If January 3rd is now recognised as “Divorce Day” by solicitors who see a spike in business just after the new year, it’s obvious that the couples who stayed together over Christmas, finally gave in to start divorce proceedings.

Other relationships also end once Christmas presents have been exchanged. January then becomes the focus month to reassess if the man you are living with or have been dating is right for you.

After all, the stress of the festive season combined with dealing with close family, more time to think, no work to occupy your mind, could certainly throw a torch light on your relationship.

So how can you help your relationship survive the January blues?

1.First of all, it’s important that you take time to think about your choices

Christmas may have been the wake-up call that you needed, but it’s not the best time to make any rash decisions that could possibly affect your life.

2.Your next step is to think about whether you’re making your partner’s faults a bigger problem than they actually are.

Think about the positive aspects of your relationship, what positive qualities does your man have that makes him special and important to you?  What qualities were you first attracted to?  Remember, no body is perfect. So, who is causing the difficulties right now, you or your man?

3.Is it time to consider how you can become a better partner for your man?

To become the best 50% of your relationship you need to take responsibility for your own imperfections. Have you been putting too much emotional pressure on him? Or is it time to discover what obstacles may be holding you back from the relationship you want.  If you would love to have a more lasting and loving relationship that works, you need to become more aware of the way you think and communicate.

4.What new year resolution could help your relationship?

Instead of arguing, enjoy a date night spending some quality time together really listening to each other's needs. Recognise and acknowledge your man when he does something special for you.  He loves to feel acknowledged and appreciated.

Whether you’re in a relationship you want to improve, are dating, single and waiting to find Mr Right, what could you do to become the best 50% of the relationship you want?  To communicate better with the man, or with men, my unique F.I.ND. Love Accelerator 4 Step Formula coaching programme can help you ATTRACT a man, BUILD and NURTURE a more loving, happier and lasting relationship.

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According to a recent article published 16th November in the Daily Mail more babies have been born to women over 35 than to women under 25 for the first time since records began in the UK. This brings up the important question of whether you should just get on with having children or if you should delay starting a family and just build a career and secure a life in case Mr Right doesn’t show up.

Of course, we’re living in a world where having it all is a tad easier than previous generations.  Whilst juggling life, a career, or a family if you’re a single parent, constantly running around and shifting from one task to the next, it is possible. Although, would it be easier having a man to help you out, or can you do it on your own?

Sheryl Sandberg, in case you didn’t know, the woman who is in charge of Facebook once said that the most important career choice you’ll ever make is who you marry.

And in part, she’s right. Let’s look at it tactically for a moment, if you marry someone who has huge ambitions and is on the path to a successful career and you also want the same things, then you’re going to find someone whose on your level and who will understand the times when you need to put your career first.

However, if you marry someone whose main priority is to be the breadwinner then your work will become to support that, even if you have your own career. And whilst this type of marriage is slightly easier to hold together because you’re not playing in to the endless power struggles and rebalancing of priorities between spouses, it may not fulfil all your ambitions.

So, should you find the right man before you settle down and start building your career? Or should you get on that ladder, build your career, take care of business and then start to think about settling down and having a family? The answer to that question is never going to be an easy one, after all, it’s all down to bio-individuality and what you really want in life.

It’s important to ask yourself; where can I see myself in 5, 10, 15 years time?

But whatever you decide making sure that you find the right life partner and someone who matches you and your ambition is essential. And that’s where consulting with a good coach can help you. lovecoachingyou.com we can help you find love and happiness without having to give up on any of your ambitions.

 

Imagine how you would feel reaching a personal goal you’ve worked so hard towards achieving over 13 years of your life. Then one day arrives and you become overwhelmed with emotions and excitement. You cross the finish line of the race you’ve been running for years and it feels strangely amazing because you’re there. All your hard work, study and determination to succeed paid off. You’re dream just came true.

I felt the elation as I crossed this finish line on Valentines Day. I was finally getting married which made me realise just how far I had come over 13 years of learning about love and relationships. My eyes filled with happy tears as they rolled down my cheeks. I married my gorgeous soul mate, lover and best friend of 6 years, on a beautiful idyllic golden beach in the Bahamas. In the heat of the sunshine we exchanged our vows as we looked out to a turquoise crystal clear blue sea together.

Many years before it wasn’t the same story, something quite opposite. I was so disillusioned about finding true love and fed up being hurt again and again, meeting all the wrong relationship types. I had given up. Does this sounds like you?

Feeling this pain, took me to a turning point in my life. I decided to become an expert at love and relationships if I wanted to find my own happiness. I now feel passionate about helping you find the happiness and rewarding relationship you are seeking.

Are you looking for guidance from someone knowledgeable who has been where you are?

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