With mental and emotional health so prevalent combined with relationship challenges, as a relationship and healthy communication expert, learning how to become the Best You is the first step to feeling emotionally happier and mentally stronger. Discovering the strategies and techniques to do this, will not only positively improve how you think, feel and behave towards yourself (loving you), but you will positively impact your boyfriend, partner, or husband, and your children (you have or want) leading them with your new healthy communication awareness skills.
I know what it feels like to support yourself mentally and emotionally, living on your own, what it means to find and attract a healthy high-quality relationship, and what it takes to transform yourself to become the Best You, it's a life-long journey. Firstly, learning about your style of communication will dramatically deepen your relationship connection with yourself, to then deepen your relationship with the right man you choose to date, or your partner. The Best You skills are the foundation of any healthy loving relationship that can thrive. You will dramatically increase your survival chances too!
In my professional experience, there is a place for individuals to have counselling or therapy, but when does talking therapies give you a Best You or relationship communication structured toolkit? It doesn't, The clients I work with, don’t want or need therapy or counselling, because there is nothing wrong with them. They simply need to learn and follow a structured approach, to improve their communication skills. I have saved marriages following the same Best You program I designed and created, and it's the same healthy communication approach women looking for love, dating to find love, or in love apply in their relationship. Becoming the Best You, will give you the skills to become the Best Partner to the right quality man you want to find and build your happy ever after with.
If you are ready to be empowered, feel happier, and emotionally stronger and want to get it right in love.
To get your most critical dating decision right, becoming the Best You is the foundation to step into your true potential and your happiness within. Remember, the man you choose to date will impact your heart, life, dreams, future, and the family you want or have. Combining your Best You insights and the unique program I have created, anything is possible, I know so.
Your MOT step-by-step makeover opportunity is the greatest gift. It’s revolutionary if you are ready to do what it takes if you love your self-development, and you will find and build the most loving and rewarding relationship, unlike any other relationship. The toolkit you will learn, it’s rather like a muscle you will begin to exercise, develop, and strengthen.
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To get fitter mentally and emotionally stronger in love, to become the Best You and Best Partner, with over 30 years of Best You and relationship experience walking my talk, it's what makes me unique, and the right expert to work with. I will transform how you date, find and build the most rewarding, loving and healthy relationship of your life.
If you would love to find out more about how to become the Best You, I would love to invite you to join my next Masterclass Training Webinar, it's Free. Discover what you need to let go of, or what's holding you back and the 4 Steps My Clients Apply To Find And Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
Dating and Relationship Expert, Coach, Welling Expert in the Mind, Body and Energy, Trainer, Mentor, Consultant.
Professionally qualified, insured, accredited Relationship and Dating Expert, experienced in 5 interventions in the mind, body and energy connection, I combine my professional expertise. With over 20 years of experience, I have walked my talk personally and professionally to become the Best ME to recognise the impact I have on my relationship success with the love of my life. Today I understand male psychology and am heart centred, and spiritual. I know what works and doesn't to recognise, attract, and build the most loving, high-quality relationship with the love of my life. Let me now help you fill your heart and life with the love you truly deserve!
Following covid, the fuel crisis, and the financial pressures more couples face it is essential to strengthen, save or rebuild your relationship before it's too late (if you both still want your relationship to work).
Or you could make the most significant decision of your life, wrongly, without the right discerning knowledge to help you save what you have. In my experience, therapy and counselling are not right for everyone. If you value your self-development and growth, then read on.....
If you are both struggling and miscommunicating, intimacy is breaking down in the bedroom (or has for a while). According to the ONS*, The average age for divorce is 45 for a man and 42 for a woman.
Consider these questions to sense check your relationship happiness together.
If you answered 4 or 5 ‘Yes' to the above 5 questions:
I bet you would develop your business skills at work to support your job function to improve your success or get the promotion you want. Investing time also to develop new relationship skills to improve your relationship success, can take you from where you are now, to strengthen what you have together.
For your relationship to survive and thrive. Read each point then give yourself a mark out of 10. Zero (= lowest number), up to 10 (=you are the best you can be).
Another partner will not make you happy. Apply what you need to learn first. Separation or divorce will subsequently no longer be an option. Get your relationship survival toolkit, the solutions, to see how your relationship will change - if you both want to work on your relationship together.
