Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?
Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s. Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.
This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
Imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy. Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up. One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean? What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!
Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you. For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.
Let's take a minute to pause once more. Here's another example to consider. When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking). When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?
Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!
But be warned. Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure? You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.
To get you started, come along to:
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Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk. I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising. Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!
Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time. What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?
Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years. It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too. I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47. I cried happy tears. Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!
Today I will share on the next FREE Masterclass Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You. Come along and join it, you can simply listen.
Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory? No, you wouldn't. Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.
To uncover your blindspots, here are three of them - The Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
True love is magical when it works!
It also gets harder if you're a successful woman in your late 30s and the clock is ticking to have a family, particularly if you are still waiting to find your special person, a high-quality man to settle down with.
Or, perhaps you've been divorced for a while, or your children are growing up fast and you are feeling lonely. You're ready to start dating and find a more fulfilling and rewarding relationship with a decent man. Whether you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s or older you will truly understand and value what it means to find a more loving and happier relationship that CAN thrive, especially if you've been hurt or let down too many times. If you are feeling lost what do, it might feel like you're running a long marathon without any finish line in sight because you don't know where your finish line is, especially if you are fearful of being hurt again, but want to get it right next time. Whether you are single or divorced, let me inspire and motivate you today.
To begin any journey starts with your first step. So I have 5 easy questions. below to help you.
Before we start, consider your relationship situation with this example in mind. The London Marathon every year draws in thousands of runners. If you were participating you would recognise the importance of training to prepare your mind and body. You would eat the right foods, start running and set training goals in place. It’s the same approach for the relationship you DO want. Firstly you will need to nourish your mind, and practice new skills if you don't want to keep repeating the same dating or relationship mistakes. You would prepare yourself with the right training to reach your finish line.
To run a marathon you run, to become a singer, you sing. If you want different relationship results, you learn and practice new relationship skills
You have two options You may prefer to sprint into another relationship without any training, or find a more rewarding and lasting relationship that CAN work with the right training. Which one would you choose?
Tip – Before you start dating, or even consider another relationship, now is the perfect time to start your new relationship training, in advance of another relationship.
Becoming aware of the way you think and communicate in love (you may not even be aware of) will accelerate your results to help you Recognise, Attract, Find and Build a more loving and happier relationship that will thrive and survive. You will stand out like a unicorn to the right Mr Right, a high-quality man, you do want to attract who will not want to let you go! You will also gain a valuable toolkit to build a much stronger relationship foundation. Train in advance of dating, or another relationship. Or be warned you will repeat the same mistakes (most women are not aware of making), and attract similar men or relationships, especially if you've been hurt too many times.
To start you off, here are your Free Top 3 Dating Tips (will only take you 5 minutes to read) if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. You will discover the 3 questions every woman needs to know and get right, to attract your high-quality man (instead of settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers) who don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Or I would love to invite you to join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 4 Steps My Clients Apply To Find and Attract a High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.
Let me help you find and build your most loving and rewarding relationship that will thrive and survive!
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
www.LoveCoachingYou.com.
As the second post in my Valentine's Series, let me share with you exactly what you will find when you apply the toolkit my clients use to find and attract a high-quality man who will love, value and respect you:
The impact on your life
If you value your self-development and apply your toolkit, the right high-quality man will NOT want to let you go! You understand his needs because you understand yours!
As explained in my Dating and Relationship Paradox blog, learning your new toolkit skills in advance of dating will accelerate your results when the right man shows up! You are the unicorn he has been waiting to find!
Or the reasons you are sabotaging your chances to find the man and relationship you have dreamed about.
Uncover the 10% that could be holding you back and the 4-step toolkit approach on my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar
Look out for my next post in the Valentine's Series.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
Prince Charming, whom I call a high-quality man, will need to stand out and be extraordinary if he is going to share your life, heart, dreams, family (you want or have) and your future!
To get it right in love, the clients I work with are driven and determined successful women in business but are not getting the results they want in love.
If you would love to settle down with the high-quality man you dream of meeting and sharing your life and success with, have a go at answering the next three questions. They will give you a good indicator of any gaps in your knowledge because what you don't know, you need to know!
1- What does your male energy say about you to men?
2. Are you settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers in love?
3. How will you know if Mr Right is the right high-quality man right for you? It's a tongue twister I know.
Well how did you get on, did they make you think?
Firstly, you need to understand your energy, secondly, you deserve extraordinary, not second best. Thirdly, you need to get absolutely clear about the man you want in your life.
