s. Relationships are no longer surviving now we are living together longer and weaker relationships continue to end.
Eating a picnic breakfast on a beautiful sun kissed Australian Mandurah beach on Christmas morning, certainly made me realise how drab and grey an English Christmas can be without a dusting of snow to make the festive season magical.
It was 8.30am and the sun was blazing hot already, but it was the bright red reindeer hats that caught our attention as a family parked their towels close by. As we wished each other Merry Christmas I learned the Parker family were from Bolton having emigrated for a better life some 8 months earlier.
This chance encounter was a great reminder for me; how important meeting and choosing your right partner is in your life, when they will undoubtedly shape your future and destiny, rightly or wrongly.
This young couple would have never made such a courageous life choice, or possibly even taken the big leap of faith, if they were not aligned as a couple. Being part of the power of two, only enriched their life.
This story was similarly parallel to my own experience. For sure I wouldn't have been on such a beautiful beach Christmas Day, if I had not taken steps to understand myself first when I was single. I certainly would have not met Dave without changing my thinking and approach before we met back in 2008. Now my life has dramatically transformed into my dream and the future I wanted for so many years. Only because I had become more self-aware, I met someone as amazing as Dave who I am now happily married to, and because I was open to someone with children of his own.
It also goes to prove that the COO of Facebook, Sheryl Sandberg knows her stuff about making the right partner choices. Click here if you're a career woman wanting to know more. https://lovecoachingyou.com/857-2/
If time is passing you by, should you continue to devote all your time to your career if you no longer want to keep making the wrong relationship choices? Or, is it time to invest and focus more time and energy finding your right partner first, before the next 5 years disappear, and your still living alone.
When you invest in your own self-worth to find the happiness you seek, the power of two will certainly enrich your heart and life when you get it right. What if, you don't meet Mr Right in the next 5 years? How will this situation impact your life? www.Lovecoachingyou.com
Imagine how you would feel reaching a personal goal you’ve worked so hard towards achieving over 13 years of your life. Then one day arrives and you become overwhelmed with emotions and excitement. You cross the finish line of the race you’ve been running for years and it feels strangely amazing because you’re there. All your hard work, study and determination to succeed paid off. You’re dream just came true.
I felt the elation as I crossed this finish line on Valentines Day. I was finally getting married which made me realise just how far I had come over 13 years of learning about love and relationships. My eyes filled with happy tears as they rolled down my cheeks. I married my gorgeous soul mate, lover and best friend of 6 years, on a beautiful idyllic golden beach in the Bahamas. In the heat of the sunshine we exchanged our vows as we looked out to a turquoise crystal clear blue sea together.
Many years before it wasn’t the same story, something quite opposite. I was so disillusioned about finding true love and fed up being hurt again and again, meeting all the wrong relationship types. I had given up. Does this sounds like you?
Feeling this pain, took me to a turning point in my life. I decided to become an expert at love and relationships if I wanted to find my own happiness. I now feel passionate about helping you find the happiness and rewarding relationship you are seeking.
Are you looking for guidance from someone knowledgeable who has been where you are?
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