If you want to get absolutely clear about what you need to know to understand how YOU communicate in business and your romantic relationship(s), you will super-accelerate your dating chances with Mr Right, a high-quality man you do want to get it right with.

How you communicate in business is very different to your relationship communication.  Most successful women wonder what the problem is, when they are so successful at their role or job, but cannot get it right with men.  Working with my clients I help them learn these differences, sharing 20 years of insights, so you stop wasting any more time getting it wrong.

Learning this knowledge is priceless because what it will give you, are the skills to easily navigate the communication challenges you will face dating and falling in love.  To build a thriving healthy relationship, this is invaluable knowledge.  You can learn leadership profiling skills in business, but when you translate this into love, it has a very different meaning, understanding three very different communication styles.

The type of man you would love to attract may be successful in business, good looking and very charming. However, if you have not had a hug, sex, shared intimacy, or had a relationship in a while, the chances are you will go down the wrong road, and jump into the first bus (any relationship) that comes your way.  Feeling needy of love, without any understanding of your correct postcode (Step 1), how a man communicates with you on a date (step 2), the reasons your genie could sabotage your dating chances (step 3).  Without this priceless insight, you have a small window of opportunity to get it right next time. 

Sex and dating may be great at first, but love will fade very quickly if you don't get the fundamentals right if men treat you like a doormat, ghost you, are unreliable or don't commit.  Unfortunately, only pain will guide you to avoid more of it so if you have had enough heartache in love, it's time to learn your toolkit. 

If the love you dream of finding is priceless to you, as it was to me, let me fast-track your results in love, to transform your heart and life!  Here is reminder of each step.

Step 1

Step 2

Step 3

Every woman needs to know The Top 3 Dating Tips in advance of dating, if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. Or come along and join me on the next Free Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

Your love quote today:

Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence. Vincent Van Gogh

Loving Wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

The Catalyst For Change

It can be depressing and stressful at first being apart from your spouse, but there could be many reasons why you got divorced in the first place.  It is also a catalyst for change to start a new life. To rebuild a new relationship with YOU again and learn to adopt a more positive attitude towards your new life, and the time to focus on healing your heart and mind.  And a new career or business opportunity while you are supporting your children emotionally (if you have a family).

If you are still feeling rejected, or you are hurting from the emotional challenges you are facing. Here at Love Coaching You, we understand that there’s the loneliness, the feeling of not being supported without somebody to help you right now.  With over 50% of first marriages ending in divorce (ONS) the average age for men is 45 and for women, it's 42. Love Coaching You will help you to take a new approach while you are healing your heart and life. 

What could be more painful than the loss, or the fear of being single. How will I cope? you wonder. 

Perhaps you don’t know if you’re strong enough to take care of yourself without a spouse’s help.   You are now being challenged mentally, emotionally and financially without their support.

Taking time out to love and nurture yourself, your hurt and pain are important to help your recovery.  To be patient with yourself during this period in your life you can reinvent yourself as a single person, living happily single. With patience and positive thinking, and the right support. it is possible to learn to love yourself and your new life once more!

If you would value some professional empowering support, whether you are emotionally stuck, or you want to be empowered.  In my experience, since when doesn't counselling or therapy give you the solution toolkit? For the women I work with, there is nothing wrong with them. They simply need a new relationship toolkit.  Women who value their self-development, come along to my masterclass training sessions.  

It's for driven and determined women, serious about healing their hearts, and happiness to get the results in love, learning new skills in advance of dating, or in advance of being ready for another relationship.   

Hello, my name is Karen Marshall, I am a qualified relationship and love expert, well-being expert, coach, mentor and trainer with over 20 years of experience.  I understand what works and doesn't to prepare driven women with their toolkits.  If you are happily single and ready to prepare yourself with life-changing skills impacting every area of your life.  Learning to become the Best You Toolkit will prepare you with the skills to attract, recognise and build the most loving and rewarding relationship.  it's the perfect time to learn while you are happily single.

Would you take a driving test without your theory?  No you wouldn't if you wanted to pass. It's the same thing in love.  For greater success in love, learn the easy theory first, your toolkit, and you will become the best you and best partner in advance of dating, in advance of building a new relationship when you will face new tests. 

Do the work while you are happily single, and you will significantly improve your dating and relationship survival chances.  It works!

To understand what it takes, join my next webinar,

The 4 Steps My Clients Use to Attract a High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect you.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall

LoveCoachingYou.com

How well are you doing in your marriage so far?

