When two people find each other happy, your relationship will make you even happier! So make time to fall in love with yourself first to feel happy:

The 7 Steps To Fall In Love With Yourself, includes:

♥   Love, enjoy and celebrate what makes you happy every day!

♥   Fall in love with who you are, your looks, your body, and how you feel about yourself.

♥   Develop your self-esteem when you feel low, lost, or lonely.  Learn to love and nurture your little girl inside as you would if she was your own.  

♥   The more time you focus on your inner and outer happiness, the more brightly your inner and outer beauty will shine!

♥   Learning to overcome your negative self-beliefs about yourself, men and relationships and you will become mentally and emotionally stronger, positive and happier inside.

♥   Loving yourself daily, your energy will positively shift your lower frequency into a much higher frequency to attract the right high-quality man, right for you!   

♥   Shifting your psychology, your physiology and energy will lead you towards a life and the relationship you never imagined or believed to be possible.  I know so!

I am excited to announce today. To explore your inner happiness, I explain in the next webinar (see link below) the 4 steps every woman needs to focus on to attract the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you! 

To get your 4 steps right, in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, I explain each one in the next webinar.

Click this link for more information - To Get Your 4 Steps Right

Who you expect to turn up, is your self-fulfilling prophecy

Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?

Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced.  Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s.   Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.

This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.

Imagine your life is a film.  Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy.  Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up.  One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.

Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy.  What do I mean?  What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!

Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you.  For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex.  These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.

Let's take a minute to pause once more.  Here's another example to consider.  When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking).  When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.

Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?

Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!

But be warned.  Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure?  You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.


To get you started, come along to: 

Join my next Free Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respects You.   Remember, you need to know this in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, to avoid wasting more time and your life when you are ready!

Get your Top 3 Dating Tips, Every woman needs to know about herself, if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. Only takes 5 minutes to read.

If You're Still Healing your Heart and Mind

If you are going through a tough time, just separated or getting divorced, or finding it hard to cope emotionally and mentally, you can empower your healing heart and mind with powerful life skills to cope better, and feel emotionally stronger and more resilient. I will sensitively guide you with a friendly helping hand to help you reset your inner compass to take a new direction towards the happiness you deserve.

To refocus, rebalance and recharge your mind and body.  Maximising our time together, I work with clients to get them back on track emotionally, mentally, and energetically.

Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk.  I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising.  Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!

Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time.  What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?

Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years.  It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too.  I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47.  I cried happy tears.  Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!

Today I will share on the next FREE Masterclass Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.  Come along and join it, you can simply listen.

Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory?  No, you wouldn't.  Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.

To uncover your blindspots, here are three of them - The Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Divorce Recovery For Women

It is the biggest adjustment you will go through, learning to live alone again, learning about yourself and living independently, as you look after your children (if you have a family).  It's a massive life-transforming learning curve while you are coping with your emotions, and negative thoughts while finding your way forward. 

Divorce recovery can be a slow healing process especially if you had a toxic relationship leaving your self-confidence at rock bottom.  Whether you are at the beginning or a few years into your divorce recovery, the way you feel about yourself, men, and your relationships will take you down two roads. Either a continued negative spiral I wouldn't want anyone to endure, or the catalyst to positively transform your happiness and mindset that will lead to the new future you truly deserve.

Here at Love Coaching You, we understand that there’s the loneliness, the feeling of not being whole; after all the disillusionment, pain and heartache in your marriage.

There is also the fear of being single. How will I cope? It’s scary to start over by yourself after depending on your marriage. You may have merged your identity so closely with your spouse’s – defining yourself as half of a couple, not as an individual – that you can’t imagine continuing on your own. 

Perhaps you don’t know if you’re strong enough to take care of yourself without a spouse’s help. Or you’re ashamed of singlehood in a society defined by relationships. But don’t worry, single or divorced for a while, you will start to feel YOU again. 

Take your time and effort for your part, as it can be challenging to reinvent yourself as a single person, but through patience and positive thinking, you can and will do it, if you are ready to learn about yourself - to experience a new way of living, feeling, behaving mentally and emotionally.  

