Who you expect to turn up, is your self-fulfilling prophecy

Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?

Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced.  Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s.   Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.

This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.

Imagine your life is a film.  Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy.  Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up.  One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.

Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy.  What do I mean?  What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!

Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you.  For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex.  These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.

Let's take a minute to pause once more.  Here's another example to consider.  When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking).  When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.

Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?

Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!

But be warned.  Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure?  You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.


To get you started, come along to: 

Join my next Free Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respects You.   Remember, you need to know this in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, to avoid wasting more time and your life when you are ready!

Get your Top 3 Dating Tips, Every woman needs to know about herself, if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. Only takes 5 minutes to read.

If You're Still Healing your Heart and Mind

If you are going through a tough time, just separated or getting divorced, or finding it hard to cope emotionally and mentally, you can empower your healing heart and mind with powerful life skills to cope better, and feel emotionally stronger and more resilient. I will sensitively guide you with a friendly helping hand to help you reset your inner compass to take a new direction towards the happiness you deserve.

To refocus, rebalance and recharge your mind and body.  Maximising our time together, I work with clients to get them back on track emotionally, mentally, and energetically.

Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk.  I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising.  Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!

Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time.  What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?

Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years.  It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too.  I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47.  I cried happy tears.  Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!

Today I will share on the next FREE Masterclass Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.  Come along and join it, you can simply listen.

Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory?  No, you wouldn't.  Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.

To uncover your blindspots, here are three of them - The Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

If you want to get absolutely clear about what you need to know to understand how YOU communicate in business and your romantic relationship(s), you will super-accelerate your dating chances with Mr Right, a high-quality man you do want to get it right with.

How you communicate in business is very different to your relationship communication.  Most successful women wonder what the problem is, when they are so successful at their role or job, but cannot get it right with men.  Working with my clients I help them learn these differences, sharing 20 years of insights, so you stop wasting any more time getting it wrong.

Learning this knowledge is priceless because what it will give you, are the skills to easily navigate the communication challenges you will face dating and falling in love.  To build a thriving healthy relationship, this is invaluable knowledge.  You can learn leadership profiling skills in business, but when you translate this into love, it has a very different meaning, understanding three very different communication styles.

The type of man you would love to attract may be successful in business, good looking and very charming. However, if you have not had a hug, sex, shared intimacy, or had a relationship in a while, the chances are you will go down the wrong road, and jump into the first bus (any relationship) that comes your way.  Feeling needy of love, without any understanding of your correct postcode (Step 1), how a man communicates with you on a date (step 2), the reasons your genie could sabotage your dating chances (step 3).  Without this priceless insight, you have a small window of opportunity to get it right next time. 

Sex and dating may be great at first, but love will fade very quickly if you don't get the fundamentals right if men treat you like a doormat, ghost you, are unreliable or don't commit.  Unfortunately, only pain will guide you to avoid more of it so if you have had enough heartache in love, it's time to learn your toolkit. 

If the love you dream of finding is priceless to you, as it was to me, let me fast-track your results in love, to transform your heart and life!  Here is reminder of each step.

Step 1

Step 2

Step 3

Every woman needs to know The Top 3 Dating Tips in advance of dating, if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. Or come along and join me on the next Free Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

Your love quote today:

Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence. Vincent Van Gogh

Loving Wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

The Catalyst For Change

It can be depressing and stressful at first being apart from your spouse, but there could be many reasons why you got divorced in the first place.  It is also a catalyst for change to start a new life. To rebuild a new relationship with YOU again and learn to adopt a more positive attitude towards your new life, and the time to focus on healing your heart and mind.  And a new career or business opportunity while you are supporting your children emotionally (if you have a family).

If you are still feeling rejected, or you are hurting from the emotional challenges you are facing. Here at Love Coaching You, we understand that there’s the loneliness, the feeling of not being supported without somebody to help you right now.  With over 50% of first marriages ending in divorce (ONS) the average age for men is 45 and for women, it's 42. Love Coaching You will help you to take a new approach while you are healing your heart and life. 

What could be more painful than the loss, or the fear of being single. How will I cope? you wonder. 

Perhaps you don’t know if you’re strong enough to take care of yourself without a spouse’s help.   You are now being challenged mentally, emotionally and financially without their support.

Taking time out to love and nurture yourself, your hurt and pain are important to help your recovery.  To be patient with yourself during this period in your life you can reinvent yourself as a single person, living happily single. With patience and positive thinking, and the right support. it is possible to learn to love yourself and your new life once more!