Following covid, the fuel crisis, and the financial pressures more couples face it is essential to strengthen, save or rebuild your relationship before it's too late (if you both still want your relationship to work).

Or you could make the most significant decision of your life, wrongly, without the right discerning knowledge to help you save what you have. In my experience, therapy and counselling are not right for everyone. If you value your self-development and growth, then read on.....

If you are both struggling and miscommunicating, intimacy is breaking down in the bedroom (or has for a while). According to the ONS*, The average age for divorce is 45 for a man and 42 for a woman.

Consider these questions to sense check your relationship happiness together.

  1. Do you believe your husband/wife should make you happy? Yes/No?
  2. During an argument, do you blame your husband/wife for upsetting you? Yes/No?
  3. Do you avoid discussing an argument (or walk away)? Yes/No?
  4. Do you ignore your partner and remain in a mood for a while, if not days?  Yes/No?
  5. Now you have been together a few years, do you sometimes feel bored with your relationship?  Yes/No?

If you answered 4 or 5 ‘Yes' to the above 5 questions:

What You Give Your Attention To

I bet you would develop your business skills at work to support your job function to improve your success or get the promotion you want. Investing time also to develop new relationship skills to improve your relationship success, can take you from where you are now, to strengthen what you have together.

Consider the next Top 10 priceless tips to help you reignite your relationship happiness.

Top 10 Tips to Avoid Divorce in 2023

For your relationship to survive and thrive.  Read each point then give yourself a mark out of 10.  Zero (= lowest number), up to 10 (=you are the best you can be).

  1. Take responsibility for your own inner happiness, your self-confidence, how you feel about yourself. It’s the first step to improving your relationship happiness.  If you don’t feel good about yourself, how can you feel good about anyone else, your wife or husband? Start working on your mental and emotional fitness.  How happy do you feel about your personal happiness right now?  What number would you give yourself from 0 up to 10?
  2. Take time to understand how you tick and communicate. Unless you know where your buttons come from when you get upset, and respond or react the way you do with your partner (or follow the same patterns with someone else) you will continue to keep pressing each other's buttons without any intention of doing it. When you get clear about why and when your buttons show up, you will learn a newfound sense of understanding of yourself and your partner, wife or husband. This knowledge is priceless if you want to save or strengthen your relationship. Before you decide your partner is no longer making you happy, think again. How aware of you of your buttons from 0 - 10?
  3. Keep intimacy and sex alive Get your communication steps right (with your new skills), listen and respect each other's feelings, you can bring love and intimacy back on track. Your partner still wants to feel desirable regardless of the time you have known each other. Compliments are so precious to keep the fire burning for each other. How often do you compliment your partner 0 - 10?
  4. Get clear about why you respond the way you do during conflict. You cannot change who you are, you can, however, learn to understand your natural communication style to better understand yourself. Then you will better understand your partner to become better equipped to bring love and chemistry back into flow much quicker. How well do you understand your style of communication (in your relationship) from 0-10?
  5. You have a choice to decide how you react and respond to conflict.  You can also choose your attitude. Instead of shouting at each other. Make a conscious choice to discuss the way you feel, without passing blame, once have both calmed down. Remove yourself from an angry situation, start by slowing your breathing down to calm your body and mind. By learning the toolkit to take control of your anger (your emotions), you will respond and react so very differently to your partner. How well do you navigate conflict and your feelings from 0 - 10?
  6. If you are feeling bored with your routine.  Or sex and intimacy are becoming less frequent.  Make time to plan new fun, exciting events or adventures together to reignite the romance. Sharing new experiences will reconnect you more intimately. How good are you at keeping love alive from 0-10?
  7. Learning about your deeper emotional needs (beyond sex and chemistry) will help you discover what's important to your partner. How great are you at listening to give your partner space to talk about their emotional needs from 0-10?
  8. How to overcome your negative emotions during/after conflict.  When you feel angry, with practice notice how you feel, where tension is held in your body.  How do your emotions make you feel? How well can you manage your anger and emotions to overcome conflict from 0 - 10?
  9. Start planning regular date nights (to make each other feel special). Share your appreciation of each other, the reasons you were first attracted to each other. Remind your partner why they are so unique to you. Plan a new shared adventure (just the two of you together). Share some quality time together, to reignite your love, intimacy and connection. You are both responsible for your 50% of your relationship's happiness.

