True love is magical when it works!
It also gets harder if you're a successful woman in your late 30s and the clock is ticking to have a family, particularly if you are still waiting to find your special person, a high-quality man to settle down with.
Or, perhaps you've been divorced for a while, or your children are growing up fast and you are feeling lonely. You're ready to start dating and find a more fulfilling and rewarding relationship with a decent man. Whether you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s or older you will truly understand and value what it means to find a more loving and happier relationship that CAN thrive, especially if you've been hurt or let down too many times. If you are feeling lost what do, it might feel like you're running a long marathon without any finish line in sight because you don't know where your finish line is, especially if you are fearful of being hurt again, but want to get it right next time. Whether you are single or divorced, let me inspire and motivate you today.
To begin any journey starts with your first step. So I have 5 easy questions. below to help you.
Before we start, consider your relationship situation with this example in mind. The London Marathon every year draws in thousands of runners. If you were participating you would recognise the importance of training to prepare your mind and body. You would eat the right foods, start running and set training goals in place. It’s the same approach for the relationship you DO want. Firstly you will need to nourish your mind, and practice new skills if you don't want to keep repeating the same dating or relationship mistakes. You would prepare yourself with the right training to reach your finish line.
To run a marathon you run, to become a singer, you sing. If you want different relationship results, you learn and practice new relationship skills
You have two options You may prefer to sprint into another relationship without any training, or find a more rewarding and lasting relationship that CAN work with the right training. Which one would you choose?
Tip – Before you start dating, or even consider another relationship, now is the perfect time to start your new relationship training, in advance of another relationship.
Becoming aware of the way you think and communicate in love (you may not even be aware of) will accelerate your results to help you Recognise, Attract, Find and Build a more loving and happier relationship that will thrive and survive. You will stand out like a unicorn to the right Mr Right, a high-quality man, you do want to attract who will not want to let you go! You will also gain a valuable toolkit to build a much stronger relationship foundation. Train in advance of dating, or another relationship. Or be warned you will repeat the same mistakes (most women are not aware of making), and attract similar men or relationships, especially if you've been hurt too many times.
To start you off, here are your Free Top 3 Dating Tips (will only take you 5 minutes to read) if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. You will discover the 3 questions every woman needs to know and get right, to attract your high-quality man (instead of settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers) who don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Or I would love to invite you to join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 4 Steps My Clients Apply To Find and Attract a High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.
Let me help you find and build your most loving and rewarding relationship that will thrive and survive!
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
www.LoveCoachingYou.com.
If you are a driven, and determined successful woman and value your self-development, regardless of where you are on your dating or early relationship journey, understanding the dating paradox will accelerate your dating success. And determine your relationship's happiness!
I hear most women say this to me. “I am not ready to start dating yet, so I don’t need any help.” It is absolutely your paradox.
During this chapter of your life, when you don’t feel ready, it’s the perfect time to do the work, to be ready.
Why? Have you heard the dilemma question; which comes first, the chicken or the egg? Whether you want to get your dating decision right or build a more loving and healthy relationship that works. What comes first? New relationship skills, or dating skills?
Yes, it is key to work on new relationship communication skills IN ADVANCE of dating. In advance, of being ready for another relationship. So I would highly recommend if you are a woman who values your self-growth and development, learning a new toolkit while you are single, then you will get very different dating results with the quality men you attract to you and the skills to build a healthy thriving relationship that works and can survive.
If you are dating. And your previous relationship history has left you feeling fearful deep down of getting hurt again. Be warned. You are 98% likely to repeat the same patterns and mistakes in another relationship (without realising it) unless you shift your dating approach. Applying a new toolkit anyone can learn especially if you love learning about yourself will accelerate finding and building the loving relationship every woman deserves.
You will reset your inner compass to discern if a man is compatible with you on a much deeper emotional level before you meet him.
It's easy to discern from out the outside how a man makes you feel, but what counts is on the inside, the way he communicates, values, respects and shows you love. You will also become the better partner for him and more easily navigate your challenges together, without him realising it's you.
Early stages of dating we are testing each other's boundaries, it's normal, but when little niggles become much bigger, how we deal with conflict will make or break any relationship. Bringing love back into flow quickly is an art to building a thriving loving relationship, it's also the glue that holds love together.
