When two people find each other happy, your relationship will make you even happier! So make time to fall in love with yourself first to feel happy:
The 7 Steps To Fall In Love With Yourself, includes:
♥ Love, enjoy and celebrate what makes you happy every day!
♥ Fall in love with who you are, your looks, your body, and how you feel about yourself.
♥ Develop your self-esteem when you feel low, lost, or lonely. Learn to love and nurture your little girl inside as you would if she was your own.
♥ The more time you focus on your inner and outer happiness, the more brightly your inner and outer beauty will shine!
♥ Learning to overcome your negative self-beliefs about yourself, men and relationships and you will become mentally and emotionally stronger, positive and happier inside.
♥ Loving yourself daily, your energy will positively shift your lower frequency into a much higher frequency to attract the right high-quality man, right for you!
♥ Shifting your psychology, your physiology and energy will lead you towards a life and the relationship you never imagined or believed to be possible. I know so!
I am excited to announce today. To explore your inner happiness, I explain in the next webinar (see link below) the 4 steps every woman needs to focus on to attract the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you!
To get your 4 steps right, in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, I explain each one in the next webinar.
Click this link for more information - To Get Your 4 Steps Right
If you have been single or divorced for a while, perhaps Valentine's Day is another calendar event you would still rather avoid even though we are all staying home during the lockdown. If you are exhausted of relationships not working out, or attracting the wrong men. To stand out from your competition on your dating membership sites, apps or joining a dating agency, you will need to ATTRACT the right high-quality man to YOU (using a precious toolkit you would need to learn in advance of dating)!
Yes, it's a rollercoaster of fun and excitement when you meet someone you like and meet up with. As a leading dating and relationship expert, my best advice is to revisit your relationship skills before you start dating or feel ready for another relationship if you have been heartbroken and are living alone. Take your quick MOT. The Top 3 Dating Tips that men see and sense about you, if men are ghosting you, unreliable, or don't commit. Your free download will take 5 minutes to read. Click here for your copy.
If you are dating, leaving love to chance, or waiting for the next high-quality man (you think is right for you but could be so wrong for you) to be matched with online, if what you have been doing so far is not working out for you, to uncover your 10% that could be sabotaging your chances. Join the next free Masterclass Training Webinar coming up shortly to get it right with the next quality man you recognise doesn't come into your life that often.
Married At First Sight Australia demonstrates, particularly what the women do, to sabotage their potential success. E.g. I have seen many create an argument to end the relationship (when deep down they fear getting hurt again). They don't understand themselves so the way they cope best is to protect themselves, close down, and walk away.
The most valuable gift you could give yourself today, start the next Masterclass Training Webinar starting shortly.
The successful businesswomen who get over 95% success rate have done the work, in advance of dating while they are single. While they focus on work and/or family (if they have children) and live alone. They are using the toolkit I cover in the next masterclass webinar.
If you don't want to waste any more of your time or life feeling emotionally empty or start another relationship that's going where, join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar starting shortly.
To re-ignite your self-confidence, get your Free download, The Top 3 Dating Tips men see and sense about you, if they ghost you, are unreliable, or don't commit.
Warmest Wishes
Karen Marshall
LoveCoachingYou.com
P.s. My credentials to know you are working with the right expert who has achieved the results you want!
As a qualified and highly-skilled mind, body, and energy expert, I combine over 25 years of personal relationship knowledge that works with my professionally qualified expertise to accelerate your dating and relationship happiness. Do you want a high-quality man or second best? You decide.
Join the next Free Masterclass Training for the powerful insights you need to know, in advance of dating.
Plus the Top 3 Dating Tips Every Woman Needs To Know
If you are a high-achieving woman, or supermum and want to get your dating decision right, you will need to value your self-development if what you have been doing so far on your dating or relationship journey hasn't been working out for you.
Your brain will always protect you from seemingly dangerous situations. Especially, if you think deep down negatively about men, relationships, or yourself. Your subconscious brain is programmed to divert your attention when your fight or flight response is activated to keep you away from another stressful situation your brain regards as dangerous e.g. even a dating situation. Or you may have been invited to a lovely social event that you know eligible men are attending, but you decide not to go because you are too busy, but deep down you prefer to avoid going to protect yourself (e.g. for the fear of being hurt again). This subconscious behaviour will continue to sabotage your chances. You also need to know your Step 1 postcode and address to recognise the right Mr Right, Step 2 is to understand how to recognise a man communicates with you that glue that will build a stronger relationship.