Another partner will not make you happy. Apply what you need to learn first. Separation or divorce will subsequently no longer be an option. Get your relationship survival toolkit, the solutions, to see how your relationship will change - if you both want to work on your relationship together.

To get in touch. Contact me here at LoveCoachingYou.com

The type of man you would love to attract may be successful in business, good-looking and very charming. However, if you have not had a hug, sex or a relationship in a while, the chances are you will jump onto the first bus (any relationship) that comes your way.

Without the understanding of:

You have a small window of opportunity to get your dating choice right, especially if you have been hurt too many times before on your dating to love pathway.

To help more women like you fill your heart and life with your missing ingredient, the man you truly deserve to share your life with.

How we communicate in business is very different to the way we communicate in love. You will either be distant, steady or needy. As you learn about your style in love, you will easily recognise the right man who will be there by your side through the ups and downs of life. Men who are distant will feel uncomfortable with emotions, especially if you are deep down feeling needy wanting a man's love and attention. They may say all the right things, but when it matters the most, they will run the other way, to avoid emotional intimacy where possible, or they will tell you to stop nagging or end a conversation leaving you resentful because you don't feel heard or listened to. They will be unable to cope with your emotions leaving you feeling lonely inside. You feel disconnected from the man you thought was the one!

To recognise and attract the right man to you, get clear about his style in love.

Your first step to learn in advance is what is stopping you or sabotaging your chances if men continue to ghost you, are unreliable or don't commit. Coming up, you click this link to join the next Free Masterclass Webinar - The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

Your love quote today

Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence. Vincent Van Gogh

Hi my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a high-qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, wellbeing expert, mentor and trainer. I specialise in helping women successful in business ready to learn their priceless toolkit in advance of dating, in advance of another relationship to get it right in love next time.

I have felt the loneliness, and the heartache to know what it feels like wondering if my life and luck were going to change with men. It was the time in my life, I decided I didn't want any more pain when my Prince Charming left me heartbroken and broken. It’s what makes me unique because I have walked my talk and today I now share the most loving relationship of my life because I achieved the results you want. I understand what works on the dating-to-love pathway and how to recognise, attract and build the most loving high-quality relationship that continues to thrive with the love of my life, Dave. I want this for you too, to find the love of your life!

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Separating is one of the hardest decisions that you’ll ever make. Or have you considered rebuilding your relationship? The most important life-changing tip I will give you right now.  Get the right informed relationship knowledge and insight that could save or rebuild what you have together before it’s too late, even if this is one of you making the first step to do this, generally the woman.

It's important as a woman you take this step (if your relationship is potentially recoverable) and you are prepared to do the work and your partner is prepared to give it one last shot, especially if children are involved!

A unique empowering 4 Step Healthy Communication Coaching Program will certainly accelerate your next steps to give you the answers you are looking for.  Without this knowledge and a new awareness, it is 98% highly likely that you will repeat the same mistakes you may not even be aware of in a future relationship. You will simply repeat the same patterns with someone new.

If you don't want to set yourself up for more heartache, avoid the high emotional and financial costs involved in divorce, then consider how valuable the right Relationship Expert will help you right now. Potentially you will avoid the heartache and pain, including the cost to your children who are likely to suffer from mental health problems.

Here's your immediate solutions!

There are many relationship coaches or relate counsellors out there. When making your selection who you work with. Perhaps counselling is right for you to talk through your problems. If however, you want a modern empowering fresh approach. Ask an expert. Have they achieved the results you want personally?  It is precisely what makes me a unique choice. As a highly qualified Relationship Success and Well-being Expert and Coach. I have walked my talk. I understand how to super-accelerate your mental and emotional well-being combining 5 interventions I am qualified to practice.  I have also achieved the personal results in my own relationship and share the most loving and rewarding relationship with the love of my life. I understand what works and doesn’t work in relationships personally and professionally!  I also understand the informed knowledge you need to fast-track your next choices at this critical point of your journey.

Before you decide to jump ship (if you don't know, what you don't know) set up a personal call with me, or start a 90-minute FREE online journey immediately to experience how the 4 step approach will transform your awareness if time is precious to make your choices.

What you don’t know, you don’t know! 