If you no longer want pain, the heartache and you are ready to shift your happiness.  If you want your own business for greater financial freedom, invest in property for your security, or progress your career to regain control of your heart and life, and support your family, we are the right experts at LoveCoachingYou to give you the priceless toolkit you will need. 

By learning new skills you will become:

Hello my name is Karen Marshall, I am a relationship and love expert, high-qualified well-being expert, coach, mentor, trainer and consultant. I understand what works and doesn't because I too hit rock bottom to personally experience becoming the Best Me and what it takes to do this.  I know what works to overcome adversity, and trauma to rebuild myself mentally and emotionally.

Transforming the way I feel, think and behave was a life-changing gift I learned to master, because I no longer wanted any more heartache or pain.  I then made the decision to become an expert in love, to learn the skills to become the chooser in love to personally find a healthy, loving, thriving relationship.  Today, I have been with my husband, the love of my life, for over 14 years, in the most rewarding and loving relationship I never believed would be possible.  I want this for you too!

If you are ready to fill your heart and life with the gift and toolkit available to every woman (with drive and determination) you will become the captain of your boat and life.  When you work with me the expert who has achieved the results you want.  I have walked my talk, from rock bottom to living the life I love is what makes me unique and the right relationship and love expert to help you achieve the results you want.  If you are serious about shifting how you feel, your heart and your life contact LoveCoachingYou.com

Now is the time, whether you are divorced or single, to learn the toolkit, the first step to shifting your mental and emotional happiness, that will in turn positively impact your approach in business, love and with men.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

 

 

 

Prince Charming, whom I call a high-quality man, will need to stand out and be extraordinary if he is going to share your life, heart, dreams, family (you want or have) and your future!

To get it right in love, the clients I work with are driven and determined successful women in business but are not getting the results they want in love.

If you would love to settle down with the high-quality man you dream of meeting and sharing your life and success with, have a go at answering the next three questions. They will give you a good indicator of any gaps in your knowledge because what you don't know, you need to know!

1- What does your male energy say about you to men?  

2.  Are you settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers in love?  

3.  How will you know if Mr Right is the right high-quality man right for you?  It's a tongue twister I know.

Well how did you get on, did they make you think?  

Firstly, you need to understand your energy, secondly, you deserve extraordinary, not second best.  Thirdly, you need to get absolutely clear about the man you want in your life.

It will take you 5 minutes to read, to get your answers here. The Top 3 Dating Tips, every woman needs to know.  Or Join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to understand the 10% you need to let go of, and the 4 steps you will need to get right if you want to attract your high-quality man.

Love is the most precious gift you can have in your life when it works!  It can be all-consuming. magical, fleeting, lasting, so painful, or the most rewarding shared loving experience you have never experienced or believed to be possible.  I know so!

If you are waiting for love to arrive, have been let down too many times, or have simply given up finding your high-quality man:   

Come along and Join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar - to discover your blindspots, the 10% holding you back from finding the man and relationship you truly deserve!

My best advice (it's the Dating and Relationship paradox).  Do the work to learn and master your 4 step toolkit, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.   

With Loving Wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Women need new skills in advance of dating or another relationship if they're looking for Mr Right I call a (high-quality man) now or in the future.

The celebration of love is not far away with Valentine's Day to remind us about what we feel in our hearts. In my experience, senior women in business, or at the top of their game are very successful at what they do. But the story inside is a very different picture, especially for all those women looking for a high-quality man to share life with her and their family if she has been alone as a single woman, or divorced for a while. Subconsciously I am certain most women would love to share their heart and life with the right quality man, their achievements and the life she loves. But there are many obstacles holding her back!

I meet so many women I work with, who are outwardly confident in business but give little time to loving themselves. Often this woman has lower self-worth because she is carrying a scar from being hurt before, let down in love, experiencing too much heartache or having a difficult or destructive toxic relationship. Or men ghost her, are unreliable, or don't commit (there is a reason for this). She is also likely to attract a similar type of man and repeat the same patterns unless she takes a new approach.

