Does your Prince Charming show up, or a very different man, you don't want to show up?
Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30s, mid-40s or 50s when everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. Perhaps you're still looking for your Prince Charming, whom you want to settle down with or have a family with if your clock is ticking and you are in your 30s. Or maybe you've experienced the pain of separation or divorce in your 40's or 50's and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again in the future.
This is your most invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different while you are single, in advance of dating, or before you feel ready for another relationship.
Imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called 'Your love story so far' on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, and the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy. Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up. One thing I am certain about if you are exhausted from dating or your relationships are not working out or lasting, think about your thoughts, the man you believe in your head will turn up.
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now are your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean? What you believe about the man you will meet, love, relationships, men, and yourself will keep showing up. The same love story film will continue to repeat itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!
Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you. For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, you don't trust men if they are dating other women, they don't say what they mean, they let you down, all the good men are taken, or they only want you for sex. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, and replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can easily shift your thinking following a unique toolkit that every woman needs to learn if you've had enough pain and want to meet the Prince Charming you truly deserve, the right high-quality man.
Let's take a minute to pause once more. Here's another example to consider. When you access your computer database (your old negative beliefs you repeat in your head), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old database (when you create a new way of thinking). When you overwrite your existing relationship data, overwrite your disempowering beliefs you can replace them with new ones. Your brain then learns to create a very different love story - what you positively believe to be true, and your new self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?
Choose to create your new self-fulling prophecy, If you are driven, determined and committed to transforming your love journey, then your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!
But be warned. Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don't do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure? You will continue to attract the same guys (you believe will turn up) unless you make a new choice today to learn how to overwrite your old database. This step is called the Figure Out Formula, the first step of my F.I.N.D. and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching toolkit approach that works.
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Hello, my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a highly qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, and well-being expert with over 20 years of experience walking my talk. I was where you are healing my heart and life, looking for answers, making the same mistakes most women make without realising. Today, I understand what does and doesn't work on the dating-to-love pathway to find and build a thriving relationship that can survive, because I have achieved the results in love you can too!
Let me help you to avoid wasting your life or time, attracting the wrong relationships, more heartache, and divorce, to get right in love next time. What would that mean to you if you knew you could super-accelerate your dating success and relationship happiness?
Today I share the most loving relationship with the love of my life I have been married to over 8 years and together for 15 years. It''s the reason I am so passionate about helping you too. I know what it feels like to be where you are and 13 years later when I walked onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas when I married my husband Dave at the age of 47. I cried happy tears. Your dream is absolutely possible if you no longer want heartache, and you are ready to invest in your heart and life, your happy ever after!
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Would you take your driving test first without doing the theory? No, you wouldn't. Learning your relationship and dating theory in advance of dating, in advance of being ready for another relationship, then you will significantly improve your relationship survival chances.
To uncover your blindspots, here are three of them - The Top 3 Dating Tips every woman needs to know.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
True love is magical when it works!
It also gets harder if you're a successful woman in your late 30s and the clock is ticking to have a family, particularly if you are still waiting to find your special person, a high-quality man to settle down with.
Or, perhaps you've been divorced for a while, or your children are growing up fast and you are feeling lonely. You're ready to start dating and find a more fulfilling and rewarding relationship with a decent man. Whether you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s or older you will truly understand and value what it means to find a more loving and happier relationship that CAN thrive, especially if you've been hurt or let down too many times. If you are feeling lost what do, it might feel like you're running a long marathon without any finish line in sight because you don't know where your finish line is, especially if you are fearful of being hurt again, but want to get it right next time. Whether you are single or divorced, let me inspire and motivate you today.
To begin any journey starts with your first step. So I have 5 easy questions. below to help you.
Before we start, consider your relationship situation with this example in mind. The London Marathon every year draws in thousands of runners. If you were participating you would recognise the importance of training to prepare your mind and body. You would eat the right foods, start running and set training goals in place. It’s the same approach for the relationship you DO want. Firstly you will need to nourish your mind, and practice new skills if you don't want to keep repeating the same dating or relationship mistakes. You would prepare yourself with the right training to reach your finish line.
To run a marathon you run, to become a singer, you sing. If you want different relationship results, you learn and practice new relationship skills
You have two options You may prefer to sprint into another relationship without any training, or find a more rewarding and lasting relationship that CAN work with the right training. Which one would you choose?