Discovering your communication style is the first critical set to recognise the right high-quality man, in advance of meeting him. Recognising how you communicate, will help you to easily understand his communication style, and to know that he is wired and compatible to satisfy your deeper emotional needs beyond chemistry, sexual attraction, shared interests and values. Then you will significantly increase your dating and relationship survival chances! Understanding your personal communication style is your first step.
You now have 2 choices:
Go to 1 below if you are NOT dating, happily single, or remotely interested in another relationship right now. But want the skills in advance of being ready.
Or go to 2, if you are dating.
Now let me explain the perfect chicken and egg dating paradox example. Perhaps this statement resonates with you, particularly if you are NOT ready for another relationship or want to date right now.
E.g., I don’t want another relationship, I only want to focus on myself, my business, and my children (if you do have a family). I am not interested in dating or need any help right now. I just want to focus on myself.
Now think about this question. Would it be more beneficial to become aware of your likely relationship or dating obstacles, before, or after, you feel ready for another relationship? This is the most precious piece of advice you need to know while you are healing your heart and life- do the work, your theory, while you are single! Or waste more valuable time, meeting the wrong men when you are ready.
It took me 20 years to figure out how to attract the right high-quality man, so you don't have to waste any more time making the same mistake women make without realising.
Jo, one client I worked with, dated narcissistic men for 7 years before she took my new toolkit approach.
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2. If you are ACTIVELY DATING. The majority of women wait to be chosen (hunted) by a man. If you are endlessly chasing dates, feeling lost and want to know how to attract the right high-quality man, learning the skills now to become the chooser in love, join me on the next Masterclass Training Webinar, to discover the 4 steps you need to know to get your most critical dating decision right.
If you no longer want second best (or the scraps and men who treat you like a doormat) and want to meet the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you! Let's get you started:
Option 1 - Re-ignite your self-confidence. get the Top 3 Dating Tips right in advance of dating Click here for your download.
Option 2 - Join The Next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar
To uncover your 10% you need to let go of to attract the right high-quality man. And get the 4 steps you will need to know about your toolkit. Click here. to register your spot.
What step will you take, option 1 or 2?
I would love to fill millions of hearts and lives with the love every woman truly deserves! Let yours be one of them!
Karen x
LoveCoachingYou.com
If you have been single or divorced for a while, perhaps Valentine's Day is another calendar event you would still rather avoid even though we are all staying home during the lockdown. If you are exhausted of relationships not working out, or attracting the wrong men. To stand out from your competition on your dating membership sites, apps or joining a dating agency, you will need to ATTRACT the right high-quality man to YOU (using a precious toolkit you would need to learn in advance of dating)!
Yes, it's a rollercoaster of fun and excitement when you meet someone you like and meet up with. As a leading dating and relationship expert, my best advice is to revisit your relationship skills before you start dating or feel ready for another relationship if you have been heartbroken and are living alone. Take your quick MOT. The Top 3 Dating Tips that men see and sense about you, if men are ghosting you, unreliable, or don't commit. Your free download will take 5 minutes to read. Click here for your copy.
If you are dating, leaving love to chance, or waiting for the next high-quality man (you think is right for you but could be so wrong for you) to be matched with online, if what you have been doing so far is not working out for you, to uncover your 10% that could be sabotaging your chances. Join the next free Masterclass Training Webinar coming up shortly to get it right with the next quality man you recognise doesn't come into your life that often.
Married At First Sight Australia demonstrates, particularly what the women do, to sabotage their potential success. E.g. I have seen many create an argument to end the relationship (when deep down they fear getting hurt again). They don't understand themselves so the way they cope best is to protect themselves, close down, and walk away.
The most valuable gift you could give yourself today, start the next Masterclass Training Webinar starting shortly.
The successful businesswomen who get over 95% success rate have done the work, in advance of dating while they are single. While they focus on work and/or family (if they have children) and live alone. They are using the toolkit I cover in the next masterclass webinar.
If you don't want to waste any more of your time or life feeling emotionally empty or start another relationship that's going where, join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar starting shortly.
To re-ignite your self-confidence, get your Free download, The Top 3 Dating Tips men see and sense about you, if they ghost you, are unreliable, or don't commit.
Warmest Wishes
Karen Marshall
LoveCoachingYou.com
P.s. My credentials to know you are working with the right expert who has achieved the results you want!