One client I worked with attracted narcissistic men for seven years until she changed her values and applied her toolkit approach after working with me.

Feeling Hurt, Alone Or Lost - If You Love Learning

Despite the reality of women feeling hurt, alone or lost (I was there once) let me tell you there are amazing men out there and - IT IS ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE TO ATTRACT AND BUILD A HIEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH A HIGH-QUALITY MAN you truly deserve to share your heart and life with.

If you love learning, you will need your toolkit of new skills, IN ADVANCE of dating, IN ADVANCE of being ready for another relationship, for very different results! The dream you want! Or you will continue to get the same results if you believe men will get hurt you, you don't trust them, they let you down, you are not young enough, etc, etc.

Learning new skills will completely transform your experience with men and how you give and receive love, plus your communication perspective will shift with your team, other C-Suite leaders, and your closest family. Your new skills will impact every area of your life, your happiness, how you feel and behave, including the way you communicate with your children, who will learn from your new example.

I know how precious love is when you find the right high-quality man because I have walked the same personal journey from being lost, applying the toolkit I created, to finding and attracting the love of my life. It's why I am so passionate about transforming my client's hearts and lives, the women hungry for the same results who are getting results using their toolkit! With heartwarming stories.

Vanessa had been married for over 20 years and I met her 3 years after her divorce. She had just completed my program and met a new chap online. Using her toolkit, her life completely changed! She is now married to Jason, the love of her life!

Over the next few weeks, I will explore the common mistakes and lessons we need to know. what it takes to find and build a thriving relationship with your high-quality man, for it to thrive and survive!

If you are looking for answers, what it takes to find a man who will love, value and respect you, join my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 10% that could be holding you back . Click to register

With loving wishes

Karenx

LoveCoachingYou.com

I know how hard you have worked to be successful in business, applying drive, and determination to achieve your success to have financial security, own your own home and live independently. But here’s the thing….

How I Achieved My Results With The Right High-Quality Man:

  1. I studied, researched, and professionally qualified over many years to become an expert at ‘the relationship mistakes we make and why we make them'. I did the work while I was single working full-time living my life at 100mph. I applied what I learned when I dated between the many dry patches of not dating, living on my own, and feeling alone. I was so ready to settle down, but I was NOT prepared to settle for second best. I wanted to meet my high-quality man (a man Bridget Jones described as being ‘more extraordinary’)!
  2. I invested in my professional education to become qualified and experienced in the mind, body, and energy, to become the BEST ME mentally, emotionally, and energetically to get the best results for my clients. This developed me to also become the Best Partner for the right man.
  3. I got clear about my style of communication (in business and love) to better understand the right man I wanted to attract to me who would love, value, and respect me.
  4. Over 7 years I applied what I learned about dating and short-term relationships that didn’t work out to recognise the same mistakes most women make.
  5. I changed my perspective of men, and relationships, and developed my emotional intelligence to become my superpower.
  6. Learned about the male psyche and psychology, and developed myself spiritually and energetically to support my partner mentally and emotionally (without him realising how I was supporting him).
  7. I shifted my energy to accelerate and attract the right high-quality man to me, who found me irresistible, chased me, and wanted to commit to me.

With Loving Wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

With mental and emotional health so prevalent combined with relationship challenges, as a relationship and healthy communication expert, learning how to become the Best You is the first step to feeling emotionally happier and mentally stronger.  Discovering the strategies and techniques to do this, will not only positively improve how you think, feel and behave towards yourself (loving you), but you will positively impact your boyfriend, partner, or husband, and your children (you have or want) leading them with your new healthy communication awareness skills. 

