True love is magical when it works!
It also gets harder if you're a successful woman in your late 30s and the clock is ticking to have a family, particularly if you are still waiting to find your special person, a high-quality man to settle down with.
Or, perhaps you've been divorced for a while, or your children are growing up fast and you are feeling lonely. You're ready to start dating and find a more fulfilling and rewarding relationship with a decent man. Whether you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s or older you will truly understand and value what it means to find a more loving and happier relationship that CAN thrive, especially if you've been hurt or let down too many times. If you are feeling lost what do, it might feel like you're running a long marathon without any finish line in sight because you don't know where your finish line is, especially if you are fearful of being hurt again, but want to get it right next time. Whether you are single or divorced, let me inspire and motivate you today.
To begin any journey starts with your first step. So I have 5 easy questions. below to help you.
Before we start, consider your relationship situation with this example in mind. The London Marathon every year draws in thousands of runners. If you were participating you would recognise the importance of training to prepare your mind and body. You would eat the right foods, start running and set training goals in place. It’s the same approach for the relationship you DO want. Firstly you will need to nourish your mind, and practice new skills if you don't want to keep repeating the same dating or relationship mistakes. You would prepare yourself with the right training to reach your finish line.
To run a marathon you run, to become a singer, you sing. If you want different relationship results, you learn and practice new relationship skills
You have two options You may prefer to sprint into another relationship without any training, or find a more rewarding and lasting relationship that CAN work with the right training. Which one would you choose?
Tip – Before you start dating, or even consider another relationship, now is the perfect time to start your new relationship training, in advance of another relationship.
Becoming aware of the way you think and communicate in love (you may not even be aware of) will accelerate your results to help you Recognise, Attract, Find and Build a more loving and happier relationship that will thrive and survive. You will stand out like a unicorn to the right Mr Right, a high-quality man, you do want to attract who will not want to let you go! You will also gain a valuable toolkit to build a much stronger relationship foundation. Train in advance of dating, or another relationship. Or be warned you will repeat the same mistakes (most women are not aware of making), and attract similar men or relationships, especially if you've been hurt too many times.
To start you off, here are your Free Top 3 Dating Tips (will only take you 5 minutes to read) if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. You will discover the 3 questions every woman needs to know and get right, to attract your high-quality man (instead of settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers) who don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Or I would love to invite you to join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 4 Steps My Clients Apply To Find and Attract a High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.
Let me help you find and build your most loving and rewarding relationship that will thrive and survive!
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
www.LoveCoachingYou.com.
If you have been single or divorced for a while, perhaps Valentine's Day is another calendar event you would still rather avoid even though we are all staying home during the lockdown. If you are exhausted of relationships not working out, or attracting the wrong men. To stand out from your competition on your dating membership sites, apps or joining a dating agency, you will need to ATTRACT the right high-quality man to YOU (using a precious toolkit you would need to learn in advance of dating)!
Yes, it's a rollercoaster of fun and excitement when you meet someone you like and meet up with. As a leading dating and relationship expert, my best advice is to revisit your relationship skills before you start dating or feel ready for another relationship if you have been heartbroken and are living alone. Take your quick MOT. The Top 3 Dating Tips that men see and sense about you, if men are ghosting you, unreliable, or don't commit. Your free download will take 5 minutes to read. Click here for your copy.
If you are dating, leaving love to chance, or waiting for the next high-quality man (you think is right for you but could be so wrong for you) to be matched with online, if what you have been doing so far is not working out for you, to uncover your 10% that could be sabotaging your chances. Join the next free Masterclass Training Webinar coming up shortly to get it right with the next quality man you recognise doesn't come into your life that often.
Married At First Sight Australia demonstrates, particularly what the women do, to sabotage their potential success. E.g. I have seen many create an argument to end the relationship (when deep down they fear getting hurt again). They don't understand themselves so the way they cope best is to protect themselves, close down, and walk away.
The most valuable gift you could give yourself today, start the next Masterclass Training Webinar starting shortly.
The successful businesswomen who get over 95% success rate have done the work, in advance of dating while they are single. While they focus on work and/or family (if they have children) and live alone. They are using the toolkit I cover in the next masterclass webinar.
If you don't want to waste any more of your time or life feeling emotionally empty or start another relationship that's going where, join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar starting shortly.