As a qualified and highly-skilled mind, body, and energy expert, I combine over 25 years of personal relationship knowledge that works with my professionally qualified expertise to accelerate your dating and relationship happiness. Do you want a high-quality man or second best? You decide.
Join the next Free Masterclass Training for the powerful insights you need to know, in advance of dating.
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If the average age of divorce for men is 45 and it's 42 for women in the UK* should we continue to accept the status quo?
In society today we only hear about two relationship extremes. A lovely wedding. It will now cost you an average of £27K - for just one day.** Should couples also include in their wedding costs, an empowering 2 days to future proof their relationship survival? What would be more valuable?
You will never consider the thought of divorce when you meet someone new you have amazing chemistry with, or when you first get married because you feel so in love. If you want a thriving relationship that will last, the most important reason why you should invest in your relationship happiness at the early stages of love is to future proof your relationship success. Taking this first easy step will especially help you to deal with conflict to more easily bring love back into flow very quickly. Also, strengthen your relationship foundations from the outset. To understand your Emotional Intelligence number on a scale of zero to 10, keep reading.....
Making the decision to take a relationship EQ MOT will transform your life and your relationship happiness. If you also want to avoid becoming a divorce statistic, if you are fearful deep down of making the same mistakes with someone new, or your current relationship it is time to develop your emotional intelligence (I will help you further down this post)? If you understand the pattern you personally follow when you argue (any previous/current relationship will give you your answer). If you are unable to understand each other's perspective, pass blame, take responsibility for your emotions, I would advise you to take a relationship MOT before you start dating, whether you are in a new relationship, engaged or have been married a number of years. Keeping the magic of love alive needs working on or you will repeat the same behaviour with another person (that could take you years to find because the grass is not always greener the other side of the fence). Once you discover the priceless insight on how to clear an argument, speak your truth and better understand how you tick and communicated, you will begin to positively react, respond and listen differently to a new partner or the relationship you may want to save or rebuild right now.
Consider these questions for a moment. How long would you let yourself bleed before you put a plaster or bandage over your wound? How long would you endure a health condition before you see a doctor? How long would you struggle at work trying to understand a new piece of software without going on a course to speed up your learning process? How much longer do you want to endure relationship or emotional unhappiness?
The impact of divorce or a relationship breakdown only becomes real when it happens. Including your legal fees, splitting your assets, home and financials (all relative to your situation). It will possibly cost you 3 or 4 times the average wedding day spend in total (once you have paid your family lawyer (approx £1200 for a straight forward divorce). The financial cost, of course, depends on your personal circumstances and financial situation. Your emotional intelligence will help you to keep afloat because you then have the devasting emotionally and mental anguish of loss, hurt and pain to deal with when you are trying to support your children's wellbeing too (if you have a family). It will hit you harder, especially if your EQ is under-developed. if this is the case your children will suffer too. Your EQ intelligence is your foundation to cope with any life challenge when it hits you hard. So wherever you are on your love pathway, starting something new, consider the skills you need to develop your EQ. If you want or have a family, they will learn by your example if you already have the right EQ toolkit - if you have been divorced, what to save your relationship or start a new one!
Possibly you could start a new relationship, save or rebuild your relationship with a new awareness of each other before you hit problems. For the solution of how you do this, I help clients quickly identify, following my unique tailored 4 step toolkit, if separation or divorce is the best way forward. I help clients save their relationship or before they are ready to start dating, I prepare them with the insight and wisdom they need to make the right informed choice critical - to recognise and attract someone extraordinary (I know so and the clients who have met the love of their life will tell you how important this step is too). If you want a fresh, proven, tried and tested approach that is not Relate Counselling or Talking Therapies (will help you chat through past or current issues) , Walking my talk as a Relationship Expert over 20 years I understand the solution and have created a unique new professionally qualified approach that works. The 4 steps I introduce over a personal 1-2-1 discovery session.
If you are ready to MOT your relationship skills you will get radically different results (over just 2 days) when you apply what you learn. It's an investment every human being should consider! Remember coaching will empower you, it is not a therapy and one day I hope my unique 4 steps healthy communication coaching programme will be the preferred go-to alternative to Relate Counselling (if therapy is not right for you).
