Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?
Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s. Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.
This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
Imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy. Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up. One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean? What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!
Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you. For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.
Let's take a minute to pause once more. Here's another example to consider. When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking). When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?
Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!
But be warned. Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure? You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.
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Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk. I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising. Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!
Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time. What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?
Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years. It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too. I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47. I cried happy tears. Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!
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Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory? No, you wouldn't. Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.
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With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
If you are a high-achieving woman, or supermum and want to get your dating decision right, you will need to value your self-development if what you have been doing so far on your dating or relationship journey hasn't been working out for you.
Your brain will always protect you from seemingly dangerous situations. Especially, if you think deep down negatively about men, relationships, or yourself. Your subconscious brain is programmed to divert your attention when your fight or flight response is activated to keep you away from another stressful situation your brain regards as dangerous e.g. even a dating situation. Or you may have been invited to a lovely social event that you know eligible men are attending, but you decide not to go because you are too busy, but deep down you prefer to avoid going to protect yourself (e.g. for the fear of being hurt again). This subconscious behaviour will continue to sabotage your chances. You also need to know your Step 1 postcode and address to recognise the right Mr Right, Step 2 is to understand how to recognise a man communicates with you that glue that will build a stronger relationship.
Unless you become aware of the way you think, and what you believe to be true, and the way you communicate. your magic genie will continue to deliver your self-fulfilling prophecy, the man you believe deep down will turn up e.g. a guy who will let you down, want you for sex, is not committed.
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- Your love quote today -
Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused. Paulo Coelho.
To unravel your confusion, and fill your heart and life with your missing ingredient, let me help you get it right if you are ready to Recognise, Attract and Build your most loving high-quality loving relationship that will thrive and survive!
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
If you are a high-achieving woman or supermum and looking for relationship or dating answers to super-accelerate your results with men.
Would you take your driving test without your theory? To take a new approach to love, it's important to understand if you are sabotaging your chances with men.
Who you choose to date is the most critical decision you will make. Especially if you are unmarried, want to settle down, have a family, or share your life with a decent man who will love and cherish you the way you deserve to be treated.
Or you may be divorced and want to get your next relationship decision right (now, in the future, or when you do feel ready to get back out there).
If you don’t make time to learn your theory in advance of dating, in advance of another relationship, the steps to recognise that Mr Right is right for you and capable of communicating with you to support you emotionally through the ups and downs of life. If you don't get this right, you are highly likely going to repeat the same mistakes or fall into another relationship that is wrong for you (without realising it).
When you do recognise how a man communicates with you from the time you start speaking, you will recognise his style over your first 3-5 dates. If you have learned your theory, you will instinctively recognise the right man's style to know he can support your deeper emotional needs.
It's equally important you get clear about your postcode and address I have already covered in Step 1.
The secret is to prepare yourself in advance for dating, while you are single. Then when the time is right to start dating, you will get your most critical dating decision right.
Stop wasting your time and life with the wrong men, learn your theory first.
History will repeat itself if you continue to get the same results in love.
If you are ready to recognise, attract and build your most loving high quality relationship that will thrive and survive, how well do you communicate with yourself positively or negatively? If you don't understand how you communicate with yourself, how can you expect a man to understand you?
Top Tip - Learn about your communication style, and it will be easier to recognise Mr Right, your high-quality man's communication style is right for you.
For greater clarity. How well do you communicate with men you date or fall in love with on a scale of zero (=lowest) up to 10 (10=you are really self-aware of the way you communicate)? What number are you?
If you have given yourself a lower number, you may feel insecure, and lack self-confidence about the way you communicate with yourself and men.
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Your love quote today
Love is of all passions the strongest, to attack simultaneously the head, heart and all the senses.
Lao Tzu
My best advice. Learn how to become the Best You, to reach your 8 or 9 out of 10, and discover how you communicate to better understand how a man communicates. Then you will become the best date, best girlfriend, partner, and best wife to your Mr Right, your high-quality man when he does arrive in your life.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
Whether you are ready or NOT for a relationship, or you are actively dating, deep down you may have a fear of being hurt again if you have been let down by men too many times. If you no longer want to repeat the same relationship mistakes, you could be making the same mistakes without realising.