To re-ignite your self-confidence, get your Free download, The Top 3 Dating Tips men see and sense about you, if they ghost you, are unreliable, or don't commit.
Warmest Wishes
Karen Marshall
LoveCoachingYou.com
P.s. My credentials to know you are working with the right expert who has achieved the results you want!
As a qualified and highly-skilled mind, body, and energy expert, I combine over 25 years of personal relationship knowledge that works with my professionally qualified expertise to accelerate your dating and relationship happiness. Do you want a high-quality man or second best? You decide.
Join the next Free Masterclass Training for the powerful insights you need to know, in advance of dating.
Plus the Top 3 Dating Tips Every Woman Needs To Know
Meghan Markle and her Prince Charming
We all know Meghan Markle, she is in the worldwide press, 36 and divorcee. She was once a little cygnet, is now a beautiful swan, princess and inspiration for any modern single or divorced woman. She's the beautiful bride (now wife) to her adorable modern day Prince Charming, the gorgeous Prince Harry.
Meghan also gives a great deal of hope to women her own age. It’s the pivotal age our focus changes from our career to thinking more seriously about settling down if you want a family and the clock is ticking if you're still single and searching for your Prince Charming.
To discover the 5 Enlightening Steps For Relationship Success and a FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster to find and build a strong, healthy, more loving and rewarding relationship that can thrive, I have some valuable wisdom to share today. As the voice of the relationship survival revolution, my vision is to inspire millions of women like you to take a new approach if you’re determined to find your Prince Charming. I prefer to call him Mr Extraordinary!
Does this sound like you?
If you are like me when I was in my early 30’s and single, you may be fiercely independent, have a great career or business, so your single status doesn’t define you because you are choosing to be single. You may have your own home, earn a high salary, are self-sufficient with no time pressure to meet your Prince.
You are also unlikely to focus on finding Mr Extraorindary because you also believe in serendipity when the timing is right, or the law of attraction - that one day the universe will deliver your Prince. However be careful what you wish for. If deep down you believe you will get hurt again, or men will let you down, there are no good men out there. Your genie will deliver what you ask for subconsciously! So let me guide you in the right direction to reset your relationship compass towards a high-quality, loving and rewarding relationship you truly deserve.
I started out believing in the happy ever after, as everyone does growing up. I also focused heavily on my career as most ambitious women do. If you are a modern woman, want a big lifestyle and the money to live comfortably, your career will easily keep you distracted from finding true love.
If you now find yourself over 35, suddenly being single by choice changes into a soul-searching question. Will you meet your Prince to have a family with if your clock is now ticking as your fertility starts to decline? Panic starts to set in. But some woman in their late 30's are now taking even greater control of their fertility and seeking to freeze their eggs or have artificial insemination with no Prince Charming in sight.
Sadly, for many women in their 40s, it’s the decade we have to come to terms with the realisation of not having children (unless you go it alone and choose insemination). Or shift your thinking and become open to new possibilities, as more families blend together. Meghan is a great example of this as an African American growing up with divorced parents. She reflects the real modern day woman and blended family.
Has life thrown you a curve ball and experience you didn't expect if you are still single or exhausted of relationships not working or ending?
When my 3rd significant relationships ended, I was 33 and heartbroken, my mum also unexpectedly died at the same time I was made redundant, so I was in no place by choice to even consider a relationship. Perhaps life has pushed you around and taken you on a journey you didn’t expect? It's why I am now an accredited Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Expert. Mentor. Mind, Body and Energy Practitioner to help women like you find your Mr Extraordinary.
By sharing my qualified education and 9 years experience combined with my personal journey and the wisdom I have discovered over 20 years, let me inspire you today to take a new direction.
Today it is easy for me to understand why my relationships didn't work (1st one lasted 11 years - I didn't understand love or our deeper needs) 2nd lasted 2 years (attracted the wrong man), 3rd 14 months (attracted the wrong man based on his looks and a few similarities). I tried to fit a square peg into a round hole. It didn't work. What transformed my experience, I had gained the valuable relationship awareness I now offer a unique 4 Step Coaching Program Methodology I have designed and created.
Over 13 years when I considered myself single (age 28-41). Over 7 years I studied the relationship mistakes we make and why we make them. Absorbing myself in knowledge, I no longer wasted my time with the wrong men.
