Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?
Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s. Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.
This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
Imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy. Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up. One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean? What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!
Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you. For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.
Let's take a minute to pause once more. Here's another example to consider. When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking). When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?
Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!
But be warned. Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure? You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.
To get you started, come along to:
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Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk. I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising. Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!
Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time. What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?
Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years. It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too. I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47. I cried happy tears. Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!
Today I will share on the next FREE Masterclass Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You. Come along and join it, you can simply listen.
Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory? No, you wouldn't. Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.
To uncover your blindspots, here are three of them - The Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
If you want to get absolutely clear about what you need to know to understand how YOU communicate in business and your romantic relationship(s), you will super-accelerate your dating chances with Mr Right, a high-quality man you do want to get it right with.
How you communicate in business is very different to your relationship communication. Most successful women wonder what the problem is, when they are so successful at their role or job, but cannot get it right with men. Working with my clients I help them learn these differences, sharing 20 years of insights, so you stop wasting any more time getting it wrong.
Learning this knowledge is priceless because what it will give you, are the skills to easily navigate the communication challenges you will face dating and falling in love. To build a thriving healthy relationship, this is invaluable knowledge. You can learn leadership profiling skills in business, but when you translate this into love, it has a very different meaning, understanding three very different communication styles.
The type of man you would love to attract may be successful in business, good looking and very charming. However, if you have not had a hug, sex, shared intimacy, or had a relationship in a while, the chances are you will go down the wrong road, and jump into the first bus (any relationship) that comes your way. Feeling needy of love, without any understanding of your correct postcode (Step 1), how a man communicates with you on a date (step 2), the reasons your genie could sabotage your dating chances (step 3). Without this priceless insight, you have a small window of opportunity to get it right next time.
Sex and dating may be great at first, but love will fade very quickly if you don't get the fundamentals right if men treat you like a doormat, ghost you, are unreliable or don't commit. Unfortunately, only pain will guide you to avoid more of it so if you have had enough heartache in love, it's time to learn your toolkit.
If the love you dream of finding is priceless to you, as it was to me, let me fast-track your results in love, to transform your heart and life! Here is reminder of each step.
Every woman needs to know The Top 3 Dating Tips in advance of dating, if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. Or come along and join me on the next Free Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.
Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence. Vincent Van Gogh
Loving Wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
It is the biggest adjustment you will go through, learning to live alone again, learning about yourself and living independently, as you look after your children (if you have a family). It's a massive life-transforming learning curve while you are coping with your emotions, and negative thoughts while finding your way forward.
Divorce recovery can be a slow healing process especially if you had a toxic relationship leaving your self-confidence at rock bottom. Whether you are at the beginning or a few years into your divorce recovery, the way you feel about yourself, men, and your relationships will take you down two roads. Either a continued negative spiral I wouldn't want anyone to endure, or the catalyst to positively transform your happiness and mindset that will lead to the new future you truly deserve.
Here at Love Coaching You, we understand that there’s the loneliness, the feeling of not being whole; after all the disillusionment, pain and heartache in your marriage.
There is also the fear of being single. How will I cope? It’s scary to start over by yourself after depending on your marriage. You may have merged your identity so closely with your spouse’s – defining yourself as half of a couple, not as an individual – that you can’t imagine continuing on your own.
Perhaps you don’t know if you’re strong enough to take care of yourself without a spouse’s help. Or you’re ashamed of singlehood in a society defined by relationships. But don’t worry, single or divorced for a while, you will start to feel YOU again.
Take your time and effort for your part, as it can be challenging to reinvent yourself as a single person, but through patience and positive thinking, you can and will do it, if you are ready to learn about yourself - to experience a new way of living, feeling, behaving mentally and emotionally.
If you no longer want pain, the heartache and you are ready to shift your happiness. If you want your own business for greater financial freedom, invest in property for your security, or progress your career to regain control of your heart and life, and support your family, we are the right experts at LoveCoachingYou to give you the priceless toolkit you will need.
Hello my name is Karen Marshall, I am a relationship and love expert, high-qualified well-being expert, coach, mentor, trainer and consultant. I understand what works and doesn't because I too hit rock bottom to personally experience becoming the Best Me and what it takes to do this. I know what works to overcome adversity, and trauma to rebuild myself mentally and emotionally.
