Top 3 Dating Tips

If the average age of divorce for men is 45 and it's 42 for women in the UK* should we continue to accept the status quo?

Future proof your relationship survival

In society today we only hear about two relationship extremes. A lovely wedding. It will now cost you an average of £27K - for just one day.** Should couples also include in their wedding costs, an empowering 2 days to future proof their relationship survival? What would be more valuable?

You will never consider the thought of divorce when you meet someone new you have amazing chemistry with, or when you first get married because you feel so in love. If you want a thriving relationship that will last, the most important reason why you should invest in your relationship happiness at the early stages of love is to future proof your relationship success. Taking this first easy step will especially help you to deal with conflict to more easily bring love back into flow very quickly. Also, strengthen your relationship foundations from the outset. To understand your Emotional Intelligence number on a scale of zero to 10, keep reading.....

Taking your Relationship MOT

Making the decision to take a relationship EQ MOT will transform your life and your relationship happiness. If you also want to avoid becoming a divorce statistic, if you are fearful deep down of making the same mistakes with someone new, or your current relationship it is time to develop your emotional intelligence (I will help you further down this post)? If you understand the pattern you personally follow when you argue (any previous/current relationship will give you your answer). If you are unable to understand each other's perspective, pass blame, take responsibility for your emotions, I would advise you to take a relationship MOT before you start dating, whether you are in a new relationship, engaged or have been married a number of years. Keeping the magic of love alive needs working on or you will repeat the same behaviour with another person (that could take you years to find because the grass is not always greener the other side of the fence). Once you discover the priceless insight on how to clear an argument, speak your truth and better understand how you tick and communicated, you will begin to positively react, respond and listen differently to a new partner or the relationship you may want to save or rebuild right now.

Consider these questions for a moment. How long would you let yourself bleed before you put a plaster or bandage over your wound? How long would you endure a health condition before you see a doctor? How long would you struggle at work trying to understand a new piece of software without going on a course to speed up your learning process? How much longer do you want to endure relationship or emotional unhappiness?



It will hit you hard

The impact of divorce or a relationship breakdown only becomes real when it happens. Including your legal fees, splitting your assets, home and financials (all relative to your situation). It will possibly cost you 3 or 4 times the average wedding day spend in total (once you have paid your family lawyer (approx £1200 for a straight forward divorce). The financial cost, of course, depends on your personal circumstances and financial situation. Your emotional intelligence will help you to keep afloat because you then have the devasting emotionally and mental anguish of loss, hurt and pain to deal with when you are trying to support your children's wellbeing too (if you have a family). It will hit you harder, especially if your EQ is under-developed. if this is the case your children will suffer too. Your EQ intelligence is your foundation to cope with any life challenge when it hits you hard. So wherever you are on your love pathway, starting something new, consider the skills you need to develop your EQ. If you want or have a family, they will learn by your example if you already have the right EQ toolkit - if you have been divorced, what to save your relationship or start a new one!

Transform your Approach

Possibly you could start a new relationship, save or rebuild your relationship with a new awareness of each other before you hit problems. For the solution of how you do this, I help clients quickly identify, following my unique tailored 4 step toolkit, if separation or divorce is the best way forward. I help clients save their relationship or before they are ready to start dating, I prepare them with the insight and wisdom they need to make the right informed choice critical - to recognise and attract someone extraordinary (I know so and the clients who have met the love of their life will tell you how important this step is too). If you want a fresh, proven, tried and tested approach that is not Relate Counselling or Talking Therapies (will help you chat through past or current issues) , Walking my talk as a Relationship Expert over 20 years I understand the solution and have created a unique new professionally qualified approach that works. The 4 steps I introduce over a personal 1-2-1 discovery session.

If you are ready to MOT your relationship skills you will get radically different results (over just 2 days) when you apply what you learn. It's an investment every human being should consider! Remember coaching will empower you, it is not a therapy and one day I hope my unique 4 steps healthy communication coaching programme will be the preferred go-to alternative to Relate Counselling (if therapy is not right for you).

Strengthening your emotional intelligence is also a precious life tool and skill to reach your true potential in life and love. You will take back control of your emotions more quickly if you are emotionally stuck, exhausted, anxious or depressed. Take greater steps toward in your business ambitions and life achievements. What you learn and how you apply your emotional intelligence, will positively impact every area of your life and the people you communicate with. You have everything to gain!

This is the most important tip for today so remember it. When you learn to become the best version of you, you will also become the best partner you could be to build, save, or start a new a more lasting relationship for you and it to thrive.



If you don't invest in your Emotional intelligence:

You are likely to continue as you are today, nothing will change. You will possibly continue to feel depressed or stressed for longer, overwhelmed, struggle emotionally, feel empty without the loving relationship you truly deserve, unable to cope or be productive as you would like to at work. If life has hit you hard you may feel the victim for longer if you have been heartbroken and your emotions are out of control. If you have been single or divorced a while, you feel lonely and alone, it can feel like you have no purpose (on the treadmill) without the special someone you want to share your life, dreams and future with.


If you do invest in your EQ skills:

A Little Exercise - What is your Emotional intelligence number?

A coaching question to help you understand your EQ number today .......