Unless you become aware of the way you think, and what you believe to be true, and the way you communicate. your magic genie will continue to deliver your self-fulfilling prophecy, the man you believe deep down will turn up e.g. a guy who will let you down, want you for sex, is not committed.
To accelerate your dating journey in minutes, instead of the 20 years it took me to figure you out.
2. Or discover your blindspots, and what is stopping you on my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar.
- Your love quote today -
Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused. Paulo Coelho.
To unravel your confusion, and fill your heart and life with your missing ingredient, let me help you get it right if you are ready to Recognise, Attract and Build your most loving high-quality loving relationship that will thrive and survive!
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
Meghan Markle and her Prince Charming
We all know Meghan Markle, she is in the worldwide press, 36 and divorcee. She was once a little cygnet, is now a beautiful swan, princess and inspiration for any modern single or divorced woman. She's the beautiful bride (now wife) to her adorable modern day Prince Charming, the gorgeous Prince Harry.
Meghan also gives a great deal of hope to women her own age. It’s the pivotal age our focus changes from our career to thinking more seriously about settling down if you want a family and the clock is ticking if you're still single and searching for your Prince Charming.
To discover the 5 Enlightening Steps For Relationship Success and a FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster to find and build a strong, healthy, more loving and rewarding relationship that can thrive, I have some valuable wisdom to share today. As the voice of the relationship survival revolution, my vision is to inspire millions of women like you to take a new approach if you’re determined to find your Prince Charming. I prefer to call him Mr Extraordinary!
Does this sound like you?
If you are like me when I was in my early 30’s and single, you may be fiercely independent, have a great career or business, so your single status doesn’t define you because you are choosing to be single. You may have your own home, earn a high salary, are self-sufficient with no time pressure to meet your Prince.
You are also unlikely to focus on finding Mr Extraorindary because you also believe in serendipity when the timing is right, or the law of attraction - that one day the universe will deliver your Prince. However be careful what you wish for. If deep down you believe you will get hurt again, or men will let you down, there are no good men out there. Your genie will deliver what you ask for subconsciously! So let me guide you in the right direction to reset your relationship compass towards a high-quality, loving and rewarding relationship you truly deserve.
I started out believing in the happy ever after, as everyone does growing up. I also focused heavily on my career as most ambitious women do. If you are a modern woman, want a big lifestyle and the money to live comfortably, your career will easily keep you distracted from finding true love.
If you now find yourself over 35, suddenly being single by choice changes into a soul-searching question. Will you meet your Prince to have a family with if your clock is now ticking as your fertility starts to decline? Panic starts to set in. But some woman in their late 30's are now taking even greater control of their fertility and seeking to freeze their eggs or have artificial insemination with no Prince Charming in sight.
Sadly, for many women in their 40s, it’s the decade we have to come to terms with the realisation of not having children (unless you go it alone and choose insemination). Or shift your thinking and become open to new possibilities, as more families blend together. Meghan is a great example of this as an African American growing up with divorced parents. She reflects the real modern day woman and blended family.
Has life thrown you a curve ball and experience you didn't expect if you are still single or exhausted of relationships not working or ending?
When my 3rd significant relationships ended, I was 33 and heartbroken, my mum also unexpectedly died at the same time I was made redundant, so I was in no place by choice to even consider a relationship. Perhaps life has pushed you around and taken you on a journey you didn’t expect? It's why I am now an accredited Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Expert. Mentor. Mind, Body and Energy Practitioner to help women like you find your Mr Extraordinary.
By sharing my qualified education and 9 years experience combined with my personal journey and the wisdom I have discovered over 20 years, let me inspire you today to take a new direction.
Today it is easy for me to understand why my relationships didn't work (1st one lasted 11 years - I didn't understand love or our deeper needs) 2nd lasted 2 years (attracted the wrong man), 3rd 14 months (attracted the wrong man based on his looks and a few similarities). I tried to fit a square peg into a round hole. It didn't work. What transformed my experience, I had gained the valuable relationship awareness I now offer a unique 4 Step Coaching Program Methodology I have designed and created.