I know what it feels like to support yourself mentally and emotionally, living on your own, what it means to find and attract a healthy high-quality relationship, and what it takes to transform yourself to become the Best You, it's a life-long journey. Firstly, learning about your style of communication will dramatically deepen your relationship connection with yourself, to then deepen your relationship with the right man you choose to date, or your partner. The Best You skills are the foundation of any healthy loving relationship that can thrive. You will dramatically increase your survival chances too!

In my professional experience, there is a place for individuals to have counselling or therapy, but when does talking therapies give you a Best You or relationship communication structured toolkit? It doesn't, The clients I work with, don’t want or need therapy or counselling, because there is nothing wrong with them. They simply need to learn and follow a structured approach, to improve their communication skills. I have saved marriages following the same Best You program I designed and created, and it's the same healthy communication approach women looking for love, dating to find love, or in love apply in their relationship. Becoming the Best You, will give you the skills to become the Best Partner to the right quality man you want to find and build your happy ever after with.

If you are ready to be empowered, feel happier, and emotionally stronger and want to get it right in love.

To get your most critical dating decision right, becoming the Best You is the foundation to step into your true potential and your happiness within. Remember, the man you choose to date will impact your heart, life, dreams, future, and the family you want or have. Combining your Best You insights and the unique program I have created, anything is possible, I know so.

Your MOT step-by-step makeover opportunity is the greatest gift.  It’s revolutionary if you are ready to do what it takes if you love your self-development, and you will find and build the most loving and rewarding relationship, unlike any other relationship. The toolkit you will learn, it’s rather like a muscle you will begin to exercise, develop, and strengthen.


Top 5 Insights to Become the Best You


Your next step.

To get fitter mentally and emotionally stronger in love, to become the Best You and Best Partner, with over 30 years of Best You and relationship experience walking my talk, it's what makes me unique, and the right expert to work with. I will transform how you date, find and build the most rewarding, loving and healthy relationship of your life.

If you would love to find out more about how to become the Best You, I would love to invite you to join my next Masterclass Training Webinar, it's Free. Discover what you need to let go of, or what's holding you back and the 4 Steps My Clients Apply To Find And Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Dating and Relationship Expert, Coach, Welling Expert in the Mind, Body and Energy, Trainer, Mentor, Consultant.


Professionally qualified, insured, accredited Relationship and Dating Expert, experienced in 5 interventions in the mind, body and energy connection, I combine my professional expertise.  With over 20 years of experience, I have walked my talk personally and professionally to become the Best ME to recognise the impact I have on my relationship success with the love of my life.  Today I understand male psychology and am heart centred, and spiritual. I know what works and doesn't to recognise, attract, and build the most loving, high-quality relationship with the love of my life. Let me now help you fill your heart and life with the love you truly deserve!

Christmas isn't the same if you're single or have been divorced a while.  You might feel the odd one out or want to escape the magic of Christmas because you are reminded about what is missing in your heart and life!   
 
Are you missing the one ingredient, the love you truly deserve?  If this resonates, let me give you a special Christmas present today to recognise and attract your high-quality man who will love, value and respect you (without you settling for the scraps or men who treat you like a doormat). 
 
Possibly, if you have children and they are spending this year with your ex.  Or they are growing up fast and prefer seeing their friends, leaving you feeling redundant or lonely.
Imagine for one minute.  Next Christmas you are in love and absolutely recognise the partner you are with, is the quality man you have been waiting for!  This man is so aligned with you mentally, physically, financially and emotionally he is there for you through the ups and downs of life.  You love everything about him, including his imperfections unconditionally!
 
You met this man using your 4-step toolkit to understand he is capable of communicating with you to satisfy your deeper emotional needs (the glue that holds love together). You recognised his communication style and that he was the right man who has the natural wiring to build a healthy thriving relationship with you. Because you invested time learning your dating and relationship toolkit, in advance of dating him, you significantly increased your relationship survival happiness to build a thriving relationship that works.

Don't risk making the same mistakes!  Which gift would you like? Or have them both!
  
What price would you pay if you could meet the man of your dreams?
 
Wishing you a heart-filled Christmas and the love you deserve!
 