It's the exact point for you to seek the informed relationship help before you make the wrong decision.  If you want a unique approach and counselling or the church Alpha course is not for you. Or you don’t want to waste weeks or months working 1-2-1 to talk about your problems, you will immediately accelerate your awareness and next steps with a proven, tried and tested F.I.N.D. and Accelerate Your Relationship Success 4 Step Coaching Program combining 20 years of perosnal and professional experience that works into just 2 days. You can either work with me 1-2-1 exclusively. Or with a group. Or online!

The benefits you will gain:

  • Proven strategies and techniques to empower you emotionally and mentally to make new relationship choices. Coaching is not therapy, it is a powerful intervention to make you think differently and will truly accelerate your results.
  • You will discover what's important to you, what your obstacles are and how you could potentially sabotage your future relationship success. Let me help you to reset your relationship compass in the right direction!
  • You will get greater clarity to take a new relationship approach much faster than you would alone.
  • Gain a better understanding of your deeper needs to better understand your partner’s needs - to change your approach.
  • Discovering how to communicate differently could potentially rebuild or save your relationship.
  • You will get the informed answers if divorce is the best way forward - before you have to reach the stage of mediation!

You now have 2 choices:

Either A)

Set up a personal 1-2-1 no obligation and risk-free 60-minute Discovery CallClick this link for information to book your call immediately. to save you precious time.

B) Start your FREE 14 day (90 minutes) Find and Accelerate Your Relationship Success Coaching Online Program today. It will only take you 10 minutes a day over 9 days.  Click the link for information to register. You will get immediate clarity to help you decide.

If you truly want to fill your life and heart with the missing ingredients, knowledge and wisdom that took me 20 years to figure out so you don't have to waste your time or life making the same relationship mistakes. What will you decide A) or B)?

With warmest wishes

Karen x

LoveCoachingYou.com P.s. If you live close to Wokingham, Berkshire, come along to an evening taster event to Accelerate Your Relationship Success Evening Taster Workshop Thursday 7th February. £10 a ticket. Email info@lovecoachingyou.com for information and payment details.

Or look out for me in the February 2019 issue of Berkshire Life Magazine!

Are you feeling lost or confused what to do?  Or overwhelmed?

Separation and divorce is the most difficult emotional situation you may be faced with right now.  It is extremely stressful and painful and often associated with feeling bereaved.  It will also very much depend on your personal situation, the circumstances of your separation and how you are coping emotionally and mentally with your challenges.  How you feel mentally, your self-worth and self-confidence will also impact your energy levels physically.  If you are feeling stuck emotionally, a priceless toolkit of wisdom and strategies will give you the right emotional scaffolding to help you regain your strength. Or you want the answers how to pick yourself up and rebuild yourself mentally and emotionally - to get your life back.

Any breakdown is a massive life-changing turning point as you begin to learn to survive as a single woman, mum or business woman.  Men will also go through big adjustments, but will deal with their emotions differently.

If you are finding it hard to cope there is help at hand offering you powerful coping strategies and techniques, the priceless life skills to become more resilient, confident, happier and mentally stronger.  Any broken relationship can take time to heal especially if you are feeling the victim.

How are you coping mentally and emotionally right now? On a scale of zero (lowest number) up to 10 (10 = the highest number), what number would you give yourself on this scale?  If your number is lower than a 7 it is a true indicator you may value some help that would give you the tools to navigate your challenges more effectively.  Firstly, it is time to spend loving you once more, to rebuild how you are feeling inside.

To help you reach the next number up your scale, if this is 7 or below, I have a few options to help you.

Let's have a quick 20-30 FREE chat to discuss your situation and I will expertly guide you with your next steps.  To arrange your no obligation call, click here.

If Your Body Could Talk What Advice Would it Give You?

Your body is undoubtedly absorbing the emotional stress and anxiety you are feeling and will often manifest in the body as anxiety, muscular tension, headaches, high blood pressure, sleepless nights, mood changes, depression and emotional exhaustion.  These are just some of the symptoms your body will show you if you are listening loudly enough especially as 75% of illness is mostly stress-related.  If yo uare taking time off, feeling unwell or poorly I am not surprised.  When you understand how to take control of your thinking and emotions, you will also begin to feel more energised and happier too so I would love to help you!

To help you with your personal challenge

A) Whether you are feeling emotionally stuck and want to rebuild yourself.  Or b) you may be in a situation you want answers to save or rebuild your relationship. Or c) you want informed knowledge to know that separation or divorce is the best option.   I will personally tailor for you a healthy communication coaching approach (that is not therapy or counselling). I will truly empower you to get you back on track! There is nothing like this coaching programme on the market.  More Berkshire lawyers in Newbury, Oxford and Windsor are promoting my services as they recognise just how beneficial my combined professional coaching and holistic expertise is more helpful for clients in your situation.  If you are looking for a warm, friendly, professional expert to help you, I would be happy to speak to you asap.