Strengthening your emotional intelligence is also a precious life tool and skill to reach your true potential in life and love. You will take back control of your emotions more quickly if you are emotionally stuck, exhausted, anxious or depressed. Take greater steps toward in your business ambitions and life achievements. What you learn and how you apply your emotional intelligence, will positively impact every area of your life and the people you communicate with. You have everything to gain!
This is the most important tip for today so remember it. When you learn to become the best version of you, you will also become the best partner you could be to build, save, or start a new a more lasting relationship for you and it to thrive.
You are likely to continue as you are today, nothing will change. You will possibly continue to feel depressed or stressed for longer, overwhelmed, struggle emotionally, feel empty without the loving relationship you truly deserve, unable to cope or be productive as you would like to at work. If life has hit you hard you may feel the victim for longer if you have been heartbroken and your emotions are out of control. If you have been single or divorced a while, you feel lonely and alone, it can feel like you have no purpose (on the treadmill) without the special someone you want to share your life, dreams and future with.
A coaching question to help you understand your EQ number today .......
On a scale of zero up to 10 (10=the best you could be at communicating), how good are you at dealing with conflict with your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance (or consider a previous relationship or another family member, work colleague you know)? What number are you?
If you are an 8 or 9 you are well developed. Anything below, imagine if you invested just 2 days of your life, how you will develop your EQ and transform your life?
I would love to inspire you to develop your new EQ toolkit every human being needs to learn.
To book your Emotional Intelligence Relationship 30 minute Discovery Call today, you can book here online immediately. Simply click this link.
Or start your FREE 90 minute Online Relationship Coaching EQ Programme today!
Which well-ness contact in your business do you know I could contact to introduce my New You staff engagement and wellbeing programme to? Please email me karen@lovecoachingyou.com or text 07590 221951. Imagine the personal and profitable impact on your business, staff and personal happiness if every employee had their own Emotional Intelligence Toolkit. Staff would want to come into work, feel more productive if you care about their wellbeing.
With loving wishes and much gratitude.
Karenx
LoveCoachingYou.com
KarenMarshallCoach.com if you have everything but no one special to share it with you.
* according to the ONS (Office of National Statistics)
** Bride Magazine
Separation and divorce is the most difficult emotional situation you may be faced with right now. It is extremely stressful and painful and often associated with feeling bereaved. It will also very much depend on your personal situation, the circumstances of your separation and how you are coping emotionally and mentally with your challenges. How you feel mentally, your self-worth and self-confidence will also impact your energy levels physically. If you are feeling stuck emotionally, a priceless toolkit of wisdom and strategies will give you the right emotional scaffolding to help you regain your strength. Or you want the answers how to pick yourself up and rebuild yourself mentally and emotionally - to get your life back.
Any breakdown is a massive life-changing turning point as you begin to learn to survive as a single woman, mum or business woman. Men will also go through big adjustments, but will deal with their emotions differently.
If you are finding it hard to cope there is help at hand offering you powerful coping strategies and techniques, the priceless life skills to become more resilient, confident, happier and mentally stronger. Any broken relationship can take time to heal especially if you are feeling the victim.
How are you coping mentally and emotionally right now? On a scale of zero (lowest number) up to 10 (10 = the highest number), what number would you give yourself on this scale? If your number is lower than a 7 it is a true indicator you may value some help that would give you the tools to navigate your challenges more effectively. Firstly, it is time to spend loving you once more, to rebuild how you are feeling inside.
To help you reach the next number up your scale, if this is 7 or below, I have a few options to help you.
Let's have a quick 20-30 FREE chat to discuss your situation and I will expertly guide you with your next steps. To arrange your no obligation call, click here.
Your body is undoubtedly absorbing the emotional stress and anxiety you are feeling and will often manifest in the body as anxiety, muscular tension, headaches, high blood pressure, sleepless nights, mood changes, depression and emotional exhaustion. These are just some of the symptoms your body will show you if you are listening loudly enough especially as 75% of illness is mostly stress-related. If yo uare taking time off, feeling unwell or poorly I am not surprised. When you understand how to take control of your thinking and emotions, you will also begin to feel more energised and happier too so I would love to help you!
