When two people find each other happy, your relationship will make you even happier! So make time to fall in love with yourself first to feel happy:
The 7 Steps To Fall In Love With Yourself, includes:
♥ Love, enjoy and celebrate what makes you happy every day!
♥ Fall in love with who you are, your looks, your body, and how you feel about yourself.
♥ Develop your self-esteem when you feel low, lost, or lonely. Learn to love and nurture your little girl inside as you would if she was your own.
♥ The more time you focus on your inner and outer happiness, the more brightly your inner and outer beauty will shine!
♥ Learning to overcome your negative self-beliefs about yourself, men and relationships and you will become mentally and emotionally stronger, positive and happier inside.
♥ Loving yourself daily, your energy will positively shift your lower frequency into a much higher frequency to attract the right high-quality man, right for you!
♥ Shifting your psychology, your physiology and energy will lead you towards a life and the relationship you never imagined or believed to be possible. I know so!
I am excited to announce today. To explore your inner happiness, I explain in the next webinar (see link below) the 4 steps every woman needs to focus on to attract the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you!
To get your 4 steps right, in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, I explain each one in the next webinar.
Click this link for more information - To Get Your 4 Steps Right
True love is magical when it works!
It also gets harder if you're a successful woman in your late 30s and the clock is ticking to have a family, particularly if you are still waiting to find your special person, a high-quality man to settle down with.
Or, perhaps you've been divorced for a while, or your children are growing up fast and you are feeling lonely. You're ready to start dating and find a more fulfilling and rewarding relationship with a decent man. Whether you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s or older you will truly understand and value what it means to find a more loving and happier relationship that CAN thrive, especially if you've been hurt or let down too many times. If you are feeling lost what do, it might feel like you're running a long marathon without any finish line in sight because you don't know where your finish line is, especially if you are fearful of being hurt again, but want to get it right next time. Whether you are single or divorced, let me inspire and motivate you today.
To begin any journey starts with your first step. So I have 5 easy questions. below to help you.
Before we start, consider your relationship situation with this example in mind. The London Marathon every year draws in thousands of runners. If you were participating you would recognise the importance of training to prepare your mind and body. You would eat the right foods, start running and set training goals in place. It’s the same approach for the relationship you DO want. Firstly you will need to nourish your mind, and practice new skills if you don't want to keep repeating the same dating or relationship mistakes. You would prepare yourself with the right training to reach your finish line.
To run a marathon you run, to become a singer, you sing. If you want different relationship results, you learn and practice new relationship skills
You have two options You may prefer to sprint into another relationship without any training, or find a more rewarding and lasting relationship that CAN work with the right training. Which one would you choose?
Tip – Before you start dating, or even consider another relationship, now is the perfect time to start your new relationship training, in advance of another relationship.
Becoming aware of the way you think and communicate in love (you may not even be aware of) will accelerate your results to help you Recognise, Attract, Find and Build a more loving and happier relationship that will thrive and survive. You will stand out like a unicorn to the right Mr Right, a high-quality man, you do want to attract who will not want to let you go! You will also gain a valuable toolkit to build a much stronger relationship foundation. Train in advance of dating, or another relationship. Or be warned you will repeat the same mistakes (most women are not aware of making), and attract similar men or relationships, especially if you've been hurt too many times.
To start you off, here are your Free Top 3 Dating Tips (will only take you 5 minutes to read) if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. You will discover the 3 questions every woman needs to know and get right, to attract your high-quality man (instead of settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers) who don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Or I would love to invite you to join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 4 Steps My Clients Apply To Find and Attract a High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.
Let me help you find and build your most loving and rewarding relationship that will thrive and survive!
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
www.LoveCoachingYou.com.
It is the biggest adjustment you will go through, learning to live alone again, learning about yourself and living independently, as you look after your children (if you have a family). It's a massive life-transforming learning curve while you are coping with your emotions, and negative thoughts while finding your way forward.
Divorce recovery can be a slow healing process especially if you had a toxic relationship leaving your self-confidence at rock bottom. Whether you are at the beginning or a few years into your divorce recovery, the way you feel about yourself, men, and your relationships will take you down two roads. Either a continued negative spiral I wouldn't want anyone to endure, or the catalyst to positively transform your happiness and mindset that will lead to the new future you truly deserve.
Here at Love Coaching You, we understand that there’s the loneliness, the feeling of not being whole; after all the disillusionment, pain and heartache in your marriage.