Over 13 years when I considered myself single (age 28-41). Over 7 years I studied the relationship mistakes we make and why we make them. Absorbing myself in knowledge, I no longer wasted my time with the wrong men.
I had a mortgage, a career that clearly distracted me from my pain, and there was no one in my life I would even consider settling down with. However, my dream did come true in a way I never thought would be possible!
I was 41 when I met my Mr Extraordinary, it was the perfect timing but also took me 20 years to figure out, so I don’t want you to waste your life making the same mistakes. Serendipity also played a massive part bringing us together when my mind and heart was open. Dave the love of my life was finalising his divorce had 2 children 10 and 13. We married 6 years later and our love and happiness continue to grown 10 years on.
If you want the fairytale and prepared to look inside, focus your energy and time learning new relationship skills, the rest is up to you. You can also f find the love of your life! There are some incredible men out there, as a woman you need to recognise them!
My relationship experience exponentially shifted when I tapped into a new way of thinking to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build the most fulfilling relationship of my life. If you continue to think negatively about yourself, men and your relationships, nothing is going to change. Or be warned, you will keep attracting the same type of guys like your ex. or the same hurtful experiences. Remember your genie!
Try your FREE 14 Day F.I.N.D. and Accelerate Your Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster today. Or accelerate your experience over just 2 days instead of the 20 years it took me to figure out! For more information go to Events page to see which 2-Day Masterclass is right for you.
Tip - Your Mr Extraordinary has to be extraordinary because he will impact your heart, happiness, mental well-being, health, your future dreams and financial freedom. It’s why he's to be extraordinary!
Tip - Make a new choice today to become the chooser in love instead of waiting to be chosen, there is a very big difference. Which one are you?
Ready to be enlightened with the 5 Steps of Relationship Wisdom to accelerate your happiness. It's time to figure out what's stopping you:
To get you started immediately I would love to invite you to try a FREE 14 Day Relationship Success Coaching Taster if you haven't experienced coaching before. Click the link for your overview.
Free 14 Day Online F.I.N.D. and Accelerate your Relationship Success Coaching Program
If you want to get your relationship right next time- are single, or have been divorced a while and you want to meet your Mr Extraordinary, I have created a fast-track coaching program to give you the toolkit you need over just 2 days instead of wasting your life and time. It took me 20 years to figure out what works, so you don't have to. Learning valuable insight and also working with an expert who has achieved the results you want in your life is priceless. It's what makes me the unique expert to accelerate your results.
Let me now inspire you to fill your heart and life with your missing ingredients to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build your extraordinary more loving and lasting relationship that can work!
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Looking forward to meeting you soon!
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Finding love isn’t always easy if you are a woman in your late 30’s, 40’s or 50’s+ and you find yourself single or divorced a while and you want to avoid more heartache. But get this. You still have an amazing gift – your FREEDOM TO CHOOSE.
If you have never married before, would love to settle down, or you have been divorced a while with children and co-parenting with an ex. partner and you are considering dating. You may find it hard living alone, coping through the ups and downs of life, supporting yourself financially, emotionally and mentally. The right life skills would give you the emotional scaffolding to feel stronger inside and also help you to better support your children as you lead them by a new healthy communication example.
There are many times you may feel vulnerable living as a single woman or parent. These such times you would love to be loved and cherished. It is also often too easy to reach out to someone new if you are feeling needy of being loved. Be warned, you are also likely to get hurt again.
Today I want to motivate you with a new choice to find someone extraordinary if you are prepared to help yourself and do what it takes to change your life into a much happier, more loving and fulfilling future you truly deserve.
There are a lot of amazing men out there, but first you need to take responsibility for your 50% of the relationship you want in your life, particularly if you have been heartbroken too many times. What do I mean? It is far to easy to pass blame to a partner if he didn't meet your needs. It is also your responsibility to consider what part did you play in your previous relationships break down for it to end. Did you take responsibility for your emotions instead of telling a partner they upset you?
There are many reasons relationships end, you may have been left the victim, but also you may be sabotaging your relationship(s) without realising it. Your subconscious could be protecting you from being hurt again. e.g. you may push someone away from you because they are getting too close emotionally for the fear of being hurt again.