The Healing Process

It's important to recognise you need time to heal and invest in your personal well-being and deeper needs if you are feeling emotional or finding it difficult to cope.  Or you will feel like you’re running a long marathon without any finish line ahead if you simply bury your feelings as a coping mechanism.  If you do this, your emotions are more likely to manifest physically in your body if they are not acknowledged.  With my help as a Relationship Expert and Wellbeing Expert you will be supported holistically over a period of time.

Imagine when you cut yourself. Any open wound takes time to naturally heal.  It is the same with your heart. You may need time to possibly rebuild your confidence and support to heal the emotional wounds you are carrying inside.  Learning to love and nurture yourself, looking after your health and well-being, giving yourself the right nutrition, taking time to sleep will all help you on your healing journey to re-ignite your zest for life once more. .

Are you ready to rebuild yourself working with the right expert

If you value your self-worth and your self-development, with my help, you will be better equipped to transform your thinking and how you feel with your own helpful toolkit of strategies.  Firstly let's have a chat for you to  find out how we can work together.

Your future happiness

This is an important point for you to consider while you are healing.  If you are already focusing on your children and work, getting you back on track to rebuild yourself, it's important to start resetting your compass towards a new healthier direction, particularly if you have had an abusive or controlling partner.  I will support you now to rediscover a new approach.  May be you are showing an okay face to the world, but inside you want the right support, if therapy or relationship counselling is not right for you.  Or subconsciously you will repeat making the same mistakes again in your future.  Having walked my own healing journey, right now is absolutely the time to start working together.

Dr Wayne Dyer the famous American philosopher said: “When you change the things you see the things you see change”.   So, when you discover the steps to change your perspective, thinking and how you feel, you will see life differently that may be inconcievalbe right now,

Next Steps

Let's have a FREE 20-30 minute Consultation Call.  This intial call will give you an overview of how I work for you to decide if my offer is right for you and your personal situation.

1-2-1 Personalised Discovery Session - working together one morning or afternoon.

We will spend time focusing on you and your needs, what is right for you with an opportunity to experience the healthy communication programme for yourself.  This meeting is face-to-face.  I will tell you about it on our consultation call how this step will be helpful for you.

To fast track and speed up your healing journey

The healthy communication programme, a proven, tried and tested approach with strategies and techniques that work, combines my personal and professional skills that works,

With 20 years of wisdom and insight, you will no longer have to muddle through feeling alone, feeling the pain inside, or the heartache you have endured for so long.

What is important for you to resolve right now?  If you don't get this area of your life handled, how will your situation impact you mentallly, emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually?  Contact Karen for your FREE 30 Minute No Obligation Call to decife if I am the right expert to transform your life and happiness.

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Retirement shall we part

More and more couples are divorcing in retirement.  It’s either one of the most painful, emotional and financially life-changing experiences to go through, or it’s a ticket to freedom. But why do people in retirement, nowadays, have an increased chance of filing for divorce?

According to the Office of National Statistics (ONS) dramatic changes in life expectancy have triggered individuals to think if they still want to grow old together. At age 60 or 65, both men and women can still live 30 more years nowadays compared to the early 90's. So, with the kids already old enough to live by themselves, people are thinking "Do I want to live 30 more years of this?"

The Telegraph 8th November 2017 (see link below) mentioned another reason, the "Silver-Fox " phenomenon with men living longer, and still retaining a wandering eye. It also works both ways with women "Cougars", strong independent women, going for the younger man if she is not having her needs fulfilled with her current partner.

Divorce

Significantly, the figures show that, in stark contrast to other divorce age groups, men over 60 are as likely to file for divorce as women.  Overall there were 15,300 people of either gender over the age of 60 getting divorced in 2011 (the last official figures). By contrast in 1991, there were just 8,700.

Perhaps retirement is becoming a later-life crisis? We are thinking of ourselves if we don't have kids to take care of or have needs that aren't fully satisfied. Or, there’s the so-called "bucket-list". Travel the world or move to another country.