There is also the fear of being single. How will I cope? It’s scary to start over by yourself after depending on your marriage. You may have merged your identity so closely with your spouse’s – defining yourself as half of a couple, not as an individual – that you can’t imagine continuing on your own.
Perhaps you don’t know if you’re strong enough to take care of yourself without a spouse’s help. Or you’re ashamed of singlehood in a society defined by relationships. But don’t worry, single or divorced for a while, you will start to feel YOU again.
Take your time and effort for your part, as it can be challenging to reinvent yourself as a single person, but through patience and positive thinking, you can and will do it, if you are ready to learn about yourself - to experience a new way of living, feeling, behaving mentally and emotionally.
If you no longer want pain, the heartache and you are ready to shift your happiness. If you want your own business for greater financial freedom, invest in property for your security, or progress your career to regain control of your heart and life, and support your family, we are the right experts at LoveCoachingYou to give you the priceless toolkit you will need.
Hello my name is Karen Marshall, I am a relationship and love expert, high-qualified well-being expert, coach, mentor, trainer and consultant. I understand what works and doesn't because I too hit rock bottom to personally experience becoming the Best Me and what it takes to do this. I know what works to overcome adversity, and trauma to rebuild myself mentally and emotionally.
Transforming the way I feel, think and behave was a life-changing gift I learned to master, because I no longer wanted any more heartache or pain. I then made the decision to become an expert in love, to learn the skills to become the chooser in love to personally find a healthy, loving, thriving relationship. Today, I have been with my husband, the love of my life, for over 14 years, in the most rewarding and loving relationship I never believed would be possible. I want this for you too!
If you are ready to fill your heart and life with the gift and toolkit available to every woman (with drive and determination) you will become the captain of your boat and life. When you work with me the expert who has achieved the results you want. I have walked my talk, from rock bottom to living the life I love is what makes me unique and the right relationship and love expert to help you achieve the results you want. If you are serious about shifting how you feel, your heart and your life contact LoveCoachingYou.com
Now is the time, whether you are divorced or single, to learn the toolkit, the first step to shifting your mental and emotional happiness, that will in turn positively impact your approach in business, love and with men.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
As the second post in my Valentine's Series, let me share with you exactly what you will find when you apply the toolkit my clients use to find and attract a high-quality man who will love, value and respect you:
The impact on your life
If you value your self-development and apply your toolkit, the right high-quality man will NOT want to let you go! You understand his needs because you understand yours!
As explained in my Dating and Relationship Paradox blog, learning your new toolkit skills in advance of dating will accelerate your results when the right man shows up! You are the unicorn he has been waiting to find!
Or the reasons you are sabotaging your chances to find the man and relationship you have dreamed about.
Uncover the 10% that could be holding you back and the 4-step toolkit approach on my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar
Look out for my next post in the Valentine's Series.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
Prince Charming, whom I call a high-quality man, will need to stand out and be extraordinary if he is going to share your life, heart, dreams, family (you want or have) and your future!
To get it right in love, the clients I work with are driven and determined successful women in business but are not getting the results they want in love.
If you would love to settle down with the high-quality man you dream of meeting and sharing your life and success with, have a go at answering the next three questions. They will give you a good indicator of any gaps in your knowledge because what you don't know, you need to know!
1- What does your male energy say about you to men?
2. Are you settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers in love?
3. How will you know if Mr Right is the right high-quality man right for you? It's a tongue twister I know.
Well how did you get on, did they make you think?
Firstly, you need to understand your energy, secondly, you deserve extraordinary, not second best. Thirdly, you need to get absolutely clear about the man you want in your life.
It will take you 5 minutes to read, to get your answers here. The Top 3 Dating Tips, every woman needs to know. Or Join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to understand the 10% you need to let go of, and the 4 steps you will need to get right if you want to attract your high-quality man.
Love is the most precious gift you can have in your life when it works! It can be all-consuming. magical, fleeting, lasting, so painful, or the most rewarding shared loving experience you have never experienced or believed to be possible. I know so!
If you are waiting for love to arrive, have been let down too many times, or have simply given up finding your high-quality man:
Come along and Join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar - to discover your blindspots, the 10% holding you back from finding the man and relationship you truly deserve!
My best advice (it's the Dating and Relationship paradox). Do the work to learn and master your 4 step toolkit, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
With Loving Wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
The celebration of love is not far away with Valentine's Day to remind us about what we feel in our hearts. In my experience, senior women in business, or at the top of their game are very successful at what they do. But the story inside is a very different picture, especially for all those women looking for a high-quality man to share life with her and their family if she has been alone as a single woman, or divorced for a while. Subconsciously I am certain most women would love to share their heart and life with the right quality man, their achievements and the life she loves. But there are many obstacles holding her back!