I had a mortgage, a career that clearly distracted me from my pain, and there was no one in my life I would even consider settling down with. However, my dream did come true in a way I never thought would be possible!
I was 41 when I met my Mr Extraordinary, it was the perfect timing but also took me 20 years to figure out, so I don’t want you to waste your life making the same mistakes. Serendipity also played a massive part bringing us together when my mind and heart was open. Dave the love of my life was finalising his divorce had 2 children 10 and 13. We married 6 years later and our love and happiness continue to grown 10 years on.
If you want the fairytale and prepared to look inside, focus your energy and time learning new relationship skills, the rest is up to you. You can also f find the love of your life! There are some incredible men out there, as a woman you need to recognise them!
My relationship experience exponentially shifted when I tapped into a new way of thinking to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build the most fulfilling relationship of my life. If you continue to think negatively about yourself, men and your relationships, nothing is going to change. Or be warned, you will keep attracting the same type of guys like your ex. or the same hurtful experiences. Remember your genie!
Try your FREE 14 Day F.I.N.D. and Accelerate Your Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster today. Or accelerate your experience over just 2 days instead of the 20 years it took me to figure out! For more information go to Events page to see which 2-Day Masterclass is right for you.
Tip - Your Mr Extraordinary has to be extraordinary because he will impact your heart, happiness, mental well-being, health, your future dreams and financial freedom. It’s why he's to be extraordinary!
Tip - Make a new choice today to become the chooser in love instead of waiting to be chosen, there is a very big difference. Which one are you?
Ready to be enlightened with the 5 Steps of Relationship Wisdom to accelerate your happiness. It's time to figure out what's stopping you:
To get you started immediately I would love to invite you to try a FREE 14 Day Relationship Success Coaching Taster if you haven't experienced coaching before. Click the link for your overview.
Free 14 Day Online F.I.N.D. and Accelerate your Relationship Success Coaching Program
If you want to get your relationship right next time- are single, or have been divorced a while and you want to meet your Mr Extraordinary, I have created a fast-track coaching program to give you the toolkit you need over just 2 days instead of wasting your life and time. It took me 20 years to figure out what works, so you don't have to. Learning valuable insight and also working with an expert who has achieved the results you want in your life is priceless. It's what makes me the unique expert to accelerate your results.
Let me now inspire you to fill your heart and life with your missing ingredients to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build your extraordinary more loving and lasting relationship that can work!
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Looking forward to meeting you soon!
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
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I also help women struggling to get their heart and life back on track.
Are separating or going through a divorce and looking for answers to cope better emotionally and mentally.
Newly married couples who want to follow a healthy coaching approach to thrive together.
More and more couples are divorcing in retirement. It’s either one of the most painful, emotional and financially life-changing experiences to go through, or it’s a ticket to freedom. But why do people in retirement, nowadays, have an increased chance of filing for divorce?
According to the Office of National Statistics (ONS) dramatic changes in life expectancy have triggered individuals to think if they still want to grow old together. At age 60 or 65, both men and women can still live 30 more years nowadays compared to the early 90's. So, with the kids already old enough to live by themselves, people are thinking "Do I want to live 30 more years of this?"
The Telegraph 8th November 2017 (see link below) mentioned another reason, the "Silver-Fox " phenomenon with men living longer, and still retaining a wandering eye. It also works both ways with women "Cougars", strong independent women, going for the younger man if she is not having her needs fulfilled with her current partner.
Significantly, the figures show that, in stark contrast to other divorce age groups, men over 60 are as likely to file for divorce as women. Overall there were 15,300 people of either gender over the age of 60 getting divorced in 2011 (the last official figures). By contrast in 1991, there were just 8,700.
Perhaps retirement is becoming a later-life crisis? We are thinking of ourselves if we don't have kids to take care of or have needs that aren't fully satisfied. Or, there’s the so-called "bucket-list". Travel the world or move to another country.
As a Relationship and Self-Transformation Coach, Holistic Health and Well-being Therapist, and my personal journey over 20 years I discovered what DOES WORK finding and building a more loving and happier relationship. I now share the most rewarding relationship of my life with my husband I have now been with for almost 10 years. Speaking from experience and 7 years of research to find my answers, qualified education and applying what I learned to attract my now life partner to me, if you are considering separation or divorce, whatever your age, wouldn’t it be worth one last shot to invest 2 days of your time, in the Relationship MOT I offer couples, singles or divorced clients looking for a meaningful relationship?
