Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?
Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s. Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.
This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
Imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy. Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up. One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean? What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!
Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you. For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.
Let's take a minute to pause once more. Here's another example to consider. When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking). When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?
Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!
But be warned. Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure? You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.
To get you started, come along to:
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Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk. I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising. Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!
Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time. What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?
Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years. It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too. I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47. I cried happy tears. Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!
Today I will share on the next FREE Masterclass Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You. Come along and join it, you can simply listen.
Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory? No, you wouldn't. Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.
To uncover your blindspots, here are three of them - The Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
Prince Charming, whom I call a high-quality man, will need to stand out and be extraordinary if he is going to share your life, heart, dreams, family (you want or have) and your future!
To get it right in love, the clients I work with are driven and determined successful women in business but are not getting the results they want in love.
If you would love to settle down with the high-quality man you dream of meeting and sharing your life and success with, have a go at answering the next three questions. They will give you a good indicator of any gaps in your knowledge because what you don't know, you need to know!
1- What does your male energy say about you to men?
2. Are you settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers in love?
3. How will you know if Mr Right is the right high-quality man right for you? It's a tongue twister I know.
Well how did you get on, did they make you think?
Firstly, you need to understand your energy, secondly, you deserve extraordinary, not second best. Thirdly, you need to get absolutely clear about the man you want in your life.
It will take you 5 minutes to read, to get your answers here. The Top 3 Dating Tips, every woman needs to know. Or Join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to understand the 10% you need to let go of, and the 4 steps you will need to get right if you want to attract your high-quality man.
Love is the most precious gift you can have in your life when it works! It can be all-consuming. magical, fleeting, lasting, so painful, or the most rewarding shared loving experience you have never experienced or believed to be possible. I know so!
If you are waiting for love to arrive, have been let down too many times, or have simply given up finding your high-quality man:
Come along and Join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar - to discover your blindspots, the 10% holding you back from finding the man and relationship you truly deserve!
My best advice (it's the Dating and Relationship paradox). Do the work to learn and master your 4 step toolkit, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
With Loving Wishes
Karen Marshall x
LoveCoachingYou.com
If you are a task-focused accomplished businessman, a proud man, you may be very intelligent and socially skilled too. When it comes to your personal life, women and love, you may not be having much luck if you are divorced or single.
If you are more confused than ever about women
And you want to avoid making the same relationship mistakes. As a Relationship Expert and a woman who understands women, I accelerate results with men before you start seriously dating to recognise your (hot crazy matrix unicorn - video below) to find the right woman beyond looks and chemistry. The skills I share with men who want to attract the right woman, also apply to you if you want to strengthen your relationship with your girlfriend or wife if you are having problems not understanding each other. Even if you are recently engaged or married, this blog could be your greatest gift to understand what it takes to keep hold of your happy ever after!
Historically, men are the natural hunters and women want to be hunted. As a man, you also need the right toolkit before you are ready to go hunting to attract the right woman now or in the near future. The same toolkit will accelerate your results to build a much stronger connection with the special woman in your life for your relationship to thrive (if this is you right now).
If your business and job take up a lot of your time
You might be purposely keeping yourself busy without realising it. Filling your diary is a great way to avoid finding a new partner or avoid being with your partner at home. Sports is also a great distraction if you enjoy keeping fit, running, cycling, triathlons. Subconsciously you are also likely to be protecting yourself from another painful or threatening experience your brain is programmed to help you avoid - another woman. My advice to every man, learn about women from a woman. Or end your relationship and the same problems will show up again in another future relationship.
Imagine for one minute if you applied a new toolkit approach
You will attract your unicorn (see video below), or rebuild the one you have. Get this right, you will change the course of your future and sex life. If you have heard the saying, "A happy wife is a happy life" it is true with any woman. If you understand how to find and build a strong relationship the right woman will jump out to you (or you will recognise what you have is already with your existing partner). Think about it?
Have you ever considered what type of woman you do want to attract? Do you really know who your Mrs Right is (beyond sex and chemistry)? Or what was it about your partner that attracted you to them? If you don't know this answer. It is similar to getting into a car without a sat nav or map. You will be unsure of your destination and possibly take the longest route and continue to get lost. Or get clear about your address and you will go straight there. Which journey would you prefer?