I meet so many women I work with, who are outwardly confident in business but give little time to loving themselves. Often this woman has lower self-worth because she is carrying a scar from being hurt before, let down in love, experiencing too much heartache or having a difficult or destructive toxic relationship. Or men ghost her, are unreliable, or don't commit (there is a reason for this). She is also likely to attract a similar type of man and repeat the same patterns unless she takes a new approach.
One client I worked with attracted narcissistic men for seven years until she changed her values and applied her toolkit approach after working with me.
Despite the reality of women feeling hurt, alone or lost (I was there once) let me tell you there are amazing men out there and - IT IS ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE TO ATTRACT AND BUILD A HIEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH A HIGH-QUALITY MAN you truly deserve to share your heart and life with.
If you love learning, you will need your toolkit of new skills, IN ADVANCE of dating, IN ADVANCE of being ready for another relationship, for very different results! The dream you want! Or you will continue to get the same results if you believe men will get hurt you, you don't trust them, they let you down, you are not young enough, etc, etc.
Learning new skills will completely transform your experience with men and how you give and receive love, plus your communication perspective will shift with your team, other C-Suite leaders, and your closest family. Your new skills will impact every area of your life, your happiness, how you feel and behave, including the way you communicate with your children, who will learn from your new example.
I know how precious love is when you find the right high-quality man because I have walked the same personal journey from being lost, applying the toolkit I created, to finding and attracting the love of my life. It's why I am so passionate about transforming my client's hearts and lives, the women hungry for the same results who are getting results using their toolkit! With heartwarming stories.
Vanessa had been married for over 20 years and I met her 3 years after her divorce. She had just completed my program and met a new chap online. Using her toolkit, her life completely changed! She is now married to Jason, the love of her life!
Over the next few weeks, I will explore the common mistakes and lessons we need to know. what it takes to find and build a thriving relationship with your high-quality man, for it to thrive and survive!
If you are looking for answers, what it takes to find a man who will love, value and respect you, join my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 10% that could be holding you back . Click to register
With loving wishes
Karenx
LoveCoachingYou.com
I know how hard you have worked to be successful in business, applying drive, and determination to achieve your success to have financial security, own your own home and live independently. But here’s the thing….
How I Achieved My Results With The Right High-Quality Man:
With Loving Wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
If you are a driven, and determined successful woman and value your self-development, regardless of where you are on your dating or early relationship journey, understanding the dating paradox will accelerate your dating success. And determine your relationship's happiness!
I hear most women say this to me. “I am not ready to start dating yet, so I don’t need any help.” It is absolutely your paradox.
During this chapter of your life, when you don’t feel ready, it’s the perfect time to do the work, to be ready.
Why? Have you heard the dilemma question; which comes first, the chicken or the egg? Whether you want to get your dating decision right or build a more loving and healthy relationship that works. What comes first? New relationship skills, or dating skills?
Yes, it is key to work on new relationship communication skills IN ADVANCE of dating. In advance, of being ready for another relationship. So I would highly recommend if you are a woman who values your self-growth and development, learning a new toolkit while you are single, then you will get very different dating results with the quality men you attract to you and the skills to build a healthy thriving relationship that works and can survive.
If you are dating. And your previous relationship history has left you feeling fearful deep down of getting hurt again. Be warned. You are 98% likely to repeat the same patterns and mistakes in another relationship (without realising it) unless you shift your dating approach. Applying a new toolkit anyone can learn especially if you love learning about yourself will accelerate finding and building the loving relationship every woman deserves.
You will reset your inner compass to discern if a man is compatible with you on a much deeper emotional level before you meet him.
It's easy to discern from out the outside how a man makes you feel, but what counts is on the inside, the way he communicates, values, respects and shows you love. You will also become the better partner for him and more easily navigate your challenges together, without him realising it's you.
Early stages of dating we are testing each other's boundaries, it's normal, but when little niggles become much bigger, how we deal with conflict will make or break any relationship. Bringing love back into flow quickly is an art to building a thriving loving relationship, it's also the glue that holds love together.
Discovering your communication style is the first critical set to recognise the right high-quality man, in advance of meeting him. Recognising how you communicate, will help you to easily understand his communication style, and to know that he is wired and compatible to satisfy your deeper emotional needs beyond chemistry, sexual attraction, shared interests and values. Then you will significantly increase your dating and relationship survival chances! Understanding your personal communication style is your first step.
