If you are a driven, and determined successful woman and value your self-development, regardless of where you are on your dating or early relationship journey, understanding the dating paradox will accelerate your dating success. And determine your relationship's happiness!
I hear most women say this to me. “I am not ready to start dating yet, so I don’t need any help.” It is absolutely your paradox.
During this chapter of your life, when you don’t feel ready, it’s the perfect time to do the work, to be ready.
Why? Have you heard the dilemma question; which comes first, the chicken or the egg? Whether you want to get your dating decision right or build a more loving and healthy relationship that works. What comes first? New relationship skills, or dating skills?
Yes, it is key to work on new relationship communication skills IN ADVANCE of dating. In advance, of being ready for another relationship. So I would highly recommend if you are a woman who values your self-growth and development, learning a new toolkit while you are single, then you will get very different dating results with the quality men you attract to you and the skills to build a healthy thriving relationship that works and can survive.
If you are dating. And your previous relationship history has left you feeling fearful deep down of getting hurt again. Be warned. You are 98% likely to repeat the same patterns and mistakes in another relationship (without realising it) unless you shift your dating approach. Applying a new toolkit anyone can learn especially if you love learning about yourself will accelerate finding and building the loving relationship every woman deserves.
You will reset your inner compass to discern if a man is compatible with you on a much deeper emotional level before you meet him.
It's easy to discern from out the outside how a man makes you feel, but what counts is on the inside, the way he communicates, values, respects and shows you love. You will also become the better partner for him and more easily navigate your challenges together, without him realising it's you.
Early stages of dating we are testing each other's boundaries, it's normal, but when little niggles become much bigger, how we deal with conflict will make or break any relationship. Bringing love back into flow quickly is an art to building a thriving loving relationship, it's also the glue that holds love together.
Discovering your communication style is the first critical set to recognise the right high-quality man, in advance of meeting him. Recognising how you communicate, will help you to easily understand his communication style, and to know that he is wired and compatible to satisfy your deeper emotional needs beyond chemistry, sexual attraction, shared interests and values. Then you will significantly increase your dating and relationship survival chances! Understanding your personal communication style is your first step.
You now have 2 choices:
Go to 1 below if you are NOT dating, happily single, or remotely interested in another relationship right now. But want the skills in advance of being ready.
Or go to 2, if you are dating.
Now let me explain the perfect chicken and egg dating paradox example. Perhaps this statement resonates with you, particularly if you are NOT ready for another relationship or want to date right now.
E.g., I don’t want another relationship, I only want to focus on myself, my business, and my children (if you do have a family). I am not interested in dating or need any help right now. I just want to focus on myself.
Now think about this question. Would it be more beneficial to become aware of your likely relationship or dating obstacles, before, or after, you feel ready for another relationship? This is the most precious piece of advice you need to know while you are healing your heart and life- do the work, your theory, while you are single! Or waste more valuable time, meeting the wrong men when you are ready.
It took me 20 years to figure out how to attract the right high-quality man, so you don't have to waste any more time making the same mistake women make without realising.
Jo, one client I worked with, dated narcissistic men for 7 years before she took my new toolkit approach.
To discover the 4 steps my clients use to find and attract their high-quality man who will love, value and respect them (without settling for second best) Join my next FREE Masterclass Training WEBINAR
2. If you are ACTIVELY DATING. The majority of women wait to be chosen (hunted) by a man. If you are endlessly chasing dates, feeling lost and want to know how to attract the right high-quality man, learning the skills now to become the chooser in love, join me on the next Masterclass Training Webinar, to discover the 4 steps you need to know to get your most critical dating decision right.
If you no longer want second best (or the scraps and men who treat you like a doormat) and want to meet the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you! Let's get you started:
Option 1 - Re-ignite your self-confidence. get the Top 3 Dating Tips right in advance of dating Click here for your download.
Option 2 - Join The Next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar
To uncover your 10% you need to let go of to attract the right high-quality man. And get the 4 steps you will need to know about your toolkit. Click here. to register your spot.
What step will you take, option 1 or 2?
I would love to fill millions of hearts and lives with the love every woman truly deserves! Let yours be one of them!
Karen x
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Separation and divorce is the most difficult emotional situation you may be faced with right now. It is extremely stressful and painful and often associated with feeling bereaved. It will also very much depend on your personal situation, the circumstances of your separation and how you are coping emotionally and mentally with your challenges. How you feel mentally, your self-worth and self-confidence will also impact your energy levels physically. If you are feeling stuck emotionally, a priceless toolkit of wisdom and strategies will give you the right emotional scaffolding to help you regain your strength. Or you want the answers how to pick yourself up and rebuild yourself mentally and emotionally - to get your life back.
Any breakdown is a massive life-changing turning point as you begin to learn to survive as a single woman, mum or business woman. Men will also go through big adjustments, but will deal with their emotions differently.
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How are you coping mentally and emotionally right now? On a scale of zero (lowest number) up to 10 (10 = the highest number), what number would you give yourself on this scale? If your number is lower than a 7 it is a true indicator you may value some help that would give you the tools to navigate your challenges more effectively. Firstly, it is time to spend loving you once more, to rebuild how you are feeling inside.
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It's important to recognise you need time to heal and invest in your personal well-being and deeper needs if you are feeling emotional or finding it difficult to cope. Or you will feel like you’re running a long marathon without any finish line ahead if you simply bury your feelings as a coping mechanism. If you do this, your emotions are more likely to manifest physically in your body if they are not acknowledged. With my help as a Relationship Expert and Wellbeing Expert you will be supported holistically over a period of time.
Imagine when you cut yourself. Any open wound takes time to naturally heal. It is the same with your heart. You may need time to possibly rebuild your confidence and support to heal the emotional wounds you are carrying inside. Learning to love and nurture yourself, looking after your health and well-being, giving yourself the right nutrition, taking time to sleep will all help you on your healing journey to re-ignite your zest for life once more. .
If you value your self-worth and your self-development, with my help, you will be better equipped to transform your thinking and how you feel with your own helpful toolkit of strategies. Firstly let's have a chat for you to find out how we can work together.
This is an important point for you to consider while you are healing. If you are already focusing on your children and work, getting you back on track to rebuild yourself, it's important to start resetting your compass towards a new healthier direction, particularly if you have had an abusive or controlling partner. I will support you now to rediscover a new approach. May be you are showing an okay face to the world, but inside you want the right support, if therapy or relationship counselling is not right for you. Or subconsciously you will repeat making the same mistakes again in your future. Having walked my own healing journey, right now is absolutely the time to start working together.
Dr Wayne Dyer the famous American philosopher said: “When you change the things you see the things you see change”. So, when you discover the steps to change your perspective, thinking and how you feel, you will see life differently that may be inconcievalbe right now,
Let's have a FREE 20-30 minute Consultation Call. This intial call will give you an overview of how I work for you to decide if my offer is right for you and your personal situation.
We will spend time focusing on you and your needs, what is right for you with an opportunity to experience the healthy communication programme for yourself. This meeting is face-to-face. I will tell you about it on our consultation call how this step will be helpful for you.
The healthy communication programme, a proven, tried and tested approach with strategies and techniques that work, combines my personal and professional skills that works,
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