Your Happy Ever After

As a Relationship and Self-Transformation Coach, Holistic Health and Well-being Therapist, and my personal journey over 20 years I discovered what DOES WORK finding and building a more loving and happier relationship. I now share the most rewarding relationship of my life with my husband I have now been with for almost 10 years. Speaking from experience and 7 years of research to find my answers, qualified education and applying what I learned to attract my now life partner to me, if you are considering separation or divorce, whatever your age, wouldn’t it be worth one last shot to invest 2 days of your time, in the Relationship MOT I offer couples, singles or divorced clients looking for a meaningful relationship?

What you learn and discover in just 2-Days will positively transform your approach and future happiness, possibly with your current partner, or someone new.  Also, save you valuable time from making the same mistakes (you are unlikely to even be aware of).  Not forgetting the 75K-150K plus your divorce will cost you with legal fees, splitting your assets, pensions, selling your house or buying a new home, and of course the emotional heartache to everyone, including your family.

The 2 Day New Relationship Skills Coaching Program will certainly empower and motivate you to accelerate your life in the right direction.   You would discover the informed answers how to BUILD a much stronger, happier and more loving relationship together.  Or how to RECOGNISE, FIND and ATTRACT someone new that is right for you.

Lastly, these are some wise words you may wish to consider.  Always choose your next steps in love wisely.  Your partner or any new potential partner you invest your heart, emotions, energy and life in, will impact your health, happiness, future aspirations, your dreams and the rest of your life, so choose love wisely!   Most people don't know how to RECOGNISE if someone is right for them, the most important decision you will make before you start to date, or fall in love again. Then it's too late to turn back.

Before you repeat the same mistakes  (you may not even be aware of) consider investing 2 days of your life to take your own relationship MOT that will save you years of more heartache.  What price would you pay, if you knew you could discover the knowledge, positively accelerate your happiness and relationship journey, if you could find your RIGHT relationship instead?

Please note, that coaching is NOT a therapy. Coaching will empower, motivate and accelerate the choices you make, to help you move from where you are now, to where you want to be so much faster than you will on your own.

NEXT STEPS……….

Contact Karen to arrange your FREE 15- minute no obligation introduction call to help you decide on your next steps click here. Or discover when the next 2 Day Relationship Masterclass is coming up click here

Karen Marshall at LoveCoachingYou.com 

Telegraph link and resource:

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/divorce/10225335/Til-retirement-us-do-part-silver-splitter-divorces-up-by-three-quarters-in-generation.html

If January 3rd is now recognised as “Divorce Day” by solicitors who see a spike in business just after the new year, it’s obvious that the couples who stayed together over Christmas, finally gave in to start divorce proceedings.

Other relationships also end once Christmas presents have been exchanged. January then becomes the focus month to reassess if the man you are living with or have been dating is right for you.

After all, the stress of the festive season combined with dealing with close family, more time to think, no work to occupy your mind, could certainly throw a torch light on your relationship.

So how can you help your relationship survive the January blues?

1.First of all, it’s important that you take time to think about your choices

Christmas may have been the wake-up call that you needed, but it’s not the best time to make any rash decisions that could possibly affect your life.

2.Your next step is to think about whether you’re making your partner’s faults a bigger problem than they actually are.

Think about the positive aspects of your relationship, what positive qualities does your man have that makes him special and important to you?  What qualities were you first attracted to?  Remember, no body is perfect. So, who is causing the difficulties right now, you or your man?

3.Is it time to consider how you can become a better partner for your man?

To become the best 50% of your relationship you need to take responsibility for your own imperfections. Have you been putting too much emotional pressure on him? Or is it time to discover what obstacles may be holding you back from the relationship you want.  If you would love to have a more lasting and loving relationship that works, you need to become more aware of the way you think and communicate.

4.What new year resolution could help your relationship?

Instead of arguing, enjoy a date night spending some quality time together really listening to each other's needs. Recognise and acknowledge your man when he does something special for you.  He loves to feel acknowledged and appreciated.

Whether you’re in a relationship you want to improve, are dating, single and waiting to find Mr Right, what could you do to become the best 50% of the relationship you want?  To communicate better with the man, or with men, my unique F.I.ND. Love Accelerator 4 Step Formula coaching programme can help you ATTRACT a man, BUILD and NURTURE a more loving, happier and lasting relationship.

To discover how the 4 STep Formula can help you. Come along to a Taster Event or Workshop near you - Click here for more information.

Or come along and join me on Facebook or Twitter

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