When you begin to listen much more loudly to the words you use, how you communicate and talk to yourself inside your head, what you say and how you speak to your colleagues at work, your friends and family. Do you talk positively about yourself, or put yourself down? This is a good indicator of your self-esteem and self-confidence. Or maybe, you continue to tell yourself you keep meeting the same type of men, or you cannot trust anyone because you were hurt previously. How you talk to yourself right now will determine the type of man you attract to you.
Imagine you are speaking to a magical genie. You hear yourself saying - men let you down, you are fearful of being hurt again. The words you say to yourself, your genie will continue to deliver what you ask for! Its called the law of attraction or your self-fulling prophecy a subject I could talk to you about for hours.
To start your new journey, it's important to become aware of your language, negative and positive, to change your self-awareness and language into what you DO WANT, instead of what you don't want.
To do this takes practice, on a daily basis to create new neuropathways your brain begins to refer to instead of your old way of thinking where you are right now. When you become aware of the way you communicate, think and behave you will more easily transform and change your approach next time.
In your previous relationships, did you communicate your needs clearly, did you use protest behaviour (e.g. become moody, indirectly say you are fine when inside you feel upset, or use tit for tat approach and not speak to each other for hours or days, or did you communicate your deeper emotions and needs clearly)?
Today the best advice I can give you, having walked my talk, is take the time to learn more about yourself NOW and how you tick, think, behave and communicate. If you want to meet someone extraordinary you will instinctively recognise your Mr or Mrs Right when you meet them. This recognition will happen quickly when you’ve taken the time to understand yourself on a much deeper level, spending time loving you, building a relationship with yourself to feel more self-confident, resilient and happier in your own skin and life. Your energy and the frequency you then emit will also change.
There are two scenarios I want you to consider. The first one. How confident do you feel in business based on your personal performance on a scale of zero up to 10? If 10=highest number, what number would you give yourself on this scale? If you are above 8 you are pretty self-assured and are doing a great job. You may be at the top of your game and doing a great job. You know your stuff.
Now scenario two. Now ask yourself. How confident do you feel in yourself at recognising a man, someone new, who can easily communicate, share similar values and interests, also satisfy your deeper needs to be there for you through the ups and downs of life, beyond sexual chemistry? Most people would possibly give a much lower number on the scale of zero up to 10. Would you agree?
If you are learning anything new at work, or you recognise you need to learn a new skill to perform better in your job, to work more efficiently and effectively, you would go on a course to improve your skill set.
As a Life Coach (now specialising as a Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Relationship and Well-being Expert qualified to accelerate your personal happiness and relationship success, learning life-changing skills today will change your relationship perspective, how you approach a new relationship and you will reset your heart, head and life in a new positive happier direction. You would also be better equipped to attract the man you want to attract to you and begin to build a much stronger relationship together because you have the relationship skills to do so.
Today I would like to invite you to improve your relationship skillset, to discover and accelerate your relationship proficiency, discover what's important to you about the relationship you want to share your life with, how to improve your communication skills in your relationship, how you deal with conflict to bring love back into the flow so much more quickly. When you discover your deeper needs, you will more easily support a new partner's deeper needs. It makes sense doesn't it?
Learning these skills you will become the best version of yourself and the best partner you can be to someone new. You will more easily recognise if a man is aligned with you emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually very quickly. You will have the skills to understand a man is naturally wired and capable of giving you what you want emotionally to build a more rewarding, loving and connected relationship that can work and last, that is right or you.
The greatest gift you can give yourself this Christmas is the gift to super-accelerate your next steps towards the man you would love to attract to you. How you feel in your heart and mind right now, will determine the type of man you attract to you. If you want to avoid meeting the same men, to recognise someone extraordinary (they need to be sharing your life and heart) I would like to introduce to you a FREE 14 Day Relationship Coaching Taster (that will only take you 90 minutes to complete) or 10 minutes a day over 9 days. If you then wish to continue through the program I am only charging £97 to accelerate your next steps with life-transforming coaching exercises to set you on a new pathway in 2019.
I am delighted to introduce you an online experience you can discover right now if it is right for you. Are you ready to invest a few hours of your time to recognise and build a more connected relationship, to get clear about what's important to you, to discover why you could be sabotaging yourself without realising it and whether someone is capable of satisfying your deeper needs?
To accelerate your next steps to find the love and partner you truly deserve in 2019, let me help you this Christmas time.