A) Whether you are feeling emotionally stuck and want to rebuild yourself. Or b) you may be in a situation you want answers to save or rebuild your relationship. Or c) you want informed knowledge to know that separation or divorce is the best option. I will personally tailor for you a healthy communication coaching approach (that is not therapy or counselling). I will truly empower you to get you back on track! There is nothing like this coaching programme on the market. More Berkshire lawyers in Newbury, Oxford and Windsor are promoting my services as they recognise just how beneficial my combined professional coaching and holistic expertise is more helpful for clients in your situation. If you are looking for a warm, friendly, professional expert to help you, I would be happy to speak to you asap.
It's important to recognise you need time to heal and invest in your personal well-being and deeper needs if you are feeling emotional or finding it difficult to cope. Or you will feel like you’re running a long marathon without any finish line ahead if you simply bury your feelings as a coping mechanism. If you do this, your emotions are more likely to manifest physically in your body if they are not acknowledged. With my help as a Relationship Expert and Wellbeing Expert you will be supported holistically over a period of time.
Imagine when you cut yourself. Any open wound takes time to naturally heal. It is the same with your heart. You may need time to possibly rebuild your confidence and support to heal the emotional wounds you are carrying inside. Learning to love and nurture yourself, looking after your health and well-being, giving yourself the right nutrition, taking time to sleep will all help you on your healing journey to re-ignite your zest for life once more. .
If you value your self-worth and your self-development, with my help, you will be better equipped to transform your thinking and how you feel with your own helpful toolkit of strategies. Firstly let's have a chat for you to find out how we can work together.
This is an important point for you to consider while you are healing. If you are already focusing on your children and work, getting you back on track to rebuild yourself, it's important to start resetting your compass towards a new healthier direction, particularly if you have had an abusive or controlling partner. I will support you now to rediscover a new approach. May be you are showing an okay face to the world, but inside you want the right support, if therapy or relationship counselling is not right for you. Or subconsciously you will repeat making the same mistakes again in your future. Having walked my own healing journey, right now is absolutely the time to start working together.
Dr Wayne Dyer the famous American philosopher said: “When you change the things you see the things you see change”. So, when you discover the steps to change your perspective, thinking and how you feel, you will see life differently that may be inconcievalbe right now,
Let's have a FREE 20-30 minute Consultation Call. This intial call will give you an overview of how I work for you to decide if my offer is right for you and your personal situation.
We will spend time focusing on you and your needs, what is right for you with an opportunity to experience the healthy communication programme for yourself. This meeting is face-to-face. I will tell you about it on our consultation call how this step will be helpful for you.
The healthy communication programme, a proven, tried and tested approach with strategies and techniques that work, combines my personal and professional skills that works,
With 20 years of wisdom and insight, you will no longer have to muddle through feeling alone, feeling the pain inside, or the heartache you have endured for so long.
What is important for you to resolve right now? If you don't get this area of your life handled, how will your situation impact you mentallly, emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually? Contact Karen for your FREE 30 Minute No Obligation Call to decife if I am the right expert to transform your life and happiness.
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If you continue to WAIT for the right man to arrive in your life, and only focus all your energy on your career, friends, family, hobbies and social interests, you could be wasting valuable time waiting for Mr Right to turn up. Before you realise, another 1, 2, or 5 years will pass you by, which is precious time if you are now much older in your 30's, 40's, 50's plus and don't want to keep making the same relationship mistakes.
It's important to consider if you have been single for a while, if you meet a new man unexpectedly, you could possibly get involved too quickly if you don't have any understanding of what you DO WANT from another relationship, before it starts. If this is the case, the chances are, you are likely to repeat the same relationship mistakes again (you might not even aware until you identify them).
With Coaching support you will quickly and easily identify who is right for you, before you invest your heart, emotions and life with Mr Wrong. Any new relationship can end as quickly as it starts, if you don't get the basics right before you get involved (especially if your attraction is based on sexual attraction). It will be short-lived and is more unlikely to last. However, if you do the work to understand what DOES WORK, your life could change in a way you never expected. It happened for me, so it can certainly happen for you if you are ready and willing to learn new relationship skills.
I am sure you would happily learn a new skill at work for your job, or something you really wanted to do. and required more knowledge to do it much better to get the results you wanted. The same applies in your relationships. If you want to RECOGNISE your Mr Right, or discover how to become the BEST PARTNER you can be, you need to learn new relationship skills to a) discern and recognise Mr Right, is right for you. This will be the most important decision you will make choosing your next potential partner so invest your heart and head wisely. b) Without the right awareness you could be setting yourself up for failure and more heartache.
