If you are a driven, and determined successful woman and value your self-development, regardless of where you are on your dating or early relationship journey, understanding the dating paradox will accelerate your dating success. And determine your relationship's happiness!
I hear most women say this to me. “I am not ready to start dating yet, so I don’t need any help.” It is absolutely your paradox.
During this chapter of your life, when you don’t feel ready, it’s the perfect time to do the work, to be ready.
Why? Have you heard the dilemma question; which comes first, the chicken or the egg? Whether you want to get your dating decision right or build a more loving and healthy relationship that works. What comes first? New relationship skills, or dating skills?
Yes, it is key to work on new relationship communication skills IN ADVANCE of dating. In advance, of being ready for another relationship. So I would highly recommend if you are a woman who values your self-growth and development, learning a new toolkit while you are single, then you will get very different dating results with the quality men you attract to you and the skills to build a healthy thriving relationship that works and can survive.
If you are dating. And your previous relationship history has left you feeling fearful deep down of getting hurt again. Be warned. You are 98% likely to repeat the same patterns and mistakes in another relationship (without realising it) unless you shift your dating approach. Applying a new toolkit anyone can learn especially if you love learning about yourself will accelerate finding and building the loving relationship every woman deserves.
You will reset your inner compass to discern if a man is compatible with you on a much deeper emotional level before you meet him.
It's easy to discern from out the outside how a man makes you feel, but what counts is on the inside, the way he communicates, values, respects and shows you love. You will also become the better partner for him and more easily navigate your challenges together, without him realising it's you.
Early stages of dating we are testing each other's boundaries, it's normal, but when little niggles become much bigger, how we deal with conflict will make or break any relationship. Bringing love back into flow quickly is an art to building a thriving loving relationship, it's also the glue that holds love together.
Discovering your communication style is the first critical set to recognise the right high-quality man, in advance of meeting him. Recognising how you communicate, will help you to easily understand his communication style, and to know that he is wired and compatible to satisfy your deeper emotional needs beyond chemistry, sexual attraction, shared interests and values. Then you will significantly increase your dating and relationship survival chances! Understanding your personal communication style is your first step.
You now have 2 choices:
Go to 1 below if you are NOT dating, happily single, or remotely interested in another relationship right now. But want the skills in advance of being ready.
Or go to 2, if you are dating.
Now let me explain the perfect chicken and egg dating paradox example. Perhaps this statement resonates with you, particularly if you are NOT ready for another relationship or want to date right now.
E.g., I don’t want another relationship, I only want to focus on myself, my business, and my children (if you do have a family). I am not interested in dating or need any help right now. I just want to focus on myself.
Now think about this question. Would it be more beneficial to become aware of your likely relationship or dating obstacles, before, or after, you feel ready for another relationship? This is the most precious piece of advice you need to know while you are healing your heart and life- do the work, your theory, while you are single! Or waste more valuable time, meeting the wrong men when you are ready.
It took me 20 years to figure out how to attract the right high-quality man, so you don't have to waste any more time making the same mistake women make without realising.
Jo, one client I worked with, dated narcissistic men for 7 years before she took my new toolkit approach.
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2. If you are ACTIVELY DATING. The majority of women wait to be chosen (hunted) by a man. If you are endlessly chasing dates, feeling lost and want to know how to attract the right high-quality man, learning the skills now to become the chooser in love, join me on the next Masterclass Training Webinar, to discover the 4 steps you need to know to get your most critical dating decision right.
If you no longer want second best (or the scraps and men who treat you like a doormat) and want to meet the right high-quality man, who will love, value and respect you! Let's get you started:
Option 1 - Re-ignite your self-confidence. get the Top 3 Dating Tips right in advance of dating Click here for your download.
Option 2 - Join The Next FREE Masterclass Training Webinar
To uncover your 10% you need to let go of to attract the right high-quality man. And get the 4 steps you will need to know about your toolkit. Click here. to register your spot.
What step will you take, option 1 or 2?
I would love to fill millions of hearts and lives with the love every woman truly deserves! Let yours be one of them!
Karen x
LoveCoachingYou.com
If you are a high-achieving woman or supermum and looking for relationship or dating answers to super-accelerate your results with men.
Would you take your driving test without your theory? To take a new approach to love, it's important to understand if you are sabotaging your chances with men.