You now have 2 choices:
Go to 1 below if you are NOT dating, happily single, or remotely interested in another relationship right now. But want the skills in advance of being ready.
Or go to 2, if you are dating.
Now let me explain the perfect chicken and egg dating paradox example. Perhaps this statement resonates with you, particularly if you are NOT ready for another relationship or want to date right now.
E.g., I don’t want another relationship, I only want to focus on myself, my business, and my children (if you do have a family). I am not interested in dating or need any help right now. I just want to focus on myself.
Now think about this question. Would it be more beneficial to become aware of your likely relationship or dating obstacles, before, or after, you feel ready for another relationship? This is the most precious piece of advice you need to know while you are healing your heart and life- do the work, your theory, while you are single! Or waste more valuable time, meeting the wrong men when you are ready.
It took me 20 years to figure out how to attract the right high-quality man, so you don't have to waste any more time making the same mistake women make without realising.
Jo, one client I worked with, dated narcissistic men for 7 years before she took my new toolkit approach.
To discover the 4 steps my clients use to find and attract their high-quality man who will love, value and respect them (without settling for second best) Join my next FREE Masterclass Training WEBINAR
2. If you are ACTIVELY DATING. The majority of women wait to be chosen (hunted) by a man. If you are endlessly chasing dates, feeling lost and want to know how to attract the right high-quality man, learning the skills now to become the chooser in love, join me on the next Masterclass Training Webinar, to discover the 4 steps you need to know to get your most critical dating decision right.
If you no longer want second best (or the scraps and men who treat you like a doormat) and want to meet the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you! Let's get you started:
Option 1 - Re-ignite your self-confidence. get the Top 3 Dating Tips right in advance of dating Click here for your download.
Option 2 - Join The Next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar
To uncover your 10% you need to let go of to attract the right high-quality man. And get the 4 steps you will need to know about your toolkit. Click here. to register your spot.
What step will you take, option 1 or 2?
I would love to fill millions of hearts and lives with the love every woman truly deserves! Let yours be one of them!
Karen x
LoveCoachingYou.com
If you are a high-achieving woman or supermum and looking for relationship or dating answers to super-accelerate your results with men.
Would you take your driving test without your theory? To take a new approach to love, it's important to understand if you are sabotaging your chances with men.
Who you choose to date is the most critical decision you will make. Especially if you are unmarried, want to settle down, have a family, or share your life with a decent man who will love and cherish you the way you deserve to be treated.
Or you may be divorced and want to get your next relationship decision right (now, in the future, or when you do feel ready to get back out there).
If you don’t make time to learn your theory in advance of dating, in advance of another relationship, the steps to recognise that Mr Right is right for you and capable of communicating with you to support you emotionally through the ups and downs of life. If you don't get this right, you are highly likely going to repeat the same mistakes or fall into another relationship that is wrong for you (without realising it).
When you do recognise how a man communicates with you from the time you start speaking, you will recognise his style over your first 3-5 dates. If you have learned your theory, you will instinctively recognise the right man's style to know he can support your deeper emotional needs.
It's equally important you get clear about your postcode and address I have already covered in Step 1.
The secret is to prepare yourself in advance for dating, while you are single. Then when the time is right to start dating, you will get your most critical dating decision right.
Stop wasting your time and life with the wrong men, learn your theory first.
History will repeat itself if you continue to get the same results in love.
If you are ready to recognise, attract and build your most loving high quality relationship that will thrive and survive, how well do you communicate with yourself positively or negatively? If you don't understand how you communicate with yourself, how can you expect a man to understand you?
Top Tip - Learn about your communication style, and it will be easier to recognise Mr Right, your high-quality man's communication style is right for you.
For greater clarity. How well do you communicate with men you date or fall in love with on a scale of zero (=lowest) up to 10 (10=you are really self-aware of the way you communicate)? What number are you?
If you have given yourself a lower number, you may feel insecure, and lack self-confidence about the way you communicate with yourself and men.
If you value your self-development, are committed to transforming your heart and life, and want to get it right in love:
Or sign up for the Top 3 Dating Tips if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit.
Your love quote today
Love is of all passions the strongest, to attack simultaneously the head, heart and all the senses.
Lao Tzu
My best advice. Learn how to become the Best You, to reach your 8 or 9 out of 10, and discover how you communicate to better understand how a man communicates. Then you will become the best date, best girlfriend, partner, and best wife to your Mr Right, your high-quality man when he does arrive in your life.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x