There are many reasons why women remain single and one is the scarcity of men when we are older. As we reach our mid 30's and head towards our 40’s, 50’s and older, it get's harder to meet the right available man especially if you're still looking for your Mr Right.
With a lower ratio and fewer available single men on the market, more women are competing for the right male attention. So it’s important to consider, how you stand out from other women.
Looks
You never know where you could meet Mr Right. To attract the right guy, it's important to take care of your hair, makeup, your body, the style you want to project, especially if you want a man to take care of his appearance.
Our brain is hard wired to reproduce, so it's only human to want to feel desired by men no matter what age you are. As a woman you can be attracted to many features in a man to be drawn to him, so it's not always about looks. Men are more visual, so your appearance will certainly catch his attention for any spark of chemistry to ignite.
Inner Beauty
When a man notices you, it's important your inner beauty really makes you shine. How you feel about yourself, how you respond to him, your personality and attitude, will speak volumes to him. He will quickly decide if he wants to invest his time with you. Remember, your looks and chemistry alone will not maintain your relationship. Any sexual chemistry and excitement can often be short lived, so your inner beauty needs to shine for a man to recognise you are right for him.
If you're a confident professional woman I am sure you would love to meet a confident man who is happy and charming, or he has the qualities you are looking for. Remember, like attracts like, so become the person you want to meet, e.g. happy and confident. Right now, if you're not feeling self-confident with men, possibly have lower self-esteem, it's unlikely you will meet a more confident type of guy.
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Communication
To ATTRACT, NURTURE and BUILD a healthy and more successful relationship, communication is the key. Without an awareness of the way you communicate with a new guy, will either glue, or repel your relationship. If you really want to avoid repeating the same mistakes, take some time out to understand how you think and what you are saying to men. Are you effective and loving, or dis-empowering when you communicate?
Now here's the interesting part. If you were to give yourself a mark out of 10 (0= not achieved, 10 = you’ve achieved 10 out of 10), what number would you give yourself when answering these 3 questions.
If you are closer to a 10 that's a great place to be. If you would love to attract a similar guy to you, and you've marked yourself 5 or 6, possibly lower, then you may want to think about reaching out for expert support if you really want to become a better version of you. Now answer these questions:
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If January 3rd is now recognised as “Divorce Day” by solicitors who see a spike in business just after the new year, it’s obvious that the couples who stayed together over Christmas, finally gave in to start divorce proceedings.
Other relationships also end once Christmas presents have been exchanged. January then becomes the focus month to reassess if the man you are living with or have been dating is right for you.
After all, the stress of the festive season combined with dealing with close family, more time to think, no work to occupy your mind, could certainly throw a torch light on your relationship.
So how can you help your relationship survive the January blues?
1.First of all, it’s important that you take time to think about your choices
Christmas may have been the wake-up call that you needed, but it’s not the best time to make any rash decisions that could possibly affect your life.
2.Your next step is to think about whether you’re making your partner’s faults a bigger problem than they actually are.
Think about the positive aspects of your relationship, what positive qualities does your man have that makes him special and important to you? What qualities were you first attracted to? Remember, no body is perfect. So, who is causing the difficulties right now, you or your man?
3.Is it time to consider how you can become a better partner for your man?
To become the best 50% of your relationship you need to take responsibility for your own imperfections. Have you been putting too much emotional pressure on him? Or is it time to discover what obstacles may be holding you back from the relationship you want. If you would love to have a more lasting and loving relationship that works, you need to become more aware of the way you think and communicate.
4.What new year resolution could help your relationship?
Instead of arguing, enjoy a date night spending some quality time together really listening to each other's needs. Recognise and acknowledge your man when he does something special for you. He loves to feel acknowledged and appreciated.
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