You believe.......YOU will know, when the right man arrives in your life?
How will you know he is right for you beyond looks and chemistry? If you don’t understand your values or what you believe is important about Mr Right, you could be sabotaging or stopping yourself from being open to him e.g. if you are fearful about being hurt again or let down. Firstly you would need to explore your belief about fear and how you can change it, then get clear about what type of guy you DO want to share your life with. When you discover what's important, Mr Right will instinctively jump out to you when you know what type of questions to ask him. If he has similar values, lots in common with you, communicates effectively and is aligned with your lifestyle and dreams, you will be better equipped to quickly decide if he is right or wrong for you. So get really clear about what you DO WANT before you start any new relationship.
You believe.....YOU cannot go looking for love?
It’s important to discover how you can become the CHOOSER, instead of waiting to be CHOSEN. When you do this, you will accelerate your relationship opportunities. When you take different steps and actions to change your approach, you will significantly increase and alter the course of your life e.g. If you enjoy cycling, go to cycling social events , or go to fitness shows if you enjoy fitness. You never know where you will meet a guy who is aligned with you. When you go somewhere or do something different today and open yourself up to new exciting opportunities, you will increase your chances of meeting a guy you really want to attract to you.
You believe...the right man will make you happy
When you take time to discover how to become the best version of yourself, you will become an even more amazing partner for your Mr Right. When you learn to love yourself unconditionally, improve your inner happiness, your inner confidence and look after your body, personal self-development is key. Taking responsibility for your own happiness, will kick start any new relationship when you already have your own healthier foundations in place, before you invest your body and life with another partner you pin your hopes and hope will make you happy.
Imagine, if you feel insecure and unhappy inside, you are more likely to attract a similar guy who is insecure with similar destructive relationship behaviour patterns. Or possibly attract, a controlling or more challenging relationship that will make you unhappy . Remember, like attracts like. When you understand how to start feeling happier, become aware of the obstacles and beliefs holding you back your awareness will change, then you will attract or become more open to a different type of guy, who is aligned with you on a much deeper level beyond looks and chemistry.
Top Tip - Become the person you want to meet! Embrace your feminine power, your energy, the strong woman you are, work on the limiting beliefs stopping you or holding you back from the loving relationship you want. When you do this, your beauty will shine and radiate inside and out. Your energy and mind are then aligned to attract the right man into you life, like no other man you have known before.
As Wayne Dyer once said. "When you change the things you look at........the things you look at change". Similarly with your thinking. Change your thinking and your life experience will change in an unimaginable way.
How Relationship Transformation Coaching will help and support you:
To Fast Track and speed up your relationship journey, I have designed a unique Coaching Programme (aligned with 20 years of my personal journey and experience to find Mr Extraordinary and WHAT DOES WORK in relationships) to give you all the relationship and self-development insight wrapped around coaching exercises that will only empower and prepare you in readiness to meet Mr Right.
For your FREE 14 day online access to the incredible relationship changing programme, How To Recognise Your Mr Extraordinary, click here. Is it time for you to FAST TRACK your relationship journey if you are looking for a much deeper and rewarding love connection like never before that works and lasts?!
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Christmas and Valentines are key dates in your calendar year when you’re reminded about having a special someone in your life. It’s a time you undoubtedly become aware of what’s missing in your life if your single or divorced, when you see everyone around you sharing it with a special someone.
Imagine, if you could find someone new, you are not only attracted to, aligned with, you can effectively communicate with, in a more loving and happier relationship that works beyond 2 years: what value would you put on finding this gift?
Taking only 2 days out of your busy lifestyle, you could receive all the education, insight, proven coaching strategies and techniques (and knowledge that’s tried and tested over 20 years to discover what does work). That’s if you’ve reached an age in your life, you are prepared to achieve different results, with a potential new partner. Or you may be thinking right now, you don’t know how to even get to first base and attract the right man into your life. This programme will certainly help you too.
I am running through this with you now, to give you this most valuable nugget of information first so I don’t waste your time. If this article has already touched or resonated with you, then read on.