Your Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
Love is exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If, however, you are a man in your late 30’s, mid-40s or 50’s everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced.
Now for one moment imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called ‘Your relationship story so far’ on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks we grew up reading or watching on TV, they all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that you are Prince Charming and one day you will sweep the woman you love off her feet. You will want to look after her and make sure she is happy.
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now may not be close to any fairy tale. It is however called your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean self-fulfilling prophecy? What you believe to be true about love, relationships, women, yourself, will keep showing up for you. The relationship experience you have will keep repeating itself unless you edit and overwrite your database with new files that work.
Here are just a few old data files you may like to overwrite. For example. You believe a woman will hurt you, let you down, all the best women are taken, women will walk all over you, or you cannot bat above your station. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, replaying or repeating.
Here’s a new example to consider. When you learn how to access your disempowering files you can easily overwrite them with new data that works with your new self-fulfilling prophecy. Are you ready to overwrite your old files to find, recognise and attract your unicorn? Do you also want to know how to build a relationship that can thrive together?
To help you reset your relationship compass in a completely new direction that will prepare you in advance of meeting Mrs Right and unicorn. It only takes 1 or 3 months if you value your personal growth.
Instead of filling your time and life keeping busy or to avoid being alone or feeling lonely. Unless you get clear about your new postcode, you are 98% likely to repeat the same mistakes in a new future relationship.
Where are you right now? Here's a couple of questions to get you thinking:
If you are ready to improve your life with women, you don't want therapy or counselling book your free 20-30 minute call today and let’s have a chat if you are time poor!
About Karen Marshall
Today a qualified and experienced Relationship Expert. Coach and Wellbeing Expert in the mind, body and energy and the steps to accelerate your relationship results!
To live your best life ever, I will help you to find and attract your unicorn relationship you will understand when you watch the Hot Crazy Matrix from YouTube featuring Dana Mclendon (this version is without the advert). Men love this!
If you don’t get this part of your life handled, how will it impact your future?
Let’s have a chat if you would like to book your free 20-30 minute Discovery Call today
Or discover what women want when you complete this online programme. The same principles apply for women and men.
If you want to find out how to accelerate your next steps and avoid wasting any more of your life attracting the wrong women.
Wishing you much happiness and the love you truly deserve!
Karen Marshall
LoveCoachingYou.com
07590 221951
Meghan Markle and her Prince Charming
We all know Meghan Markle, she is in the worldwide press, 36 and divorcee. She was once a little cygnet, is now a beautiful swan, princess and inspiration for any modern single or divorced woman. She's the beautiful bride (now wife) to her adorable modern day Prince Charming, the gorgeous Prince Harry.
Meghan also gives a great deal of hope to women her own age. It’s the pivotal age our focus changes from our career to thinking more seriously about settling down if you want a family and the clock is ticking if you're still single and searching for your Prince Charming.
To discover the 5 Enlightening Steps For Relationship Success and a FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster to find and build a strong, healthy, more loving and rewarding relationship that can thrive, I have some valuable wisdom to share today. As the voice of the relationship survival revolution, my vision is to inspire millions of women like you to take a new approach if you’re determined to find your Prince Charming. I prefer to call him Mr Extraordinary!
Does this sound like you?
If you are like me when I was in my early 30’s and single, you may be fiercely independent, have a great career or business, so your single status doesn’t define you because you are choosing to be single. You may have your own home, earn a high salary, are self-sufficient with no time pressure to meet your Prince.
You are also unlikely to focus on finding Mr Extraorindary because you also believe in serendipity when the timing is right, or the law of attraction - that one day the universe will deliver your Prince. However be careful what you wish for. If deep down you believe you will get hurt again, or men will let you down, there are no good men out there. Your genie will deliver what you ask for subconsciously! So let me guide you in the right direction to reset your relationship compass towards a high-quality, loving and rewarding relationship you truly deserve.
I started out believing in the happy ever after, as everyone does growing up. I also focused heavily on my career as most ambitious women do. If you are a modern woman, want a big lifestyle and the money to live comfortably, your career will easily keep you distracted from finding true love.