To get in touch. Contact me here at LoveCoachingYou.com
Meghan Markle and her Prince Charming
We all know Meghan Markle, she is in the worldwide press, 36 and divorcee. She was once a little cygnet, is now a beautiful swan, princess and inspiration for any modern single or divorced woman. She's the beautiful bride (now wife) to her adorable modern day Prince Charming, the gorgeous Prince Harry.
Meghan also gives a great deal of hope to women her own age. It’s the pivotal age our focus changes from our career to thinking more seriously about settling down if you want a family and the clock is ticking if you're still single and searching for your Prince Charming.
To discover the 5 Enlightening Steps For Relationship Success and a FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster to find and build a strong, healthy, more loving and rewarding relationship that can thrive, I have some valuable wisdom to share today. As the voice of the relationship survival revolution, my vision is to inspire millions of women like you to take a new approach if you’re determined to find your Prince Charming. I prefer to call him Mr Extraordinary!
Does this sound like you?
If you are like me when I was in my early 30’s and single, you may be fiercely independent, have a great career or business, so your single status doesn’t define you because you are choosing to be single. You may have your own home, earn a high salary, are self-sufficient with no time pressure to meet your Prince.
You are also unlikely to focus on finding Mr Extraorindary because you also believe in serendipity when the timing is right, or the law of attraction - that one day the universe will deliver your Prince. However be careful what you wish for. If deep down you believe you will get hurt again, or men will let you down, there are no good men out there. Your genie will deliver what you ask for subconsciously! So let me guide you in the right direction to reset your relationship compass towards a high-quality, loving and rewarding relationship you truly deserve.
I started out believing in the happy ever after, as everyone does growing up. I also focused heavily on my career as most ambitious women do. If you are a modern woman, want a big lifestyle and the money to live comfortably, your career will easily keep you distracted from finding true love.
If you now find yourself over 35, suddenly being single by choice changes into a soul-searching question. Will you meet your Prince to have a family with if your clock is now ticking as your fertility starts to decline? Panic starts to set in. But some woman in their late 30's are now taking even greater control of their fertility and seeking to freeze their eggs or have artificial insemination with no Prince Charming in sight.
Sadly, for many women in their 40s, it’s the decade we have to come to terms with the realisation of not having children (unless you go it alone and choose insemination). Or shift your thinking and become open to new possibilities, as more families blend together. Meghan is a great example of this as an African American growing up with divorced parents. She reflects the real modern day woman and blended family.
Has life thrown you a curve ball and experience you didn't expect if you are still single or exhausted of relationships not working or ending?
When my 3rd significant relationships ended, I was 33 and heartbroken, my mum also unexpectedly died at the same time I was made redundant, so I was in no place by choice to even consider a relationship. Perhaps life has pushed you around and taken you on a journey you didn’t expect? It's why I am now an accredited Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Expert. Mentor. Mind, Body and Energy Practitioner to help women like you find your Mr Extraordinary.
By sharing my qualified education and 9 years experience combined with my personal journey and the wisdom I have discovered over 20 years, let me inspire you today to take a new direction.
Today it is easy for me to understand why my relationships didn't work (1st one lasted 11 years - I didn't understand love or our deeper needs) 2nd lasted 2 years (attracted the wrong man), 3rd 14 months (attracted the wrong man based on his looks and a few similarities). I tried to fit a square peg into a round hole. It didn't work. What transformed my experience, I had gained the valuable relationship awareness I now offer a unique 4 Step Coaching Program Methodology I have designed and created.
Over 13 years when I considered myself single (age 28-41). Over 7 years I studied the relationship mistakes we make and why we make them. Absorbing myself in knowledge, I no longer wasted my time with the wrong men.
I had a mortgage, a career that clearly distracted me from my pain, and there was no one in my life I would even consider settling down with. However, my dream did come true in a way I never thought would be possible!
I was 41 when I met my Mr Extraordinary, it was the perfect timing but also took me 20 years to figure out, so I don’t want you to waste your life making the same mistakes. Serendipity also played a massive part bringing us together when my mind and heart was open. Dave the love of my life was finalising his divorce had 2 children 10 and 13. We married 6 years later and our love and happiness continue to grown 10 years on.
If you want the fairytale and prepared to look inside, focus your energy and time learning new relationship skills, the rest is up to you. You can also f find the love of your life! There are some incredible men out there, as a woman you need to recognise them!