If you would value some professional empowering support, whether you are emotionally stuck, or you want to be empowered.  In my experience, since when doesn't counselling or therapy give you the solution toolkit? For the women I work with, there is nothing wrong with them. They simply need a new relationship toolkit.  Women who value their self-development, come along to my masterclass training sessions.  

It's for driven and determined women, serious about healing their hearts, and happiness to get the results in love, learning new skills in advance of dating, or in advance of being ready for another relationship.   

Hello, my name is Karen Marshall, I am a qualified relationship and love expert, well-being expert, coach, mentor and trainer with over 20 years of experience.  I understand what works and doesn't to prepare driven women with their toolkits.  If you are happily single and ready to prepare yourself with life-changing skills impacting every area of your life.  Learning to become the Best You Toolkit will prepare you with the skills to attract, recognise and build the most loving and rewarding relationship.  it's the perfect time to learn while you are happily single.

Would you take a driving test without your theory?  No you wouldn't if you wanted to pass. It's the same thing in love.  For greater success in love, learn the easy theory first, your toolkit, and you will become the best you and best partner in advance of dating, in advance of building a new relationship when you will face new tests. 

Do the work while you are happily single, and you will significantly improve your dating and relationship survival chances.  It works!

To understand what it takes, join my next webinar,

The 4 Steps My Clients Use to Attract a High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect you.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall

LoveCoachingYou.com

The type of man you would love to attract may be successful in business, good-looking and very charming. However, if you have not had a hug, sex or a relationship in a while, the chances are you will jump onto the first bus (any relationship) that comes your way.

Without the understanding of:

You have a small window of opportunity to get your dating choice right, especially if you have been hurt too many times before on your dating to love pathway.

To help more women like you fill your heart and life with your missing ingredient, the man you truly deserve to share your life with.

How we communicate in business is very different to the way we communicate in love. You will either be distant, steady or needy. As you learn about your style in love, you will easily recognise the right man who will be there by your side through the ups and downs of life. Men who are distant will feel uncomfortable with emotions, especially if you are deep down feeling needy wanting a man's love and attention. They may say all the right things, but when it matters the most, they will run the other way, to avoid emotional intimacy where possible, or they will tell you to stop nagging or end a conversation leaving you resentful because you don't feel heard or listened to. They will be unable to cope with your emotions leaving you feeling lonely inside. You feel disconnected from the man you thought was the one!

To recognise and attract the right man to you, get clear about his style in love.

Your first step to learn in advance is what is stopping you or sabotaging your chances if men continue to ghost you, are unreliable or don't commit. Coming up, you click this link to join the next Free Masterclass Webinar - The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

Your love quote today

Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence. Vincent Van Gogh

Hi my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a high-qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, wellbeing expert, mentor and trainer. I specialise in helping women successful in business ready to learn their priceless toolkit in advance of dating, in advance of another relationship to get it right in love next time.

I have felt the loneliness, and the heartache to know what it feels like wondering if my life and luck were going to change with men. It was the time in my life, I decided I didn't want any more pain when my Prince Charming left me heartbroken and broken. It’s what makes me unique because I have walked my talk and today I now share the most loving relationship of my life because I achieved the results you want. I understand what works on the dating-to-love pathway and how to recognise, attract and build the most loving high-quality relationship that continues to thrive with the love of my life, Dave. I want this for you too, to find the love of your life!

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

If you are a high-achieving woman or supermum and looking for relationship or dating answers to super-accelerate your results with men.

Would you take your driving test without your theory? To take a new approach to love, it's important to understand if you are sabotaging your chances with men.

Who you choose to date is the most critical decision you will make. Especially if you are unmarried, want to settle down, have a family, or share your life with a decent man who will love and cherish you the way you deserve to be treated.

Or you may be divorced and want to get your next relationship decision right (now, in the future, or when you do feel ready to get back out there).

If you don’t make time to learn your theory in advance of dating, in advance of another relationship, the steps to recognise that Mr Right is right for you and capable of communicating with you to support you emotionally through the ups and downs of life. If you don't get this right, you are highly likely going to repeat the same mistakes or fall into another relationship that is wrong for you (without realising it).

When you do recognise how a man communicates with you from the time you start speaking, you will recognise his style over your first 3-5 dates. If you have learned your theory, you will instinctively recognise the right man's style to know he can support your deeper emotional needs.

It's equally important you get clear about your postcode and address I have already covered in Step 1.

The secret is to prepare yourself in advance for dating, while you are single. Then when the time is right to start dating, you will get your most critical dating decision right. 

Stop wasting your time and life with the wrong men, learn your theory first.

Step 2 –How to recognise Mr Right has the correct communication skills for you?