Transforming the way I feel, think and behave was a life-changing gift I learned to master, because I no longer wanted any more heartache or pain. I then made the decision to become an expert in love, to learn the skills to become the chooser in love to personally find a healthy, loving, thriving relationship. Today, I have been with my husband, the love of my life, for over 14 years, in the most rewarding and loving relationship I never believed would be possible. I want this for you too!
If you are ready to fill your heart and life with the gift and toolkit available to every woman (with drive and determination) you will become the captain of your boat and life. When you work with me the expert who has achieved the results you want. I have walked my talk, from rock bottom to living the life I love is what makes me unique and the right relationship and love expert to help you achieve the results you want. If you are serious about shifting how you feel, your heart and your life contact LoveCoachingYou.com
Now is the time, whether you are divorced or single, to learn the toolkit, the first step to shifting your mental and emotional happiness, that will in turn positively impact your approach in business, love and with men.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
As the second post in my Valentine's Series, let me share with you exactly what you will find when you apply the toolkit my clients use to find and attract a high-quality man who will love, value and respect you:
The impact on your life
If you value your self-development and apply your toolkit, the right high-quality man will NOT want to let you go! You understand his needs because you understand yours!
As explained in my Dating and Relationship Paradox blog, learning your new toolkit skills in advance of dating will accelerate your results when the right man shows up! You are the unicorn he has been waiting to find!
Or the reasons you are sabotaging your chances to find the man and relationship you have dreamed about.
Uncover the 10% that could be holding you back and the 4-step toolkit approach on my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar
Look out for my next post in the Valentine's Series.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
Prince Charming, whom I call a high-quality man, will need to stand out and be extraordinary if he is going to share your life, heart, dreams, family (you want or have) and your future!
To get it right in love, the clients I work with are driven and determined successful women in business but are not getting the results they want in love.
If you would love to settle down with the high-quality man you dream of meeting and sharing your life and success with, have a go at answering the next three questions. They will give you a good indicator of any gaps in your knowledge because what you don't know, you need to know!
1- What does your male energy say about you to men?
2. Are you settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers in love?
3. How will you know if Mr Right is the right high-quality man right for you? It's a tongue twister I know.
Well how did you get on, did they make you think?
Firstly, you need to understand your energy, secondly, you deserve extraordinary, not second best. Thirdly, you need to get absolutely clear about the man you want in your life.
It will take you 5 minutes to read, to get your answers here. The Top 3 Dating Tips, every woman needs to know. Or Join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to understand the 10% you need to let go of, and the 4 steps you will need to get right if you want to attract your high-quality man.
Love is the most precious gift you can have in your life when it works! It can be all-consuming. magical, fleeting, lasting, so painful, or the most rewarding shared loving experience you have never experienced or believed to be possible. I know so!
If you are waiting for love to arrive, have been let down too many times, or have simply given up finding your high-quality man:
Come along and Join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar - to discover your blindspots, the 10% holding you back from finding the man and relationship you truly deserve!
My best advice (it's the Dating and Relationship paradox). Do the work to learn and master your 4 step toolkit, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
With Loving Wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
The celebration of love is not far away with Valentine's Day to remind us about what we feel in our hearts. In my experience, senior women in business, or at the top of their game are very successful at what they do. But the story inside is a very different picture, especially for all those women looking for a high-quality man to share life with her and their family if she has been alone as a single woman, or divorced for a while. Subconsciously I am certain most women would love to share their heart and life with the right quality man, their achievements and the life she loves. But there are many obstacles holding her back!
I meet so many women I work with, who are outwardly confident in business but give little time to loving themselves. Often this woman has lower self-worth because she is carrying a scar from being hurt before, let down in love, experiencing too much heartache or having a difficult or destructive toxic relationship. Or men ghost her, are unreliable, or don't commit (there is a reason for this). She is also likely to attract a similar type of man and repeat the same patterns unless she takes a new approach.
One client I worked with attracted narcissistic men for seven years until she changed her values and applied her toolkit approach after working with me.