My relationship experience exponentially shifted when I tapped into a new way of thinking to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build the most fulfilling relationship of my life. If you continue to think negatively about yourself, men and your relationships, nothing is going to change. Or be warned, you will keep attracting the same type of guys like your ex. or the same hurtful experiences. Remember your genie!
Try your FREE 14 Day F.I.N.D. and Accelerate Your Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster today. Or accelerate your experience over just 2 days instead of the 20 years it took me to figure out! For more information go to Events page to see which 2-Day Masterclass is right for you.
Tip - Your Mr Extraordinary has to be extraordinary because he will impact your heart, happiness, mental well-being, health, your future dreams and financial freedom. It’s why he's to be extraordinary!
Tip - Make a new choice today to become the chooser in love instead of waiting to be chosen, there is a very big difference. Which one are you?
Ready to be enlightened with the 5 Steps of Relationship Wisdom to accelerate your happiness. It's time to figure out what's stopping you:
To get you started immediately I would love to invite you to try a FREE 14 Day Relationship Success Coaching Taster if you haven't experienced coaching before. Click the link for your overview.
Free 14 Day Online F.I.N.D. and Accelerate your Relationship Success Coaching Program
If you want to get your relationship right next time- are single, or have been divorced a while and you want to meet your Mr Extraordinary, I have created a fast-track coaching program to give you the toolkit you need over just 2 days instead of wasting your life and time. It took me 20 years to figure out what works, so you don't have to. Learning valuable insight and also working with an expert who has achieved the results you want in your life is priceless. It's what makes me the unique expert to accelerate your results.
Let me now inspire you to fill your heart and life with your missing ingredients to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build your extraordinary more loving and lasting relationship that can work!
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I also help women struggling to get their heart and life back on track.
Are separating or going through a divorce and looking for answers to cope better emotionally and mentally.
Newly married couples who want to follow a healthy coaching approach to thrive together.
More and more couples are divorcing in retirement. It’s either one of the most painful, emotional and financially life-changing experiences to go through, or it’s a ticket to freedom. But why do people in retirement, nowadays, have an increased chance of filing for divorce?
According to the Office of National Statistics (ONS) dramatic changes in life expectancy have triggered individuals to think if they still want to grow old together. At age 60 or 65, both men and women can still live 30 more years nowadays compared to the early 90's. So, with the kids already old enough to live by themselves, people are thinking "Do I want to live 30 more years of this?"
The Telegraph 8th November 2017 (see link below) mentioned another reason, the "Silver-Fox " phenomenon with men living longer, and still retaining a wandering eye. It also works both ways with women "Cougars", strong independent women, going for the younger man if she is not having her needs fulfilled with her current partner.
Significantly, the figures show that, in stark contrast to other divorce age groups, men over 60 are as likely to file for divorce as women. Overall there were 15,300 people of either gender over the age of 60 getting divorced in 2011 (the last official figures). By contrast in 1991, there were just 8,700.
Perhaps retirement is becoming a later-life crisis? We are thinking of ourselves if we don't have kids to take care of or have needs that aren't fully satisfied. Or, there’s the so-called "bucket-list". Travel the world or move to another country.
As a Relationship and Self-Transformation Coach, Holistic Health and Well-being Therapist, and my personal journey over 20 years I discovered what DOES WORK finding and building a more loving and happier relationship. I now share the most rewarding relationship of my life with my husband I have now been with for almost 10 years. Speaking from experience and 7 years of research to find my answers, qualified education and applying what I learned to attract my now life partner to me, if you are considering separation or divorce, whatever your age, wouldn’t it be worth one last shot to invest 2 days of your time, in the Relationship MOT I offer couples, singles or divorced clients looking for a meaningful relationship?
What you learn and discover in just 2-Days will positively transform your approach and future happiness, possibly with your current partner, or someone new. Also, save you valuable time from making the same mistakes (you are unlikely to even be aware of). Not forgetting the 75K-150K plus your divorce will cost you with legal fees, splitting your assets, pensions, selling your house or buying a new home, and of course the emotional heartache to everyone, including your family.
The 2 Day New Relationship Skills Coaching Program will certainly empower and motivate you to accelerate your life in the right direction. You would discover the informed answers how to BUILD a much stronger, happier and more loving relationship together. Or how to RECOGNISE, FIND and ATTRACT someone new that is right for you.