Tip – Before you start dating, or even consider another relationship, now is the perfect time to start your new relationship training, in advance of another relationship.
Becoming aware of the way you think and communicate in love (you may not even be aware of) will accelerate your results to help you Recognise, Attract, Find and Build a more loving and happier relationship that will thrive and survive. You will stand out like a unicorn to the right Mr Right, a high-quality man, you do want to attract who will not want to let you go! You will also gain a valuable toolkit to build a much stronger relationship foundation. Train in advance of dating, or another relationship. Or be warned you will repeat the same mistakes (most women are not aware of making), and attract similar men or relationships, especially if you've been hurt too many times.
To start you off, here are your Free Top 3 Dating Tips (will only take you 5 minutes to read) if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. You will discover the 3 questions every woman needs to know and get right, to attract your high-quality man (instead of settling for second best, the scraps or leftovers) who don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Or I would love to invite you to join me on the next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar to discover the 4 Steps My Clients Apply To Find and Attract a High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.
Let me help you find and build your most loving and rewarding relationship that will thrive and survive!
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
www.LoveCoachingYou.com.
Christmas and Valentines are key dates in your calendar year when you’re reminded about having a special someone in your life. It’s a time you undoubtedly become aware of what’s missing in your life if your single or divorced, when you see everyone around you sharing it with a special someone.
Imagine, if you could find someone new, you are not only attracted to, aligned with, you can effectively communicate with, in a more loving and happier relationship that works beyond 2 years: what value would you put on finding this gift?
Taking only 2 days out of your busy lifestyle, you could receive all the education, insight, proven coaching strategies and techniques (and knowledge that’s tried and tested over 20 years to discover what does work). That’s if you’ve reached an age in your life, you are prepared to achieve different results, with a potential new partner. Or you may be thinking right now, you don’t know how to even get to first base and attract the right man into your life. This programme will certainly help you too.
I am running through this with you now, to give you this most valuable nugget of information first so I don’t waste your time. If this article has already touched or resonated with you, then read on.
How can we help our future generations to build the right relationship
Love is now more disposable as the Y generation shop for it on Tinder, vs the older Baby Boomers in their 40’s/50’s who continue to remain stuck between old and new traditions. As we age and mature, finding true love becomes more competitive with a lower ratio of available men (the hunters) vs women (waiting to be hunted). An older Mr Extraordinary now has any number of older or younger women to choose from.
For you to stand you to the right man, he needs to recognise you’re a high value woman inside and out. It’s now even more important for entrepreneurial career women (waiting to be hunted) to get it right if you’re looking for extraordinary instead of second best, instead of another failed relationship.
Or, if life is whizzing by and you’re now in your 50’s plus and you are still waiting to found the right man you are aligned and compatible with. To make a relationship work you need to take a different approach if what you are doing right now it’s working.
I was the typical career woman waiting for Mr Right to turn up
Already focused on my career. At 28 I ended my 11-year first-love relationship, simply because we didn’t understand each other’s deeper needs. I was also big time naïve and believed another man would make me happier. It’s the mindset we especially follow in our 20s. But life experience has since taught me otherwise. I in fact became a symptom of society, viewing love as more disposable when I expected to meet Mr Right quite quickly and live happy ever. How wrong I was! My life certainly didn’t turn out how I expected it to. Possibly your life hasn’t turned out the way you expected it to either?
The next 13 years of my adult life 28-41, I considered myself an independent single career woman, trying to survive paying the bills and mortgage, surviving emotionally and mentally living alone without the support of the right partner. I continued dating, having short-term relationships that didn’t last beyond 2 years. Life became even more stressful doing everything alone because the 3 key reasons why career women are not finding Mr Right, below, didn’t even cross my mind.
If you find yourself in your 30’s, 40’s, 50’s and over, it can become harder with broken relationships getting in the way of finding your next special relationship if you are ready to settle down. More obstacles are likely to hold you back e.g. the way you think about men, about relationships, about yourself. Mr Right could be standing right in front of you, but the way you think could be stopping you.
As a qualified Relationship Transformation Coach, my vision is to become the voice that will transform the RELATIONSHIP SURVIVAL REVOLUTION to help thousands or millions of single or divorced career women (or men) in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s plus. I want to make a difference towards changing societies approach.