Despite the reality of women feeling hurt, alone or lost (I was there once) let me tell you there are amazing men out there and - IT IS ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE TO ATTRACT AND BUILD A HIEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH A HIGH-QUALITY MAN you truly deserve to share your heart and life with.
If you love learning, you will need your toolkit of new skills, IN ADVANCE of dating, IN ADVANCE of being ready for another relationship, for very different results! The dream you want! Or you will continue to get the same results if you believe men will get hurt you, you don't trust them, they let you down, you are not young enough, etc, etc.
Learning new skills will completely transform your experience with men and how you give and receive love, plus your communication perspective will shift with your team, other C-Suite leaders, and your closest family. Your new skills will impact every area of your life, your happiness, how you feel and behave, including the way you communicate with your children, who will learn from your new example.
I know how precious love is when you find the right high-quality man because I have walked the same personal journey from being lost, applying the toolkit I created, to finding and attracting the love of my life. It's why I am so passionate about transforming my client's hearts and lives, the women hungry for the same results who are getting results using their toolkit! With heartwarming stories.
Vanessa had been married for over 20 years and I met her 3 years after her divorce. She had just completed my program and met a new chap online. Using her toolkit, her life completely changed! She is now married to Jason, the love of her life!
Over the next few weeks, I will explore the common mistakes and lessons we need to know. what it takes to find and build a thriving relationship with your high-quality man, for it to thrive and survive!
If you are looking for answers, what it takes to find a man who will love, value and respect you, join my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 10% that could be holding you back . Click to register
With loving wishes
Karenx
LoveCoachingYou.com
I know how hard you have worked to be successful in business, applying drive, and determination to achieve your success to have financial security, own your own home and live independently. But here’s the thing….
How I Achieved My Results With The Right High-Quality Man:
With Loving Wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
If you are a driven, and determined successful woman and value your self-development, regardless of where you are on your dating or early relationship journey, understanding the dating paradox will accelerate your dating success. And determine your relationship's happiness!
I hear most women say this to me. “I am not ready to start dating yet, so I don’t need any help.” It is absolutely your paradox.
During this chapter of your life, when you don’t feel ready, it’s the perfect time to do the work, to be ready.
Why? Have you heard the dilemma question; which comes first, the chicken or the egg? Whether you want to get your dating decision right or build a more loving and healthy relationship that works. What comes first? New relationship skills, or dating skills?
Yes, it is key to work on new relationship communication skills IN ADVANCE of dating. In advance, of being ready for another relationship. So I would highly recommend if you are a woman who values your self-growth and development, learning a new toolkit while you are single, then you will get very different dating results with the quality men you attract to you and the skills to build a healthy thriving relationship that works and can survive.
If you are dating. And your previous relationship history has left you feeling fearful deep down of getting hurt again. Be warned. You are 98% likely to repeat the same patterns and mistakes in another relationship (without realising it) unless you shift your dating approach. Applying a new toolkit anyone can learn especially if you love learning about yourself will accelerate finding and building the loving relationship every woman deserves.
You will reset your inner compass to discern if a man is compatible with you on a much deeper emotional level before you meet him.
It's easy to discern from out the outside how a man makes you feel, but what counts is on the inside, the way he communicates, values, respects and shows you love. You will also become the better partner for him and more easily navigate your challenges together, without him realising it's you.
Early stages of dating we are testing each other's boundaries, it's normal, but when little niggles become much bigger, how we deal with conflict will make or break any relationship. Bringing love back into flow quickly is an art to building a thriving loving relationship, it's also the glue that holds love together.
Discovering your communication style is the first critical set to recognise the right high-quality man, in advance of meeting him. Recognising how you communicate, will help you to easily understand his communication style, and to know that he is wired and compatible to satisfy your deeper emotional needs beyond chemistry, sexual attraction, shared interests and values. Then you will significantly increase your dating and relationship survival chances! Understanding your personal communication style is your first step.
You now have 2 choices:
Go to 1 below if you are NOT dating, happily single, or remotely interested in another relationship right now. But want the skills in advance of being ready.
Or go to 2, if you are dating.
Now let me explain the perfect chicken and egg dating paradox example. Perhaps this statement resonates with you, particularly if you are NOT ready for another relationship or want to date right now.