Lastly, these are some wise words you may wish to consider. Always choose your next steps in love wisely. Your partner or any new potential partner you invest your heart, emotions, energy and life in, will impact your health, happiness, future aspirations, your dreams and the rest of your life, so choose love wisely! Most people don't know how to RECOGNISE if someone is right for them, the most important decision you will make before you start to date, or fall in love again. Then it's too late to turn back.
Before you repeat the same mistakes (you may not even be aware of) consider investing 2 days of your life to take your own relationship MOT that will save you years of more heartache. What price would you pay, if you knew you could discover the knowledge, positively accelerate your happiness and relationship journey, if you could find your RIGHT relationship instead?
Please note, that coaching is NOT a therapy. Coaching will empower, motivate and accelerate the choices you make, to help you move from where you are now, to where you want to be so much faster than you will on your own.
Contact Karen to arrange your FREE 15- minute no obligation introduction call to help you decide on your next steps click here. Or discover when the next 2 Day Relationship Masterclass is coming up click here.
Telegraph link and resource:
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/divorce/10225335/Til-retirement-us-do-part-silver-splitter-divorces-up-by-three-quarters-in-generation.html
We learn new skills for our job without hesitation, start a new hobby, learn to drive because each one has a purpose. When we learn something new, we also push ourselves outside of our comfort zone. It feels unfamiliar, uncomfortable because our brain is processing something new. When you repeat any new behaviour enough times, it then becomes automatic. I bet if you have been driving a while now, you do it automatically. If you knew you could change your life in an unbelievable way that would become automatic, would you learn a new skill? Yes or no?
The successful business women or entrepreneurial super mums I am meeting, who are driven, motivated and living a big life, also very feminine in style and energy, are mostly ALL missing one key ingredient.
What key ingredient? Well, if you believe and know you have so much more potential in YOU and your life (beyond what you could ever imagine right now) and you are determined to live the life you truly deserve and love, you may be intrigued to know......
Perhaps right now you are sabotaging yourself from the life you deserve. From the career or business you want, improved health and happiness, or possibly, your holding yourself back from meeting your Mr Right because of the way you think about men, relationships and yourself.
It's crucial to learn about the way you communicate with YOURSELF with that little voice inside your head, particularly when you’re faced with life challenges, stress, a debilitating health condition, relationship breakdown, losing a loved one, or emotional challenge you may be facing alone. If you are looking to be empowered to overcome your challenge, it's important how you connect to your potential and inner beauty.
Your inner beauty, is the energy you radiate, how you approach your life (anxiously or courageously), your attitude (positive or negative), self-confidence (how you love yourself, look after and value your health, happiness and self-worth) are the KEY ingredients and tools for you to tap into your true potential.
When you consciously learn how to change your thinking, it’s where the MAGIC HAPPENS and your true potential is within greater reach. You become better equipped to discover a much richer, abundant, happier and healthier experience of life, instead of making do where you are now in your life if you want to improve your life.
"Your potential, is a new skill. When you choose to become accountable for your thoughts and actions, step outside your comfort zone as often as you can, you will find your true potential - Karen Marshall".
Remember, when you put your mind to something that's important to you, anything becomes possible, including the life you deserve.
If you aspire to reach your potential, your dreams and goals in life, or you would love to attract and recognise your Mr right, build a more loving and rewarding relationship that works and lasts, stepping outside your comfort zone, is something you need to get comfortable doing. Just take one step at a time, it then becomes so much easier to achieve.
You only have one life, so why not choose a much bigger one with more happiness as your core, key ingredient. Anything is possible, I know so. Not to impress you, but to impress upon you. Yes, when you tap into your potential, push yourself outside your comfort as often as you can, your life turns into one you never imagined would be possible. It did for me, so it can for you too!
Would you love to live the happier and healthier life you truly deserve, or stay where you are right now? Yes or no?
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If you continue to WAIT for the right man to arrive in your life, and only focus all your energy on your career, friends, family, hobbies and social interests, you could be wasting valuable time waiting for Mr Right to turn up. Before you realise, another 1, 2, or 5 years will pass you by, which is precious time if you are now much older in your 30's, 40's, 50's plus and don't want to keep making the same relationship mistakes.