How can we help our future generations to build the right relationship
Love is now more disposable as the Y generation shop for it on Tinder, vs the older Baby Boomers in their 40’s/50’s who continue to remain stuck between old and new traditions. As we age and mature, finding true love becomes more competitive with a lower ratio of available men (the hunters) vs women (waiting to be hunted). An older Mr Extraordinary now has any number of older or younger women to choose from.
For you to stand you to the right man, he needs to recognise you’re a high value woman inside and out. It’s now even more important for entrepreneurial career women (waiting to be hunted) to get it right if you’re looking for extraordinary instead of second best, instead of another failed relationship.
Or, if life is whizzing by and you’re now in your 50’s plus and you are still waiting to found the right man you are aligned and compatible with. To make a relationship work you need to take a different approach if what you are doing right now it’s working.
I was the typical career woman waiting for Mr Right to turn up
Already focused on my career. At 28 I ended my 11-year first-love relationship, simply because we didn’t understand each other’s deeper needs. I was also big time naïve and believed another man would make me happier. It’s the mindset we especially follow in our 20s. But life experience has since taught me otherwise. I in fact became a symptom of society, viewing love as more disposable when I expected to meet Mr Right quite quickly and live happy ever. How wrong I was! My life certainly didn’t turn out how I expected it to. Possibly your life hasn’t turned out the way you expected it to either?
The next 13 years of my adult life 28-41, I considered myself an independent single career woman, trying to survive paying the bills and mortgage, surviving emotionally and mentally living alone without the support of the right partner. I continued dating, having short-term relationships that didn’t last beyond 2 years. Life became even more stressful doing everything alone because the 3 key reasons why career women are not finding Mr Right, below, didn’t even cross my mind.
If you find yourself in your 30’s, 40’s, 50’s and over, it can become harder with broken relationships getting in the way of finding your next special relationship if you are ready to settle down. More obstacles are likely to hold you back e.g. the way you think about men, about relationships, about yourself. Mr Right could be standing right in front of you, but the way you think could be stopping you.
As a qualified Relationship Transformation Coach, my vision is to become the voice that will transform the RELATIONSHIP SURVIVAL REVOLUTION to help thousands or millions of single or divorced career women (or men) in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s plus. I want to make a difference towards changing societies approach.
If I can help and educate women how they APPROACH FINDING A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND BUILDING ONE THAT WORKS and LASTS, I have done my job. I work with Executive clients either 1-2-1 who are time poor who want a quick solution or with groups of women. Sharing my knowledge and experience will give an accelerated learning experience, if more women (even men) want to AVOID MAKING THE SAME MISTAKES (they are likely to be unaware of).
The 3 key reasons why career women are not finding Mr Right (rightly or wrongly).
As a corporate career woman, I followed societies lead, leaving love to chance because the fairy tale tells us one day we will meet our Prince Charming and will live happy ever after. Society believes we will meet our special someone, but the chances of finding happy ever is faster declining.
Your next step……
Today, my personal journey has become my passion - to help women (or men who also want to avoid making the same mistakes), and sharing 20 years of my dating experience and relationship education. Now condensed into a 2 Day Masterclass Programme. If I can engage more women with my motivational and engaging talks, I dream of changing more lives. With my qualifications and experience of 5 different therapy interventions of the Mind-Body-Energy connection, my health and well-being experience also supports clients through their journey. What makes me unique, I truly understand how to transform lives much faster than clients can achieve alone.
Why not come along and register to attend a FREE Webinars or a Coaching Taster Events in January/February 2017 to experience some coaching exercises and how the 2 Day programme can help you. My promise is to transform your approach to FIND, BUILD and NURTURE the most rewarding relationship in your life into the future you dream of finding right now.
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My Story
I thought I would have my own family, be happily married by my mid 30’s, which in fact turned into a decade of disappointment in love, dating the wrong guys, and relationships that didn’t last beyond 2 years. During this 10-year period, when I was 33, I decided enough was enough and I took control of my own destiny and future.
One significant relationship that broke me was the catalyst for me to transform my own life. Over 6 years I immersed myself in studying, learning, re-educating myself to BECOME THE BEST PARTNER I COULD BECOME! I walked my talk, applied what I learned in my life and noticed different results with men. I was determined Mr Right would not want to let me go when I found him!