E.g., I don’t want another relationship, I only want to focus on myself, my business, and my children (if you do have a family). I am not interested in dating or need any help right now. I just want to focus on myself.
Now think about this question. Would it be more beneficial to become aware of your likely relationship or dating obstacles, before, or after, you feel ready for another relationship? This is the most precious piece of advice you need to know while you are healing your heart and life- do the work, your theory, while you are single! Or waste more valuable time, meeting the wrong men when you are ready.
It took me 20 years to figure out how to attract the right high-quality man, so you don't have to waste any more time making the same mistake women make without realising.
Jo, one client I worked with, dated narcissistic men for 7 years before she took my new toolkit approach.
To discover the 4 steps my clients use to find and attract their high-quality man who will love, value and respect them (without settling for second best) Join my next FREE Masterclass Training WEBINAR
2. If you are ACTIVELY DATING. The majority of women wait to be chosen (hunted) by a man. If you are endlessly chasing dates, feeling lost and want to know how to attract the right high-quality man, learning the skills now to become the chooser in love, join me on the next Masterclass Training Webinar, to discover the 4 steps you need to know to get your most critical dating decision right.
If you no longer want second best (or the scraps and men who treat you like a doormat) and want to meet the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you! Let's get you started:
Option 1 - Re-ignite your self-confidence. get the Top 3 Dating Tips right in advance of dating Click here for your download.
Option 2 - Join The Next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar
To uncover your 10% you need to let go of to attract the right high-quality man. And get the 4 steps you will need to know about your toolkit. Click here. to register your spot.
What step will you take, option 1 or 2?
I would love to fill millions of hearts and lives with the love every woman truly deserves! Let yours be one of them!
Karen x
LoveCoachingYou.com
It can be depressing and stressful at first being apart from your spouse, but there could be many reasons why you got divorced in the first place. It is also a catalyst for change to start a new life. To rebuild a new relationship with YOU again and learn to adopt a more positive attitude towards your new life, and the time to focus on healing your heart and mind. And a new career or business opportunity while you are supporting your children emotionally (if you have a family).
If you are still feeling rejected, or you are hurting from the emotional challenges you are facing. Here at Love Coaching You, we understand that there’s the loneliness, the feeling of not being supported without somebody to help you right now. With over 50% of first marriages ending in divorce (ONS) the average age for men is 45 and for women, it's 42. Love Coaching You will help you to take a new approach while you are healing your heart and life.
What could be more painful than the loss, or the fear of being single. How will I cope? you wonder.
Perhaps you don’t know if you’re strong enough to take care of yourself without a spouse’s help. You are now being challenged mentally, emotionally and financially without their support.
Taking time out to love and nurture yourself, your hurt and pain are important to help your recovery. To be patient with yourself during this period in your life you can reinvent yourself as a single person, living happily single. With patience and positive thinking, and the right support. it is possible to learn to love yourself and your new life once more!
If you would value some professional empowering support, whether you are emotionally stuck, or you want to be empowered. In my experience, since when doesn't counselling or therapy give you the solution toolkit? For the women I work with, there is nothing wrong with them. They simply need a new relationship toolkit. Women who value their self-development, come along to my masterclass training sessions.
It's for driven and determined women, serious about healing their hearts, and happiness to get the results in love, learning new skills in advance of dating, or in advance of being ready for another relationship.
Hello, my name is Karen Marshall, I am a qualified relationship and love expert, well-being expert, coach, mentor and trainer with over 20 years of experience. I understand what works and doesn't to prepare driven women with their toolkits. If you are happily single and ready to prepare yourself with life-changing skills impacting every area of your life. Learning to become the Best You Toolkit will prepare you with the skills to attract, recognise and build the most loving and rewarding relationship. it's the perfect time to learn while you are happily single.
Would you take a driving test without your theory? No you wouldn't if you wanted to pass. It's the same thing in love. For greater success in love, learn the easy theory first, your toolkit, and you will become the best you and best partner in advance of dating, in advance of building a new relationship when you will face new tests.
Do the work while you are happily single, and you will significantly improve your dating and relationship survival chances. It works!
To understand what it takes, join my next webinar,
The 4 Steps My Clients Use to Attract a High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect you.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall
LoveCoachingYou.com