It will take you 5 minutes to read, to get your answers here. The Top 3 Dating Tips, every woman needs to know. Or Join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to understand the 10% you need to let go of, and the 4 steps you will need to get right if you want to attract your high-quality man.
Love is the most precious gift you can have in your life when it works! It can be all-consuming. magical, fleeting, lasting, so painful, or the most rewarding shared loving experience you have never experienced or believed to be possible. I know so!
If you are waiting for love to arrive, have been let down too many times, or have simply given up finding your high-quality man:
Come along and Join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar - to discover your blindspots, the 10% holding you back from finding the man and relationship you truly deserve!
My best advice (it's the Dating and Relationship paradox). Do the work to learn and master your 4 step toolkit, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
With Loving Wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
The celebration of love is not far away with Valentine's Day to remind us about what we feel in our hearts. In my experience, senior women in business, or at the top of their game are very successful at what they do. But the story inside is a very different picture, especially for all those women looking for a high-quality man to share life with her and their family if she has been alone as a single woman, or divorced for a while. Subconsciously I am certain most women would love to share their heart and life with the right quality man, their achievements and the life she loves. But there are many obstacles holding her back!
I meet so many women I work with, who are outwardly confident in business but give little time to loving themselves. Often this woman has lower self-worth because she is carrying a scar from being hurt before, let down in love, experiencing too much heartache or having a difficult or destructive toxic relationship. Or men ghost her, are unreliable, or don't commit (there is a reason for this). She is also likely to attract a similar type of man and repeat the same patterns unless she takes a new approach.
One client I worked with attracted narcissistic men for seven years until she changed her values and applied her toolkit approach after working with me.
Despite the reality of women feeling hurt, alone or lost (I was there once) let me tell you there are amazing men out there and - IT IS ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE TO ATTRACT AND BUILD A HIEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH A HIGH-QUALITY MAN you truly deserve to share your heart and life with.
If you love learning, you will need your toolkit of new skills, IN ADVANCE of dating, IN ADVANCE of being ready for another relationship, for very different results! The dream you want! Or you will continue to get the same results if you believe men will get hurt you, you don't trust them, they let you down, you are not young enough, etc, etc.
Learning new skills will completely transform your experience with men and how you give and receive love, plus your communication perspective will shift with your team, other C-Suite leaders, and your closest family. Your new skills will impact every area of your life, your happiness, how you feel and behave, including the way you communicate with your children, who will learn from your new example.
I know how precious love is when you find the right high-quality man because I have walked the same personal journey from being lost, applying the toolkit I created, to finding and attracting the love of my life. It's why I am so passionate about transforming my client's hearts and lives, the women hungry for the same results who are getting results using their toolkit! With heartwarming stories.
Vanessa had been married for over 20 years and I met her 3 years after her divorce. She had just completed my program and met a new chap online. Using her toolkit, her life completely changed! She is now married to Jason, the love of her life!
Over the next few weeks, I will explore the common mistakes and lessons we need to know. what it takes to find and build a thriving relationship with your high-quality man, for it to thrive and survive!
If you are looking for answers, what it takes to find a man who will love, value and respect you, join my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 10% that could be holding you back . Click to register
With loving wishes
Karenx
LoveCoachingYou.com
I know how hard you have worked to be successful in business, applying drive, and determination to achieve your success to have financial security, own your own home and live independently. But here’s the thing….
How I Achieved My Results With The Right High-Quality Man:
With Loving Wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
If you are a driven, and determined successful woman and value your self-development, regardless of where you are on your dating or early relationship journey, understanding the dating paradox will accelerate your dating success. And determine your relationship's happiness!
I hear most women say this to me. “I am not ready to start dating yet, so I don’t need any help.” It is absolutely your paradox.
During this chapter of your life, when you don’t feel ready, it’s the perfect time to do the work, to be ready.
Why? Have you heard the dilemma question; which comes first, the chicken or the egg? Whether you want to get your dating decision right or build a more loving and healthy relationship that works. What comes first? New relationship skills, or dating skills?
Yes, it is key to work on new relationship communication skills IN ADVANCE of dating. In advance, of being ready for another relationship. So I would highly recommend if you are a woman who values your self-growth and development, learning a new toolkit while you are single, then you will get very different dating results with the quality men you attract to you and the skills to build a healthy thriving relationship that works and can survive.
If you are dating. And your previous relationship history has left you feeling fearful deep down of getting hurt again. Be warned. You are 98% likely to repeat the same patterns and mistakes in another relationship (without realising it) unless you shift your dating approach. Applying a new toolkit anyone can learn especially if you love learning about yourself will accelerate finding and building the loving relationship every woman deserves.