Who you choose to date is the most critical decision you will make. Especially if you are unmarried, want to settle down, have a family, or share your life with a decent man who will love and cherish you the way you deserve to be treated.
Or you may be divorced and want to get your next relationship decision right (now, in the future, or when you do feel ready to get back out there).
If you don’t make time to learn your theory in advance of dating, in advance of another relationship, the steps to recognise that Mr Right is right for you and capable of communicating with you to support you emotionally through the ups and downs of life. If you don't get this right, you are highly likely going to repeat the same mistakes or fall into another relationship that is wrong for you (without realising it).
When you do recognise how a man communicates with you from the time you start speaking, you will recognise his style over your first 3-5 dates. If you have learned your theory, you will instinctively recognise the right man's style to know he can support your deeper emotional needs.
It's equally important you get clear about your postcode and address I have already covered in Step 1.
The secret is to prepare yourself in advance for dating, while you are single. Then when the time is right to start dating, you will get your most critical dating decision right.
Stop wasting your time and life with the wrong men, learn your theory first.
History will repeat itself if you continue to get the same results in love.
If you are ready to recognise, attract and build your most loving high quality relationship that will thrive and survive, how well do you communicate with yourself positively or negatively? If you don't understand how you communicate with yourself, how can you expect a man to understand you?
Top Tip - Learn about your communication style, and it will be easier to recognise Mr Right, your high-quality man's communication style is right for you.
For greater clarity. How well do you communicate with men you date or fall in love with on a scale of zero (=lowest) up to 10 (10=you are really self-aware of the way you communicate)? What number are you?
If you have given yourself a lower number, you may feel insecure, and lack self-confidence about the way you communicate with yourself and men.
If you value your self-development, are committed to transforming your heart and life, and want to get it right in love:
Or sign up for the Top 3 Dating Tips if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit.
Your love quote today
Love is of all passions the strongest, to attack simultaneously the head, heart and all the senses.
Lao Tzu
My best advice. Learn how to become the Best You, to reach your 8 or 9 out of 10, and discover how you communicate to better understand how a man communicates. Then you will become the best date, best girlfriend, partner, and best wife to your Mr Right, your high-quality man when he does arrive in your life.
With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x
Whether you are ready or NOT for a relationship, or you are actively dating, deep down you may have a fear of being hurt again if you have been let down by men too many times. If you no longer want to repeat the same relationship mistakes, you could be making the same mistakes without realising.
If you are a high-achieving woman who values your self-development, you are determined and ready to discover a new proven, tried, and tested approach that works, I am the right expert to take you from where you are now to where you want to be in weeks, noticing different results with men.
I hear so many women say to me, they are too busy for a relationship because it's an easy distraction to avoid our feelings inside. Instead, we focus on work, family, and other priorities and default to a self-protection mode keeping busy.
We tell others consciously (e.g, that we are happy being single) but subconsciously (our deeper fears will keep us stuck for many reasons). The fears you continue to hold deep down will stay with you, as you start dating, or begin a new relationship. Don't let your fears be the cause of another relationship ending, or leaving you heartbroken. As an expert, this is one of the key reasons we sabotage our chances in love you will recognise when I show you.
Or take note. your subconscious, I call your genie, will continue to bring you what you wish for if you believe deep down e.g. a man will hurt you or let you down. Then guess who will keep turning up?!
If you are actively dating - Would you take your driving test without doing the theory first? I know this may seem hard because dating is fun and exciting but it is also heartbreaking when you get it wrong. If you now want different results in love, do the work while you are single and put dating on pause for a few weeks as you learn your theory.
Step 1 - Top Tip
How will you know Mr Right is right for you and is capable of building a thriving relationship with you?
It is critical to get your dating decision right. Without any understanding of your postcode and address, you will keep driving down the wrong roads, get lost, attract similar men you want to avoid, or your relationships will not work out. To decide what is important to you about the man you want to date and share your life with, if you are ready to settle down, get clear about your correct address and postcode.
To accelerate your dating and relationship happiness, discover your postcode and address. You will also need to understand in Step 2, how to recognise if a man can communicate to satisfy your deeper emotional needs.
Love quote today - Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty, through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Ann Landers.
Also get:
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With loving wishes
Karen Marshall x