If you are a high-achieving woman who values your self-development, you are determined and ready to discover a new proven, tried, and tested approach that works, I am the right expert to take you from where you are now to where you want to be in weeks, noticing different results with men.
I hear so many women say to me, they are too busy for a relationship because it's an easy distraction to avoid our feelings inside. Instead, we focus on work, family, and other priorities and default to a self-protection mode keeping busy.
We tell others consciously (e.g, that we are happy being single) but subconsciously (our deeper fears will keep us stuck for many reasons). The fears you continue to hold deep down will stay with you, as you start dating, or begin a new relationship. Don't let your fears be the cause of another relationship ending, or leaving you heartbroken. As an expert, this is one of the key reasons we sabotage our chances in love you will recognise when I show you.
Or take note. your subconscious, I call your genie, will continue to bring you what you wish for if you believe deep down e.g. a man will hurt you or let you down. Then guess who will keep turning up?!
If you are actively dating - Would you take your driving test without doing the theory first? I know this may seem hard because dating is fun and exciting but it is also heartbreaking when you get it wrong. If you now want different results in love, do the work while you are single and put dating on pause for a few weeks as you learn your theory.
Step 1 - Top Tip
How will you know Mr Right is right for you and is capable of building a thriving relationship with you?
It is critical to get your dating decision right. Without any understanding of your postcode and address, you will keep driving down the wrong roads, get lost, attract similar men you want to avoid, or your relationships will not work out. To decide what is important to you about the man you want to date and share your life with, if you are ready to settle down, get clear about your correct address and postcode.
To accelerate your dating and relationship happiness, discover your postcode and address. You will also need to understand in Step 2, how to recognise if a man can communicate to satisfy your deeper emotional needs.
Love quote today - Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty, through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Ann Landers.
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With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
Finding love isn’t always easy if you are a woman in your late 30’s, 40’s or 50’s+ and you find yourself single or divorced a while and you want to avoid more heartache. But get this. You still have an amazing gift – your FREEDOM TO CHOOSE.
If you have never married before, would love to settle down, or you have been divorced a while with children and co-parenting with an ex. partner and you are considering dating. You may find it hard living alone, coping through the ups and downs of life, supporting yourself financially, emotionally and mentally. The right life skills would give you the emotional scaffolding to feel stronger inside and also help you to better support your children as you lead them by a new healthy communication example.
There are many times you may feel vulnerable living as a single woman or parent. These such times you would love to be loved and cherished. It is also often too easy to reach out to someone new if you are feeling needy of being loved. Be warned, you are also likely to get hurt again.
Today I want to motivate you with a new choice to find someone extraordinary if you are prepared to help yourself and do what it takes to change your life into a much happier, more loving and fulfilling future you truly deserve.
There are a lot of amazing men out there, but first you need to take responsibility for your 50% of the relationship you want in your life, particularly if you have been heartbroken too many times. What do I mean? It is far to easy to pass blame to a partner if he didn't meet your needs. It is also your responsibility to consider what part did you play in your previous relationships break down for it to end. Did you take responsibility for your emotions instead of telling a partner they upset you?
There are many reasons relationships end, you may have been left the victim, but also you may be sabotaging your relationship(s) without realising it. Your subconscious could be protecting you from being hurt again. e.g. you may push someone away from you because they are getting too close emotionally for the fear of being hurt again.
When you begin to listen much more loudly to the words you use, how you communicate and talk to yourself inside your head, what you say and how you speak to your colleagues at work, your friends and family. Do you talk positively about yourself, or put yourself down? This is a good indicator of your self-esteem and self-confidence. Or maybe, you continue to tell yourself you keep meeting the same type of men, or you cannot trust anyone because you were hurt previously. How you talk to yourself right now will determine the type of man you attract to you.