If I can help and educate women how they APPROACH FINDING A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND BUILDING ONE THAT WORKS and LASTS, I have done my job. I work with Executive clients either 1-2-1 who are time poor who want a quick solution or with groups of women. Sharing my knowledge and experience will give an accelerated learning experience, if more women (even men) want to AVOID MAKING THE SAME MISTAKES (they are likely to be unaware of).
The 3 key reasons why career women are not finding Mr Right (rightly or wrongly).
As a corporate career woman, I followed societies lead, leaving love to chance because the fairy tale tells us one day we will meet our Prince Charming and will live happy ever after. Society believes we will meet our special someone, but the chances of finding happy ever is faster declining.
Your next step……
Today, my personal journey has become my passion - to help women (or men who also want to avoid making the same mistakes), and sharing 20 years of my dating experience and relationship education. Now condensed into a 2 Day Masterclass Programme. If I can engage more women with my motivational and engaging talks, I dream of changing more lives. With my qualifications and experience of 5 different therapy interventions of the Mind-Body-Energy connection, my health and well-being experience also supports clients through their journey. What makes me unique, I truly understand how to transform lives much faster than clients can achieve alone.
Why not come along and register to attend a FREE Webinars or a Coaching Taster Events in January/February 2017 to experience some coaching exercises and how the 2 Day programme can help you. My promise is to transform your approach to FIND, BUILD and NURTURE the most rewarding relationship in your life into the future you dream of finding right now.
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My Story
I thought I would have my own family, be happily married by my mid 30’s, which in fact turned into a decade of disappointment in love, dating the wrong guys, and relationships that didn’t last beyond 2 years. During this 10-year period, when I was 33, I decided enough was enough and I took control of my own destiny and future.
One significant relationship that broke me was the catalyst for me to transform my own life. Over 6 years I immersed myself in studying, learning, re-educating myself to BECOME THE BEST PARTNER I COULD BECOME! I walked my talk, applied what I learned in my life and noticed different results with men. I was determined Mr Right would not want to let me go when I found him!
Walking onto a beautiful golden beach in the Bahamas, on February 14th 2014 my life changed in an unbelievable way. It was Valentines Day and my dream had finally came true when I married for the first time in my life. I was 47. It was the most magical day of my life because I had worked so hard to become the best partner I could become for Dave, who is my Mr Extraordinary and has changed my life in an unimaginable way. I am the original career woman Baby Boomer (without my own children) now married to a divorcee with his own family I am very blessed to share and be part of already over 8 ½ years. My life has significantly changed because I took control to FIND, RECOGNISE, BUILD AND NURTURE a more loving and happier relationship I wanted.
Something needs to change if relationships are going to survive. Is Christmas or Valentines your reminder to do something different if you don’t want to keep making the same mistakes?
*The Daily Mail 6th Dec 2016 reported from the Office of National Statistics that Marriage and Divorce as it is lowest since 1970’s. Relationships are no longer surviving now we are living together longer and weaker relationships continue to end.
Finding love isn’t always easy if you are a woman in your late 30’s, 40’s or 50’s+ and you find yourself single or divorced a while and you want to avoid more heartache. But get this. You still have an amazing gift – your FREEDOM TO CHOOSE.
If you have never married before, would love to settle down, or you have been divorced a while with children and co-parenting with an ex. partner and you are considering dating. You may find it hard living alone, coping through the ups and downs of life, supporting yourself financially, emotionally and mentally. The right life skills would give you the emotional scaffolding to feel stronger inside and also help you to better support your children as you lead them by a new healthy communication example.
There are many times you may feel vulnerable living as a single woman or parent. These such times you would love to be loved and cherished. It is also often too easy to reach out to someone new if you are feeling needy of being loved. Be warned, you are also likely to get hurt again.
Today I want to motivate you with a new choice to find someone extraordinary if you are prepared to help yourself and do what it takes to change your life into a much happier, more loving and fulfilling future you truly deserve.
There are a lot of amazing men out there, but first you need to take responsibility for your 50% of the relationship you want in your life, particularly if you have been heartbroken too many times. What do I mean? It is far to easy to pass blame to a partner if he didn't meet your needs. It is also your responsibility to consider what part did you play in your previous relationships break down for it to end. Did you take responsibility for your emotions instead of telling a partner they upset you?
There are many reasons relationships end, you may have been left the victim, but also you may be sabotaging your relationship(s) without realising it. Your subconscious could be protecting you from being hurt again. e.g. you may push someone away from you because they are getting too close emotionally for the fear of being hurt again.