Walking onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas, on February 14th 2014 my life changed in an unbelievable way. It was Valentines Day and my dream had finally came true when I married for the first time in my life. I was 47. It was the most magical day of my life because I had worked so hard to become the best partner I could become for Dave, who is my Mr Extraordinary and has changed my life in an unimaginable way. I am the original career woman Baby Boomer (without my own children) now married to a divorcee with his own family I am very blessed to share and be part of already over 8 ½ years. My life has significantly changed because I took control to FIND, RECOGNISE, BUILD AND NURTURE a more loving and happier relationship I wanted.
Something needs to change if relationships are going to survive. Is Christmas or Valentines your reminder to do something different if you don’t want to keep making the same mistakes?
*The Daily Mail 6th Dec 2016 reported from the Office of National Statistics that Marriage and Divorce as it is lowest since 1970’s. Relationships are no longer surviving now we are living together longer and weaker relationships continue to end.
There are many reasons why women remain single and one is the scarcity of men when we are older. As we reach our mid 30's and head towards our 40’s, 50’s and older, it get's harder to meet the right available man especially if you're still looking for your Mr Right.
With a lower ratio and fewer available single men on the market, more women are competing for the right male attention. So it’s important to consider, how you stand out from other women.
Looks
You never know where you could meet Mr Right. To attract the right guy, it's important to take care of your hair, makeup, your body, the style you want to project, especially if you want a man to take care of his appearance.
Our brain is hard wired to reproduce, so it's only human to want to feel desired by men no matter what age you are. As a woman you can be attracted to many features in a man to be drawn to him, so it's not always about looks. Men are more visual, so your appearance will certainly catch his attention for any spark of chemistry to ignite.
Inner Beauty
When a man notices you, it's important your inner beauty really makes you shine. How you feel about yourself, how you respond to him, your personality and attitude, will speak volumes to him. He will quickly decide if he wants to invest his time with you. Remember, your looks and chemistry alone will not maintain your relationship. Any sexual chemistry and excitement can often be short lived, so your inner beauty needs to shine for a man to recognise you are right for him.
If you're a confident professional woman I am sure you would love to meet a confident man who is happy and charming, or he has the qualities you are looking for. Remember, like attracts like, so become the person you want to meet, e.g. happy and confident. Right now, if you're not feeling self-confident with men, possibly have lower self-esteem, it's unlikely you will meet a more confident type of guy.
To discover how to make your inner beauty shine, claim your FREE 5 Step Inner Beauty Makeover below. It will help you explore and identify which area you need to work on you right now to attract your right, Mr Right.
Communication
To ATTRACT, NURTURE and BUILD a healthy and more successful relationship, communication is the key. Without an awareness of the way you communicate with a new guy, will either glue, or repel your relationship. If you really want to avoid repeating the same mistakes, take some time out to understand how you think and what you are saying to men. Are you effective and loving, or dis-empowering when you communicate?
Now here's the interesting part. If you were to give yourself a mark out of 10 (0= not achieved, 10 = you’ve achieved 10 out of 10), what number would you give yourself when answering these 3 questions.
If you are closer to a 10 that's a great place to be. If you would love to attract a similar guy to you, and you've marked yourself 5 or 6, possibly lower, then you may want to think about reaching out for expert support if you really want to become a better version of you. Now answer these questions:
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Imagine how you would feel reaching a personal goal you’ve worked so hard towards achieving over 13 years of your life. Then one day arrives and you become overwhelmed with emotions and excitement. You cross the finish line of the race you’ve been running for years and it feels strangely amazing because you’re there. All your hard work, study and determination to succeed paid off. You’re dream just came true.
I felt the elation as I crossed this finish line on Valentines Day. I was finally getting married which made me realise just how far I had come over 13 years of learning about love and relationships. My eyes filled with happy tears as they rolled down my cheeks. I married my gorgeous soul mate, lover and best friend of 6 years, on a beautiful idyllic golden beach in the Bahamas. In the heat of the sunshine we exchanged our vows as we looked out to a turquoise crystal clear blue sea together.
Many years before it wasn’t the same story, something quite opposite. I was so disillusioned about finding true love and fed up being hurt again and again, meeting all the wrong relationship types. I had given up. Does this sounds like you?
Feeling this pain, took me to a turning point in my life. I decided to become an expert at love and relationships if I wanted to find my own happiness. I now feel passionate about helping you find the happiness and rewarding relationship you are seeking.
Are you looking for guidance from someone knowledgeable who has been where you are?
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