You will reset your inner compass to discern if a man is compatible with you on a much deeper emotional level before you meet him.
It's easy to discern from out the outside how a man makes you feel, but what counts is on the inside, the way he communicates, values, respects and shows you love. You will also become the better partner for him and more easily navigate your challenges together, without him realising it's you.
Early stages of dating we are testing each other's boundaries, it's normal, but when little niggles become much bigger, how we deal with conflict will make or break any relationship. Bringing love back into flow quickly is an art to building a thriving loving relationship, it's also the glue that holds love together.
Discovering your communication style is the first critical set to recognise the right high-quality man, in advance of meeting him. Recognising how you communicate, will help you to easily understand his communication style, and to know that he is wired and compatible to satisfy your deeper emotional needs beyond chemistry, sexual attraction, shared interests and values. Then you will significantly increase your dating and relationship survival chances! Understanding your personal communication style is your first step.
You now have 2 choices:
Go to 1 below if you are NOT dating, happily single, or remotely interested in another relationship right now. But want the skills in advance of being ready.
Or go to 2, if you are dating.
Now let me explain the perfect chicken and egg dating paradox example. Perhaps this statement resonates with you, particularly if you are NOT ready for another relationship or want to date right now.
E.g., I don’t want another relationship, I only want to focus on myself, my business, and my children (if you do have a family). I am not interested in dating or need any help right now. I just want to focus on myself.
Now think about this question. Would it be more beneficial to become aware of your likely relationship or dating obstacles, before, or after, you feel ready for another relationship? This is the most precious piece of advice you need to know while you are healing your heart and life- do the work, your theory, while you are single! Or waste more valuable time, meeting the wrong men when you are ready.
It took me 20 years to figure out how to attract the right high-quality man, so you don't have to waste any more time making the same mistake women make without realising.
Jo, one client I worked with, dated narcissistic men for 7 years before she took my new toolkit approach.
To discover the 4 steps my clients use to find and attract their high-quality man who will love, value and respect them (without settling for second best) Join my next FREE Masterclass Training WEBINAR
2. If you are ACTIVELY DATING. The majority of women wait to be chosen (hunted) by a man. If you are endlessly chasing dates, feeling lost and want to know how to attract the right high-quality man, learning the skills now to become the chooser in love, join me on the next Masterclass Training Webinar, to discover the 4 steps you need to know to get your most critical dating decision right.
If you no longer want second best (or the scraps and men who treat you like a doormat) and want to meet the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you! Let's get you started:
Option 1 - Re-ignite your self-confidence. get the Top 3 Dating Tips right in advance of dating Click here for your download.
Option 2 - Join The Next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar
To uncover your 10% you need to let go of to attract the right high-quality man. And get the 4 steps you will need to know about your toolkit. Click here. to register your spot.
What step will you take, option 1 or 2?
I would love to fill millions of hearts and lives with the love every woman truly deserves! Let yours be one of them!
Karen x
LoveCoachingYou.com
If you are a high-achieving woman, or supermum and want to get your dating decision right, you will need to value your self-development if what you have been doing so far on your dating or relationship journey hasn't been working out for you.
Your brain will always protect you from seemingly dangerous situations. Especially, if you think deep down negatively about men, relationships, or yourself. Your subconscious brain is programmed to divert your attention when your fight or flight response is activated to keep you away from another stressful situation your brain regards as dangerous e.g. even a dating situation. Or you may have been invited to a lovely social event that you know eligible men are attending, but you decide not to go because you are too busy, but deep down you prefer to avoid going to protect yourself (e.g. for the fear of being hurt again). This subconscious behaviour will continue to sabotage your chances. You also need to know your Step 1 postcode and address to recognise the right Mr Right, Step 2 is to understand how to recognise a man communicates with you that glue that will build a stronger relationship.
Unless you become aware of the way you think, and what you believe to be true, and the way you communicate. your magic genie will continue to deliver your self-fulfilling prophecy, the man you believe deep down will turn up e.g. a guy who will let you down, want you for sex, is not committed.
To accelerate your dating journey in minutes, instead of the 20 years it took me to figure you out.
2. Or discover your blindspots, and what is stopping you on my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar.
- Your love quote today -
Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused. Paulo Coelho.
To unravel your confusion, and fill your heart and life with your missing ingredient, let me help you get it right if you are ready to Recognise, Attract and Build your most loving high-quality loving relationship that will thrive and survive!