History will repeat itself if you continue to get the same results in love.

If you are ready to recognise, attract and build your most loving high quality relationship that will thrive and survive, how well do you communicate with yourself positively or negatively? If you don't understand how you communicate with yourself, how can you expect a man to understand you?

Top Tip - Learn about your communication style, and it will be easier to recognise Mr Right, your high-quality man's communication style is right for you.

For greater clarity. How well do you communicate with men you date or fall in love with on a scale of zero (=lowest) up to 10 (10=you are really self-aware of the way you communicate)? What number are you?  

If you have given yourself a lower number, you may feel insecure, and lack self-confidence about the way you communicate with yourself and men.

If you value your self-development, are committed to transforming your heart and life, and want to get it right in love: 

Or sign up for the Top 3 Dating Tips if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit.

Your love quote today

Love is of all passions the strongest, to attack simultaneously the head, heart and all the senses.

Lao Tzu  

My best advice. Learn how to become the Best You, to reach your 8 or 9 out of 10, and discover how you communicate to better understand how a man communicates. Then you will become the best date, best girlfriend, partner, and best wife to your Mr Right, your high-quality man when he does arrive in your life.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

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CONSIDERING SEPARATION OR DIVORCE?

Is an emotive question and will mean something different to everyone especially if you have experienced heartache and relationship breakdown before. It’s also one of the hardest decisions you will make.  So let me give you the informed knowledge, wisdom and coaching  education if any of the following points resonate with you:

To make the right decision to save or rebuild what you have together or separate or divorce if this is the best way forward, don't base your decision on ignorance without seeking expert relationship and coaching support first.

Home truths

My advice speaking to you as a qualified Relationship and Well-being Expert. Life Coach and Mentor.  Also speaking personally from experience I have successfully transformed my relationship journey to know what it takes to build a more loving and rewarding relationship that can work.  It’s important you remember this. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side of the fence.  It is also highly likely you will repeat the same mistakes and feel the same way in another new relationship unless you shift your perspective.

Seeing your relationship challenges from a new perspective

Let’s take a minute to consider your relationship challenges and how to overcome them. To learn a new skill at work, you would go on a course. To feel fitter, you would practice keeping fit. To learn to drive, you would drive. To run a marathon, you would run.

It’s the same principle in your relationship. To gain new relationship skills you will need to practice them.

If you are, considering separation or divorce right now, the answer to help you is just 4 words - shift your self-awareness.

When you do this, you will positively impact your relationship experience, possibly save and rebuild your relationship.  If couples’ therapy or relate counselling is not for you. decide to accelerate your self-awareness with the priceless empowering knowledge below.

Let me also make your experience super-easy.  Investing only 5 minutes each day will get you started with one quick easy exercise I will talk you through in a moment.

Or immediately sign-up for your FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster

Self-awareness

One human need essential in life is self-growth and self-development.

Without them, you will stay stuck.  If you are studying for a qualification, learning a new hobby, reading books to expand your thinking and mind, you are constantly shifting your self-awareness.

If you want a more loving, deeply connected and fulfilling relationship, let me expand your mind.

Just how self-aware are you right now?

On a scale of zero up to 10 (10= the highest number) what number would you give your self-awareness?  If it is 7 or below, what can you do differently to increase this number? Let me show you how.

In my quest towards the relationship survival revolution, if you are you considering separation or divorce, you could save or rebuild what you have together before it’s too late:

Firstly, it’s time to take responsibility for the way you think and feel to avoid making the same mistakes (you may not even be aware of).

Secondly, if you have children, when you decide to invest in your self-awareness you will lead your children with a new example. Before you make a life-changing decision based on ignorance, taking a different perspective is the most precious gift you will give your relationship and your children (who are highly likely to suffer from mental health problems going through separation or divorce with you).  So consider your options wisely.

Top 5 Tips to shift your self-awareness (with a Free Gift to help you).

Your FREE GIFT Today!

A FREE 14 Day Online Video Coaching Program to start your self-awareness transformation.

Discover your human needs and why you feel unfulfilled, bored or depressed.

Uncover what’s important to you, what you DO WANT instead of what you DON’T WANT (to change your negative voice into a positive one).

It will only take you 10 minutes a day, to finish your FREE online 90 minutes Relationship Success Taster including a few simple exercises to shift your perspective. So you have everything to gain!

If you are an action taker, want different results in your life and relationship, any transformation is possible when you shift your awareness!  Sign-up for your FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program if you haven't already.

If you are looking for answers, this is a massive signpost to help and guide you to make the right decision!

With loving wishes

Kare Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

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