It's important to consider if you have been single for a while, if you meet a new man unexpectedly, you could possibly get involved too quickly if you don't have any understanding of what you DO WANT from another relationship, before it starts. If this is the case, the chances are, you are likely to repeat the same relationship mistakes again (you might not even aware until you identify them).
With Coaching support you will quickly and easily identify who is right for you, before you invest your heart, emotions and life with Mr Wrong. Any new relationship can end as quickly as it starts, if you don't get the basics right before you get involved (especially if your attraction is based on sexual attraction). It will be short-lived and is more unlikely to last. However, if you do the work to understand what DOES WORK, your life could change in a way you never expected. It happened for me, so it can certainly happen for you if you are ready and willing to learn new relationship skills.
I am sure you would happily learn a new skill at work for your job, or something you really wanted to do. and required more knowledge to do it much better to get the results you wanted. The same applies in your relationships. If you want to RECOGNISE your Mr Right, or discover how to become the BEST PARTNER you can be, you need to learn new relationship skills to a) discern and recognise Mr Right, is right for you. This will be the most important decision you will make choosing your next potential partner so invest your heart and head wisely. b) Without the right awareness you could be setting yourself up for failure and more heartache.
You believe.......YOU will know, when the right man arrives in your life?
How will you know he is right for you beyond looks and chemistry? If you don’t understand your values or what you believe is important about Mr Right, you could be sabotaging or stopping yourself from being open to him e.g. if you are fearful about being hurt again or let down. Firstly you would need to explore your belief about fear and how you can change it, then get clear about what type of guy you DO want to share your life with. When you discover what's important, Mr Right will instinctively jump out to you when you know what type of questions to ask him. If he has similar values, lots in common with you, communicates effectively and is aligned with your lifestyle and dreams, you will be better equipped to quickly decide if he is right or wrong for you. So get really clear about what you DO WANT before you start any new relationship.
You believe.....YOU cannot go looking for love?
It’s important to discover how you can become the CHOOSER, instead of waiting to be CHOSEN. When you do this, you will accelerate your relationship opportunities. When you take different steps and actions to change your approach, you will significantly increase and alter the course of your life e.g. If you enjoy cycling, go to cycling social events , or go to fitness shows if you enjoy fitness. You never know where you will meet a guy who is aligned with you. When you go somewhere or do something different today and open yourself up to new exciting opportunities, you will increase your chances of meeting a guy you really want to attract to you.
You believe...the right man will make you happy
When you take time to discover how to become the best version of yourself, you will become an even more amazing partner for your Mr Right. When you learn to love yourself unconditionally, improve your inner happiness, your inner confidence and look after your body, personal self-development is key. Taking responsibility for your own happiness, will kick start any new relationship when you already have your own healthier foundations in place, before you invest your body and life with another partner you pin your hopes and hope will make you happy.
Imagine, if you feel insecure and unhappy inside, you are more likely to attract a similar guy who is insecure with similar destructive relationship behaviour patterns. Or possibly attract, a controlling or more challenging relationship that will make you unhappy . Remember, like attracts like. When you understand how to start feeling happier, become aware of the obstacles and beliefs holding you back your awareness will change, then you will attract or become more open to a different type of guy, who is aligned with you on a much deeper level beyond looks and chemistry.
Top Tip - Become the person you want to meet! Embrace your feminine power, your energy, the strong woman you are, work on the limiting beliefs stopping you or holding you back from the loving relationship you want. When you do this, your beauty will shine and radiate inside and out. Your energy and mind are then aligned to attract the right man into you life, like no other man you have known before.
As Wayne Dyer once said. "When you change the things you look at........the things you look at change". Similarly with your thinking. Change your thinking and your life experience will change in an unimaginable way.
How Relationship Transformation Coaching will help and support you:
To Fast Track and speed up your relationship journey, I have designed a unique Coaching Programme (aligned with 20 years of my personal journey and experience to find Mr Extraordinary and WHAT DOES WORK in relationships) to give you all the relationship and self-development insight wrapped around coaching exercises that will only empower and prepare you in readiness to meet Mr Right.
For your FREE 14 day online access to the incredible relationship changing programme, How To Recognise Your Mr Extraordinary, click here. Is it time for you to FAST TRACK your relationship journey if you are looking for a much deeper and rewarding love connection like never before that works and lasts?!
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