On a scale of zero up to 10 (10=the best you could be at communicating), how good are you at dealing with conflict with your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance (or consider a previous relationship or another family member, work colleague you know)? What number are you?

If you are an 8 or 9 you are well developed. Anything below, imagine if you invested just 2 days of your life, how you will develop your EQ and transform your life?

I would love to inspire you to develop your new EQ toolkit every human being needs to learn.


Your next step.......

To book your Emotional Intelligence Relationship 30 minute Discovery Call today, you can book here online immediately. Simply click this link.

Or start your FREE 90 minute Online Relationship Coaching EQ Programme today!


Can you help me to help the people you care about?

Which well-ness contact in your business do you know I could contact to introduce my New You staff engagement and wellbeing programme to? Please email me karen@lovecoachingyou.com or text 07590 221951. Imagine the personal and profitable impact on your business, staff and personal happiness if every employee had their own Emotional Intelligence Toolkit. Staff would want to come into work, feel more productive if you care about their wellbeing.

With loving wishes and much gratitude.

Karenx

LoveCoachingYou.com

KarenMarshallCoach.com if you have everything but no one special to share it with you.

* according to the ONS (Office of National Statistics)

** Bride Magazine

Separating is one of the hardest decisions that you’ll ever make. Or have you considered rebuilding your relationship? The most important life-changing tip I will give you right now.  Get the right informed relationship knowledge and insight that could save or rebuild what you have together before it’s too late, even if this is one of you making the first step to do this, generally the woman.

It's important as a woman you take this step (if your relationship is potentially recoverable) and you are prepared to do the work and your partner is prepared to give it one last shot, especially if children are involved!

A unique empowering 4 Step Healthy Communication Coaching Program will certainly accelerate your next steps to give you the answers you are looking for.  Without this knowledge and a new awareness, it is 98% highly likely that you will repeat the same mistakes you may not even be aware of in a future relationship. You will simply repeat the same patterns with someone new.

If you don't want to set yourself up for more heartache, avoid the high emotional and financial costs involved in divorce, then consider how valuable the right Relationship Expert will help you right now. Potentially you will avoid the heartache and pain, including the cost to your children who are likely to suffer from mental health problems.

Here's your immediate solutions!

There are many relationship coaches or relate counsellors out there. When making your selection who you work with. Perhaps counselling is right for you to talk through your problems. If however, you want a modern empowering fresh approach. Ask an expert. Have they achieved the results you want personally?  It is precisely what makes me a unique choice. As a highly qualified Relationship Success and Well-being Expert and Coach. I have walked my talk. I understand how to super-accelerate your mental and emotional well-being combining 5 interventions I am qualified to practice.  I have also achieved the personal results in my own relationship and share the most loving and rewarding relationship with the love of my life. I understand what works and doesn’t work in relationships personally and professionally!  I also understand the informed knowledge you need to fast-track your next choices at this critical point of your journey.

Before you decide to jump ship (if you don't know, what you don't know) set up a personal call with me, or start a 90-minute FREE online journey immediately to experience how the 4 step approach will transform your awareness if time is precious to make your choices.

What you don’t know, you don’t know! 

It's the exact point for you to seek the informed relationship help before you make the wrong decision.  If you want a unique approach and counselling or the church Alpha course is not for you. Or you don’t want to waste weeks or months working 1-2-1 to talk about your problems, you will immediately accelerate your awareness and next steps with a proven, tried and tested F.I.N.D. and Accelerate Your Relationship Success 4 Step Coaching Program combining 20 years of perosnal and professional experience that works into just 2 days. You can either work with me 1-2-1 exclusively. Or with a group. Or online!

The benefits you will gain:

  • Proven strategies and techniques to empower you emotionally and mentally to make new relationship choices. Coaching is not therapy, it is a powerful intervention to make you think differently and will truly accelerate your results.
  • You will discover what's important to you, what your obstacles are and how you could potentially sabotage your future relationship success. Let me help you to reset your relationship compass in the right direction!
  • You will get greater clarity to take a new relationship approach much faster than you would alone.
  • Gain a better understanding of your deeper needs to better understand your partner’s needs - to change your approach.
  • Discovering how to communicate differently could potentially rebuild or save your relationship.
  • You will get the informed answers if divorce is the best way forward - before you have to reach the stage of mediation!

You now have 2 choices:

Either A)

Set up a personal 1-2-1 no obligation and risk-free 60-minute Discovery Call. Click this link for information to book your call immediately. to save you precious time.

B) Start your FREE 14 day (90 minutes) Find and Accelerate Your Relationship Success Coaching Online Program today. It will only take you 10 minutes a day over 9 days.  Click the link for information to register. You will get immediate clarity to help you decide.

If you truly want to fill your life and heart with the missing ingredients, knowledge and wisdom that took me 20 years to figure out so you don't have to waste your time or life making the same relationship mistakes. What will you decide A) or B)?

With warmest wishes

Karen x

LoveCoachingYou.com P.s. If you live close to Wokingham, Berkshire, come along to an evening taster event to Accelerate Your Relationship Success Evening Taster Workshop Thursday 7th February. £10 a ticket. Email info@lovecoachingyou.com for information and payment details.

Or look out for me in the February 2019 issue of Berkshire Life Magazine!

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