If you now find yourself over 35, suddenly being single by choice changes into a soul-searching question. Will you meet your Prince to have a family with if your clock is now ticking as your fertility starts to decline? Panic starts to set in. But some woman in their late 30's are now taking even greater control of their fertility and seeking to freeze their eggs or have artificial insemination with no Prince Charming in sight.
Sadly, for many women in their 40s, it’s the decade we have to come to terms with the realisation of not having children (unless you go it alone and choose insemination). Or shift your thinking and become open to new possibilities, as more families blend together. Meghan is a great example of this as an African American growing up with divorced parents. She reflects the real modern day woman and blended family.
Has life thrown you a curve ball and experience you didn't expect if you are still single or exhausted of relationships not working or ending?
When my 3rd significant relationships ended, I was 33 and heartbroken, my mum also unexpectedly died at the same time I was made redundant, so I was in no place by choice to even consider a relationship. Perhaps life has pushed you around and taken you on a journey you didn’t expect? It's why I am now an accredited Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Expert. Mentor. Mind, Body and Energy Practitioner to help women like you find your Mr Extraordinary.
By sharing my qualified education and 9 years experience combined with my personal journey and the wisdom I have discovered over 20 years, let me inspire you today to take a new direction.
Today it is easy for me to understand why my relationships didn't work (1st one lasted 11 years - I didn't understand love or our deeper needs) 2nd lasted 2 years (attracted the wrong man), 3rd 14 months (attracted the wrong man based on his looks and a few similarities). I tried to fit a square peg into a round hole. It didn't work. What transformed my experience, I had gained the valuable relationship awareness I now offer a unique 4 Step Coaching Program Methodology I have designed and created.
Over 13 years when I considered myself single (age 28-41). Over 7 years I studied the relationship mistakes we make and why we make them. Absorbing myself in knowledge, I no longer wasted my time with the wrong men.
I had a mortgage, a career that clearly distracted me from my pain, and there was no one in my life I would even consider settling down with. However, my dream did come true in a way I never thought would be possible!
I was 41 when I met my Mr Extraordinary, it was the perfect timing but also took me 20 years to figure out, so I don’t want you to waste your life making the same mistakes. Serendipity also played a massive part bringing us together when my mind and heart was open. Dave the love of my life was finalising his divorce had 2 children 10 and 13. We married 6 years later and our love and happiness continue to grown 10 years on.
If you want the fairytale and prepared to look inside, focus your energy and time learning new relationship skills, the rest is up to you. You can also f find the love of your life! There are some incredible men out there, as a woman you need to recognise them!
My relationship experience exponentially shifted when I tapped into a new way of thinking to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build the most fulfilling relationship of my life. If you continue to think negatively about yourself, men and your relationships, nothing is going to change. Or be warned, you will keep attracting the same type of guys like your ex. or the same hurtful experiences. Remember your genie!
Try your FREE 14 Day F.I.N.D. and Accelerate Your Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster today. Or accelerate your experience over just 2 days instead of the 20 years it took me to figure out! For more information go to Events page to see which 2-Day Masterclass is right for you.
Tip - Your Mr Extraordinary has to be extraordinary because he will impact your heart, happiness, mental well-being, health, your future dreams and financial freedom. It’s why he's to be extraordinary!
Tip - Make a new choice today to become the chooser in love instead of waiting to be chosen, there is a very big difference. Which one are you?
Ready to be enlightened with the 5 Steps of Relationship Wisdom to accelerate your happiness. It's time to figure out what's stopping you:
To get you started immediately I would love to invite you to try a FREE 14 Day Relationship Success Coaching Taster if you haven't experienced coaching before. Click the link for your overview.
Free 14 Day Online F.I.N.D. and Accelerate your Relationship Success Coaching Program
If you want to get your relationship right next time- are single, or have been divorced a while and you want to meet your Mr Extraordinary, I have created a fast-track coaching program to give you the toolkit you need over just 2 days instead of wasting your life and time. It took me 20 years to figure out what works, so you don't have to. Learning valuable insight and also working with an expert who has achieved the results you want in your life is priceless. It's what makes me the unique expert to accelerate your results.
Let me now inspire you to fill your heart and life with your missing ingredients to Recognise, Attract, Find and Build your extraordinary more loving and lasting relationship that can work!
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Looking forward to meeting you soon!
Karen Marshall x
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