What you learn and discover in just 2-Days will positively transform your approach and future happiness, possibly with your current partner, or someone new. Also, save you valuable time from making the same mistakes (you are unlikely to even be aware of). Not forgetting the 75K-150K plus your divorce will cost you with legal fees, splitting your assets, pensions, selling your house or buying a new home, and of course the emotional heartache to everyone, including your family.
The 2 Day New Relationship Skills Coaching Program will certainly empower and motivate you to accelerate your life in the right direction. You would discover the informed answers how to BUILD a much stronger, happier and more loving relationship together. Or how to RECOGNISE, FIND and ATTRACT someone new that is right for you.
Lastly, these are some wise words you may wish to consider. Always choose your next steps in love wisely. Your partner or any new potential partner you invest your heart, emotions, energy and life in, will impact your health, happiness, future aspirations, your dreams and the rest of your life, so choose love wisely! Most people don't know how to RECOGNISE if someone is right for them, the most important decision you will make before you start to date, or fall in love again. Then it's too late to turn back.
Before you repeat the same mistakes (you may not even be aware of) consider investing 2 days of your life to take your own relationship MOT that will save you years of more heartache. What price would you pay, if you knew you could discover the knowledge, positively accelerate your happiness and relationship journey, if you could find your RIGHT relationship instead?
Please note, that coaching is NOT a therapy. Coaching will empower, motivate and accelerate the choices you make, to help you move from where you are now, to where you want to be so much faster than you will on your own.
Contact Karen to arrange your FREE 15- minute no obligation introduction call to help you decide on your next steps click here. Or discover when the next 2 Day Relationship Masterclass is coming up click here.
Telegraph link and resource:
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/divorce/10225335/Til-retirement-us-do-part-silver-splitter-divorces-up-by-three-quarters-in-generation.html
We learn new skills for our job without hesitation, start a new hobby, learn to drive because each one has a purpose. When we learn something new, we also push ourselves outside of our comfort zone. It feels unfamiliar, uncomfortable because our brain is processing something new. When you repeat any new behaviour enough times, it then becomes automatic. I bet if you have been driving a while now, you do it automatically. If you knew you could change your life in an unbelievable way that would become automatic, would you learn a new skill? Yes or no?
The successful business women or entrepreneurial super mums I am meeting, who are driven, motivated and living a big life, also very feminine in style and energy, are mostly ALL missing one key ingredient.
What key ingredient? Well, if you believe and know you have so much more potential in YOU and your life (beyond what you could ever imagine right now) and you are determined to live the life you truly deserve and love, you may be intrigued to know......
Perhaps right now you are sabotaging yourself from the life you deserve. From the career or business you want, improved health and happiness, or possibly, your holding yourself back from meeting your Mr Right because of the way you think about men, relationships and yourself.
It's crucial to learn about the way you communicate with YOURSELF with that little voice inside your head, particularly when you’re faced with life challenges, stress, a debilitating health condition, relationship breakdown, losing a loved one, or emotional challenge you may be facing alone. If you are looking to be empowered to overcome your challenge, it's important how you connect to your potential and inner beauty.
Your inner beauty, is the energy you radiate, how you approach your life (anxiously or courageously), your attitude (positive or negative), self-confidence (how you love yourself, look after and value your health, happiness and self-worth) are the KEY ingredients and tools for you to tap into your true potential.
When you consciously learn how to change your thinking, it’s where the MAGIC HAPPENS and your true potential is within greater reach. You become better equipped to discover a much richer, abundant, happier and healthier experience of life, instead of making do where you are now in your life if you want to improve your life.
"Your potential, is a new skill. When you choose to become accountable for your thoughts and actions, step outside your comfort zone as often as you can, you will find your true potential - Karen Marshall".
Remember, when you put your mind to something that's important to you, anything becomes possible, including the life you deserve.
If you aspire to reach your potential, your dreams and goals in life, or you would love to attract and recognise your Mr right, build a more loving and rewarding relationship that works and lasts, stepping outside your comfort zone, is something you need to get comfortable doing. Just take one step at a time, it then becomes so much easier to achieve.