Imagine you are speaking to a magical genie. You hear yourself saying - men let you down, you are fearful of being hurt again. The words you say to yourself, your genie will continue to deliver what you ask for! Its called the law of attraction or your self-fulling prophecy a subject I could talk to you about for hours.
To start your new journey, it's important to become aware of your language, negative and positive, to change your self-awareness and language into what you DO WANT, instead of what you don't want.
To do this takes practice, on a daily basis to create new neuropathways your brain begins to refer to instead of your old way of thinking where you are right now. When you become aware of the way you communicate, think and behave you will more easily transform and change your approach next time.
In your previous relationships, did you communicate your needs clearly, did you use protest behaviour (e.g. become moody, indirectly say you are fine when inside you feel upset, or use tit for tat approach and not speak to each other for hours or days, or did you communicate your deeper emotions and needs clearly)?
Today the best advice I can give you, having walked my talk, is take the time to learn more about yourself NOW and how you tick, think, behave and communicate. If you want to meet someone extraordinary you will instinctively recognise your Mr or Mrs Right when you meet them. This recognition will happen quickly when you’ve taken the time to understand yourself on a much deeper level, spending time loving you, building a relationship with yourself to feel more self-confident, resilient and happier in your own skin and life. Your energy and the frequency you then emit will also change.
There are two scenarios I want you to consider. The first one. How confident do you feel in business based on your personal performance on a scale of zero up to 10? If 10=highest number, what number would you give yourself on this scale? If you are above 8 you are pretty self-assured and are doing a great job. You may be at the top of your game and doing a great job. You know your stuff.
Now scenario two. Now ask yourself. How confident do you feel in yourself at recognising a man, someone new, who can easily communicate, share similar values and interests, also satisfy your deeper needs to be there for you through the ups and downs of life, beyond sexual chemistry? Most people would possibly give a much lower number on the scale of zero up to 10. Would you agree?
If you are learning anything new at work, or you recognise you need to learn a new skill to perform better in your job, to work more efficiently and effectively, you would go on a course to improve your skill set.
As a Life Coach (now specialising as a Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Relationship and Well-being Expert qualified to accelerate your personal happiness and relationship success, learning life-changing skills today will change your relationship perspective, how you approach a new relationship and you will reset your heart, head and life in a new positive happier direction. You would also be better equipped to attract the man you want to attract to you and begin to build a much stronger relationship together because you have the relationship skills to do so.
Today I would like to invite you to improve your relationship skillset, to discover and accelerate your relationship proficiency, discover what's important to you about the relationship you want to share your life with, how to improve your communication skills in your relationship, how you deal with conflict to bring love back into the flow so much more quickly. When you discover your deeper needs, you will more easily support a new partner's deeper needs. It makes sense doesn't it?
Learning these skills you will become the best version of yourself and the best partner you can be to someone new. You will more easily recognise if a man is aligned with you emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually very quickly. You will have the skills to understand a man is naturally wired and capable of giving you what you want emotionally to build a more rewarding, loving and connected relationship that can work and last, that is right or you.
The greatest gift you can give yourself this Christmas is the gift to super-accelerate your next steps towards the man you would love to attract to you. How you feel in your heart and mind right now, will determine the type of man you attract to you. If you want to avoid meeting the same men, to recognise someone extraordinary (they need to be sharing your life and heart) I would like to introduce to you a FREE 14 Day Relationship Coaching Taster (that will only take you 90 minutes to complete) or 10 minutes a day over 9 days. If you then wish to continue through the program I am only charging £97 to accelerate your next steps with life-transforming coaching exercises to set you on a new pathway in 2019.
I am delighted to introduce you an online experience you can discover right now if it is right for you. Are you ready to invest a few hours of your time to recognise and build a more connected relationship, to get clear about what's important to you, to discover why you could be sabotaging yourself without realising it and whether someone is capable of satisfying your deeper needs?
To accelerate your next steps to find the love and partner you truly deserve in 2019, let me help you this Christmas time.