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
Separation and divorce is the most difficult emotional situation you may be faced with right now. It is extremely stressful and painful and often associated with feeling bereaved. It will also very much depend on your personal situation, the circumstances of your separation and how you are coping emotionally and mentally with your challenges. How you feel mentally, your self-worth and self-confidence will also impact your energy levels physically. If you are feeling stuck emotionally, a priceless toolkit of wisdom and strategies will give you the right emotional scaffolding to help you regain your strength. Or you want the answers how to pick yourself up and rebuild yourself mentally and emotionally - to get your life back.
Any breakdown is a massive life-changing turning point as you begin to learn to survive as a single woman, mum or business woman. Men will also go through big adjustments, but will deal with their emotions differently.
If you are finding it hard to cope there is help at hand offering you powerful coping strategies and techniques, the priceless life skills to become more resilient, confident, happier and mentally stronger. Any broken relationship can take time to heal especially if you are feeling the victim.
How are you coping mentally and emotionally right now? On a scale of zero (lowest number) up to 10 (10 = the highest number), what number would you give yourself on this scale? If your number is lower than a 7 it is a true indicator you may value some help that would give you the tools to navigate your challenges more effectively. Firstly, it is time to spend loving you once more, to rebuild how you are feeling inside.
To help you reach the next number up your scale, if this is 7 or below, I have a few options to help you.
Let's have a quick 20-30 FREE chat to discuss your situation and I will expertly guide you with your next steps. To arrange your no obligation call, click here.
Your body is undoubtedly absorbing the emotional stress and anxiety you are feeling and will often manifest in the body as anxiety, muscular tension, headaches, high blood pressure, sleepless nights, mood changes, depression and emotional exhaustion. These are just some of the symptoms your body will show you if you are listening loudly enough especially as 75% of illness is mostly stress-related. If yo uare taking time off, feeling unwell or poorly I am not surprised. When you understand how to take control of your thinking and emotions, you will also begin to feel more energised and happier too so I would love to help you!
A) Whether you are feeling emotionally stuck and want to rebuild yourself. Or b) you may be in a situation you want answers to save or rebuild your relationship. Or c) you want informed knowledge to know that separation or divorce is the best option. I will personally tailor for you a healthy communication coaching approach (that is not therapy or counselling). I will truly empower you to get you back on track! There is nothing like this coaching programme on the market. More Berkshire lawyers in Newbury, Oxford and Windsor are promoting my services as they recognise just how beneficial my combined professional coaching and holistic expertise is more helpful for clients in your situation. If you are looking for a warm, friendly, professional expert to help you, I would be happy to speak to you asap.
It's important to recognise you need time to heal and invest in your personal well-being and deeper needs if you are feeling emotional or finding it difficult to cope. Or you will feel like you’re running a long marathon without any finish line ahead if you simply bury your feelings as a coping mechanism. If you do this, your emotions are more likely to manifest physically in your body if they are not acknowledged. With my help as a Relationship Expert and Wellbeing Expert you will be supported holistically over a period of time.
Imagine when you cut yourself. Any open wound takes time to naturally heal. It is the same with your heart. You may need time to possibly rebuild your confidence and support to heal the emotional wounds you are carrying inside. Learning to love and nurture yourself, looking after your health and well-being, giving yourself the right nutrition, taking time to sleep will all help you on your healing journey to re-ignite your zest for life once more. .
If you value your self-worth and your self-development, with my help, you will be better equipped to transform your thinking and how you feel with your own helpful toolkit of strategies. Firstly let's have a chat for you to find out how we can work together.
This is an important point for you to consider while you are healing. If you are already focusing on your children and work, getting you back on track to rebuild yourself, it's important to start resetting your compass towards a new healthier direction, particularly if you have had an abusive or controlling partner. I will support you now to rediscover a new approach. May be you are showing an okay face to the world, but inside you want the right support, if therapy or relationship counselling is not right for you. Or subconsciously you will repeat making the same mistakes again in your future. Having walked my own healing journey, right now is absolutely the time to start working together.
Dr Wayne Dyer the famous American philosopher said: “When you change the things you see the things you see change”. So, when you discover the steps to change your perspective, thinking and how you feel, you will see life differently that may be inconcievalbe right now,
Let's have a FREE 20-30 minute Consultation Call. This intial call will give you an overview of how I work for you to decide if my offer is right for you and your personal situation.
We will spend time focusing on you and your needs, what is right for you with an opportunity to experience the healthy communication programme for yourself. This meeting is face-to-face. I will tell you about it on our consultation call how this step will be helpful for you.