You only have one life, so why not choose a much bigger one with more happiness as your core, key ingredient. Anything is possible, I know so. Not to impress you, but to impress upon you. Yes, when you tap into your potential, push yourself outside your comfort as often as you can, your life turns into one you never imagined would be possible. It did for me, so it can for you too!
Would you love to live the happier and healthier life you truly deserve, or stay where you are right now? Yes or no?
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When it comes to relationships there are two non-negotiable factors for a intimate and successful partnership to work. The first is communication, the second is trust.
Without trust there is very little chance that your relationship will survive or work the way you want it to. Trust is the foundation to build any relationships because quite simply, love is built on trust. As human beings we are hard wired to love people that we place our trust in which takes time to nurture and build.
Vulnerable feelings and emotions will inevitably come up when you meet someone new and fall in love. Working at your relationships also take a lot of commitment, and trust is the basis of any happy and lasting relationship if you are looking to attract Mr Right you would love to settle down and build a future with.
So just how do you gain trust? You may have heard the old adage “trust takes a lifetime to build and a moment to break”. As with most things in life, trust needs to be earned, it’s not automatically given.
Here are 7 Top Tips on how you can build trust in a relationship.
1.Be willing to trust.
Your heart needs to be open to trust before you decide to date a guy if you’re looking for a meaningful or lasting relationship. You have to be willing and open to trust in the first place. Trust is reciprocal, so you can only begin by speaking authentically your feelings inside in a secure and loving way. Or possibly, you may need to work on a limiting belief, to change your mindset if ‘I don’t trust men’ is a belief you are still carrying deep inside you. Such a belief will only continue to sabotage any new relationship unless you discover how to create a more positive and empowering thought instead.
2.Decide what trust means to YOU.
Trust means different things to different people. So get a notepad and just jot down what trust means to you. What comes in to your mind when you think about trust? How would you show that you trust your partner? If you’re clear about what it means to you, you’ll be more successful as you start to build trust.
3.Find out what trust means to a man your dating.
Before you fall in love with someone new, it’s important to ask any man what he thinks about trust and what it means to him. Take some time to discuss the subject, to make sure that you’re on the same page. It's a great starting point and foundation before you enter any new or longer-term relationship.
4.Be trustworthy yourself.
Don’t place the onus on trust with your date or partner. You too have to be trust worthy. Make sure you do what you say you will do, follow through on commitments, be dependable and keep your promises to help your partner feel more secure and trusting in you. So ask yourself the question “Would you trust you?”
5.Keep communicating.
Trust and communication go hand in hand whatever stage your relationship is at. Tell each other how you feel, not what you partner wants to hear, because the moment your thoughts and feelings are withheld, trust becomes harder to sustain if you don’t express yourself or communicate clearly. Loving feelings can easily breakdown, so remember it’s important to discuss your emotions in a secure and loving way if something is bothering you.
6.Know that trust can be chipped away at.
Trust isn’t always just broken by a series of lies or an affair. Sometimes trust issues develop over time. So it’s essential that you recognise the patterns and ensure that you address and work on those little niggles as they happen so you don’t end up with one big argument. When you say what you truthfully feel inside, love will more easily come back into flow once again when you clear any unspoken words you're holding onto. So don't let emotions build up into resentment, this is a difficult breaking point, which can certainly stop any intimacy or sexual chemistry unless you deal with your emotions in the correct way.
7.Building trust in a relationship is crucial for its success.
Learn to see the joy in trust and how you can build and support a new partner to feel more secure. Nurture trust in your own life first, continue to be open and honest, and a more rewarding, happier and loving relationship will grow into what you believe about trust!
If you're struggling with one particular area on your love journey, or want to discover how to bring love back into flow, get in touch on Facebook @lovecoachingyou or come along to a Taster Event or Workshop near you. You'll discover how to feel more self-confident, and the F.I.N.D. Love Accerelator 4 Step Formula will help you - recognise Mr Right, ATTRACT, FIND, NURTURE and BUILD a more lasting, loving and happier relationship that works following simple strategies and techniques.
If you're Really Not Ready for a relationship yet, the FIND Love Accelerator 4 Step Formula will also help to educate, empower and transform where you are now, to where you want to be, before you start dating again. If you're looking for a 10/10 relationship, you need to start with YOU first.
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