When you begin to listen much more loudly to the words you use, how you communicate and talk to yourself inside your head, what you say and how you speak to your colleagues at work, your friends and family. Do you talk positively about yourself, or put yourself down? This is a good indicator of your self-esteem and self-confidence. Or maybe, you continue to tell yourself you keep meeting the same type of men, or you cannot trust anyone because you were hurt previously. How you talk to yourself right now will determine the type of man you attract to you.
Imagine you are speaking to a magical genie. You hear yourself saying - men let you down, you are fearful of being hurt again. The words you say to yourself, your genie will continue to deliver what you ask for! Its called the law of attraction or your self-fulling prophecy a subject I could talk to you about for hours.
To start your new journey, it's important to become aware of your language, negative and positive, to change your self-awareness and language into what you DO WANT, instead of what you don't want.
To do this takes practice, on a daily basis to create new neuropathways your brain begins to refer to instead of your old way of thinking where you are right now. When you become aware of the way you communicate, think and behave you will more easily transform and change your approach next time.
In your previous relationships, did you communicate your needs clearly, did you use protest behaviour (e.g. become moody, indirectly say you are fine when inside you feel upset, or use tit for tat approach and not speak to each other for hours or days, or did you communicate your deeper emotions and needs clearly)?
Today the best advice I can give you, having walked my talk, is take the time to learn more about yourself NOW and how you tick, think, behave and communicate. If you want to meet someone extraordinary you will instinctively recognise your Mr or Mrs Right when you meet them. This recognition will happen quickly when you’ve taken the time to understand yourself on a much deeper level, spending time loving you, building a relationship with yourself to feel more self-confident, resilient and happier in your own skin and life. Your energy and the frequency you then emit will also change.
There are two scenarios I want you to consider. The first one. How confident do you feel in business based on your personal performance on a scale of zero up to 10? If 10=highest number, what number would you give yourself on this scale? If you are above 8 you are pretty self-assured and are doing a great job. You may be at the top of your game and doing a great job. You know your stuff.
Now scenario two. Now ask yourself. How confident do you feel in yourself at recognising a man, someone new, who can easily communicate, share similar values and interests, also satisfy your deeper needs to be there for you through the ups and downs of life, beyond sexual chemistry? Most people would possibly give a much lower number on the scale of zero up to 10. Would you agree?
If you are learning anything new at work, or you recognise you need to learn a new skill to perform better in your job, to work more efficiently and effectively, you would go on a course to improve your skill set.
As a Life Coach (now specialising as a Relationship Success and Recovery Coach, Relationship and Well-being Expert qualified to accelerate your personal happiness and relationship success, learning life-changing skills today will change your relationship perspective, how you approach a new relationship and you will reset your heart, head and life in a new positive happier direction. You would also be better equipped to attract the man you want to attract to you and begin to build a much stronger relationship together because you have the relationship skills to do so.
Today I would like to invite you to improve your relationship skillset, to discover and accelerate your relationship proficiency, discover what's important to you about the relationship you want to share your life with, how to improve your communication skills in your relationship, how you deal with conflict to bring love back into the flow so much more quickly. When you discover your deeper needs, you will more easily support a new partner's deeper needs. It makes sense doesn't it?
Learning these skills you will become the best version of yourself and the best partner you can be to someone new. You will more easily recognise if a man is aligned with you emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually very quickly. You will have the skills to understand a man is naturally wired and capable of giving you what you want emotionally to build a more rewarding, loving and connected relationship that can work and last, that is right or you.
The greatest gift you can give yourself this Christmas is the gift to super-accelerate your next steps towards the man you would love to attract to you. How you feel in your heart and mind right now, will determine the type of man you attract to you. If you want to avoid meeting the same men, to recognise someone extraordinary (they need to be sharing your life and heart) I would like to introduce to you a FREE 14 Day Relationship Coaching Taster (that will only take you 90 minutes to complete) or 10 minutes a day over 9 days. If you then wish to continue through the program I am only charging £97 to accelerate your next steps with life-transforming coaching exercises to set you on a new pathway in 2019.
I am delighted to introduce you an online experience you can discover right now if it is right for you. Are you ready to invest a few hours of your time to recognise and build a more connected relationship, to get clear about what's important to you, to discover why you could be sabotaging yourself without realising it and whether someone is capable of satisfying your deeper needs?
To accelerate your next steps to find the love and partner you truly deserve in 2019, let me help you this Christmas time.