With warmest wishes
 
Karen Marshall x

How you could sabotage your dating chances

If you are a high-achieving woman, or supermum and want to get your dating decision right, you will need to value your self-development if what you have been doing so far on your dating or relationship journey hasn't been working out for you.

Your brain will always protect you from seemingly dangerous situations.  Especially, if you think deep down negatively about men, relationships, or yourself. Your subconscious brain is programmed to divert your attention when your fight or flight response is activated to keep you away from another stressful situation your brain regards as dangerous e.g. even a dating situation. Or you may have been invited to a lovely social event that you know eligible men are attending, but you decide not to go because you are too busy, but deep down you prefer to avoid going to protect yourself (e.g. for the fear of being hurt again). This subconscious behaviour will continue to sabotage your chances. You also need to know your Step 1 postcode and address to recognise the right Mr Right, Step 2 is to understand how to recognise a man communicates with you that glue that will build a stronger relationship.

Unless you become aware of the way you think, and what you believe to be true, and the way you communicate. your magic genie will continue to deliver your self-fulfilling prophecy, the man you believe deep down will turn up e.g. a guy who will let you down, want you for sex, is not committed.

To accelerate your dating journey in minutes, instead of the 20 years it took me to figure you out.

  1. Get your Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know! Why do men ghost you, are unreliable or don't commit (that women don't realise)?

2. Or discover your blindspots, and what is stopping you on my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar.

- Your love quote today -

Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused. Paulo Coelho.

To unravel your confusion, and fill your heart and life with your missing ingredient, let me help you get it right if you are ready to Recognise, Attract and Build your most loving high-quality loving relationship that will thrive and survive!

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

Lovecoachingyou.com

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Over the next few blogs, I will be sharing a few invaluable relationship insights and secrets every woman needs to know to attract your Mr Right (a high-quality man):

Whether you are ready or NOT for a relationship, or you are actively dating, deep down you may have a fear of being hurt again if you have been let down by men too many times. If you no longer want to repeat the same relationship mistakes, you could be making the same mistakes without realising.

If you are a high-achieving woman who values your self-development, you are determined and ready to discover a new proven, tried, and tested approach that works, I am the right expert to take you from where you are now to where you want to be in weeks, noticing different results with men.

I hear so many women say to me, they are too busy for a relationship because it's an easy distraction to avoid our feelings inside. Instead, we focus on work, family, and other priorities and default to a self-protection mode keeping busy.

We tell others consciously (e.g, that we are happy being single) but subconsciously (our deeper fears will keep us stuck for many reasons). The fears you continue to hold deep down will stay with you, as you start dating, or begin a new relationship. Don't let your fears be the cause of another relationship ending, or leaving you heartbroken. As an expert, this is one of the key reasons we sabotage our chances in love you will recognise when I show you.

Or take note. your subconscious, I call your genie, will continue to bring you what you wish for if you believe deep down e.g. a man will hurt you or let you down. Then guess who will keep turning up?!

If you are actively dating - Would you take your driving test without doing the theory first? I know this may seem hard because dating is fun and exciting but it is also heartbreaking when you get it wrong. If you now want different results in love, do the work while you are single and put dating on pause for a few weeks as you learn your theory.  

Step 1 - Top Tip

How will you know Mr Right is right for you and is capable of building a thriving relationship with you?

It is critical to get your dating decision right. Without any understanding of your postcode and address, you will keep driving down the wrong roads, get lost, attract similar men you want to avoid, or your relationships will not work out. To decide what is important to you about the man you want to date and share your life with, if you are ready to settle down, get clear about your correct address and postcode. 

To accelerate your dating and relationship happiness, discover your postcode and address. You will also need to understand in Step 2, how to recognise if a man can communicate to satisfy your deeper emotional needs.

Love quote today - Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty, through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Ann Landers.

Also get:

Your Top 3 Dating Tips Free Download - If men are ghosting you, unreliable, or don't commit

Or join the next free Webinar - The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

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