Who you expect to turn up, is your self-fulfilling prophecy

Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?

Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced.  Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s.   Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.

This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.

Imagine your life is a film.  Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy.  Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up.  One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.

Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy.  What do I mean?  What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!

Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you.  For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex.  These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.

Let's take a minute to pause once more.  Here's another example to consider.  When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking).  When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.

Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?

Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!

But be warned.  Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure?  You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.


To get you started, come along to: 

Join my next Free Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respects You.   Remember, you need to know this in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, to avoid wasting more time and your life when you are ready!

Get your Top 3 Dating Tips, Every woman needs to know about herself, if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. Only takes 5 minutes to read.

If You're Still Healing your Heart and Mind

If you are going through a tough time, just separated or getting divorced, or finding it hard to cope emotionally and mentally, you can empower your healing heart and mind with powerful life skills to cope better, and feel emotionally stronger and more resilient. I will sensitively guide you with a friendly helping hand to help you reset your inner compass to take a new direction towards the happiness you deserve.

To refocus, rebalance and recharge your mind and body.  Maximising our time together, I work with clients to get them back on track emotionally, mentally, and energetically.

Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk.  I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising.  Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!

Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time.  What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?

Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years.  It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too.  I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47.  I cried happy tears.  Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!

Today I will share on the next FREE Masterclass Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.  Come along and join it, you can simply listen.

Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory?  No, you wouldn't.  Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.

To uncover your blindspots, here are three of them - The Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

As the second post in my Valentine's Series, let me share with you exactly what you will find when you apply the toolkit my clients use to find and attract a high-quality man who will love, value and respect you:

The impact on your life

If you value your self-development and apply your toolkit, the right high-quality man will NOT want to let you go! You understand his needs because you understand yours!

As explained in my Dating and Relationship Paradox blog, learning your new toolkit skills in advance of dating will accelerate your results when the right man shows up! You are the unicorn he has been waiting to find!

To discover what could be holding you back from attracting the right quality man to you

Or the reasons you are sabotaging your chances to find the man and relationship you have dreamed about.

Uncover the 10% that could be holding you back and the 4-step toolkit approach on my next Free Masterclass Training Webinar

Look out for my next post in the Valentine's Series.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Prince Charming, whom I call a high-quality man, will need to stand out and be extraordinary if he is going to share your life, heart, dreams, family (you want or have) and your future!

To get it right in love, the clients I work with are driven and determined successful women in business but are not getting the results they want in love.

If you would love to settle down with the high-quality man you dream of meeting and sharing your life and success with, have a go at answering the next three questions. They will give you a good indicator of any gaps in your knowledge because what you don't know, you need to know!

1- What does your male energy say about you to men?  

2.  Are you settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers in love?  

3.  How will you know if Mr Right is the right high-quality man right for you?  It's a tongue twister I know.

Well how did you get on, did they make you think?  

Firstly, you need to understand your energy, secondly, you deserve extraordinary, not second best.  Thirdly, you need to get absolutely clear about the man you want in your life.

It will take you 5 minutes to read, to get your answers here. The Top 3 Dating Tips, every woman needs to know.  Or Join the next Free Masterclass Training Webinar to understand the 10% you need to let go of, and the 4 steps you will need to get right if you want to attract your high-quality man.

Love is the most precious gift you can have in your life when it works!  It can be all-consuming. magical, fleeting, lasting, so painful, or the most rewarding shared loving experience you have never experienced or believed to be possible.  I know so!

If you are waiting for love to arrive, have been let down too many times, or have simply given up finding your high-quality man:   

Come along and Join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar - to discover your blindspots, the 10% holding you back from finding the man and relationship you truly deserve!

My best advice (it's the Dating and Relationship paradox).  Do the work to learn and master your 4 step toolkit, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.   

With Loving Wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Christmas isn't the same if you're single or have been divorced a while.  You might feel the odd one out or want to escape the magic of Christmas because you are reminded about what is missing in your heart and life!   
 
Are you missing the one ingredient, the love you truly deserve?  If this resonates, let me give you a special Christmas present today to recognise and attract your high-quality man who will love, value and respect you (without you settling for the scraps or men who treat you like a doormat). 
 
Possibly, if you have children and they are spending this year with your ex.  Or they are growing up fast and prefer seeing their friends, leaving you feeling redundant or lonely.
Imagine for one minute.  Next Christmas you are in love and absolutely recognise the partner you are with, is the quality man you have been waiting for!  This man is so aligned with you mentally, physically, financially and emotionally he is there for you through the ups and downs of life.  You love everything about him, including his imperfections unconditionally!
 
You met this man using your 4-step toolkit to understand he is capable of communicating with you to satisfy your deeper emotional needs (the glue that holds love together). You recognised his communication style and that he was the right man who has the natural wiring to build a healthy thriving relationship with you. Because you invested time learning your dating and relationship toolkit, in advance of dating him, you significantly increased your relationship survival happiness to build a thriving relationship that works.

Don't risk making the same mistakes!  Which gift would you like? Or have them both!
  
What price would you pay if you could meet the man of your dreams?
 
Wishing you a heart-filled Christmas and the love you deserve!
 
With warmest wishes
 
Karen Marshall x
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