The healthy communication programme, a proven, tried and tested approach with strategies and techniques that work, combines my personal and professional skills that works,
With 20 years of wisdom and insight, you will no longer have to muddle through feeling alone, feeling the pain inside, or the heartache you have endured for so long.
What is important for you to resolve right now? If you don't get this area of your life handled, how will your situation impact you mentallly, emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually? Contact Karen for your FREE 30 Minute No Obligation Call to decife if I am the right expert to transform your life and happiness.
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If you continue to WAIT for the right man to arrive in your life, and only focus all your energy on your career, friends, family, hobbies and social interests, you could be wasting valuable time waiting for Mr Right to turn up. Before you realise, another 1, 2, or 5 years will pass you by, which is precious time if you are now much older in your 30's, 40's, 50's plus and don't want to keep making the same relationship mistakes.
It's important to consider if you have been single for a while, if you meet a new man unexpectedly, you could possibly get involved too quickly if you don't have any understanding of what you DO WANT from another relationship, before it starts. If this is the case, the chances are, you are likely to repeat the same relationship mistakes again (you might not even aware until you identify them).
With Coaching support you will quickly and easily identify who is right for you, before you invest your heart, emotions and life with Mr Wrong. Any new relationship can end as quickly as it starts, if you don't get the basics right before you get involved (especially if your attraction is based on sexual attraction). It will be short-lived and is more unlikely to last. However, if you do the work to understand what DOES WORK, your life could change in a way you never expected. It happened for me, so it can certainly happen for you if you are ready and willing to learn new relationship skills.
I am sure you would happily learn a new skill at work for your job, or something you really wanted to do. and required more knowledge to do it much better to get the results you wanted. The same applies in your relationships. If you want to RECOGNISE your Mr Right, or discover how to become the BEST PARTNER you can be, you need to learn new relationship skills to a) discern and recognise Mr Right, is right for you. This will be the most important decision you will make choosing your next potential partner so invest your heart and head wisely. b) Without the right awareness you could be setting yourself up for failure and more heartache.
You believe.......YOU will know, when the right man arrives in your life?
How will you know he is right for you beyond looks and chemistry? If you don’t understand your values or what you believe is important about Mr Right, you could be sabotaging or stopping yourself from being open to him e.g. if you are fearful about being hurt again or let down. Firstly you would need to explore your belief about fear and how you can change it, then get clear about what type of guy you DO want to share your life with. When you discover what's important, Mr Right will instinctively jump out to you when you know what type of questions to ask him. If he has similar values, lots in common with you, communicates effectively and is aligned with your lifestyle and dreams, you will be better equipped to quickly decide if he is right or wrong for you. So get really clear about what you DO WANT before you start any new relationship.
You believe.....YOU cannot go looking for love?
It’s important to discover how you can become the CHOOSER, instead of waiting to be CHOSEN. When you do this, you will accelerate your relationship opportunities. When you take different steps and actions to change your approach, you will significantly increase and alter the course of your life e.g. If you enjoy cycling, go to cycling social events , or go to fitness shows if you enjoy fitness. You never know where you will meet a guy who is aligned with you. When you go somewhere or do something different today and open yourself up to new exciting opportunities, you will increase your chances of meeting a guy you really want to attract to you.
You believe...the right man will make you happy
When you take time to discover how to become the best version of yourself, you will become an even more amazing partner for your Mr Right. When you learn to love yourself unconditionally, improve your inner happiness, your inner confidence and look after your body, personal self-development is key. Taking responsibility for your own happiness, will kick start any new relationship when you already have your own healthier foundations in place, before you invest your body and life with another partner you pin your hopes and hope will make you happy.
Imagine, if you feel insecure and unhappy inside, you are more likely to attract a similar guy who is insecure with similar destructive relationship behaviour patterns. Or possibly attract, a controlling or more challenging relationship that will make you unhappy . Remember, like attracts like. When you understand how to start feeling happier, become aware of the obstacles and beliefs holding you back your awareness will change, then you will attract or become more open to a different type of guy, who is aligned with you on a much deeper level beyond looks and chemistry.
Top Tip - Become the person you want to meet! Embrace your feminine power, your energy, the strong woman you are, work on the limiting beliefs stopping you or holding you back from the loving relationship you want. When you do this, your beauty will shine and radiate inside and out. Your energy and mind are then aligned to attract the right man into you life, like no other man you have known before.
As Wayne Dyer once said. "When you change the things you look at........the things you look at change". Similarly with your thinking. Change your thinking and your life experience will change in an unimaginable way.
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