If you want to get absolutely clear about what you need to know to understand how YOU communicate in business and your romantic relationship(s), you will super-accelerate your dating chances with Mr Right, a high-quality man you do want to get it right with.

How you communicate in business is very different to your relationship communication.  Most successful women wonder what the problem is, when they are so successful at their role or job, but cannot get it right with men.  Working with my clients I help them learn these differences, sharing 20 years of insights, so you stop wasting any more time getting it wrong.

Learning this knowledge is priceless because what it will give you, are the skills to easily navigate the communication challenges you will face dating and falling in love.  To build a thriving healthy relationship, this is invaluable knowledge.  You can learn leadership profiling skills in business, but when you translate this into love, it has a very different meaning, understanding three very different communication styles.

The type of man you would love to attract may be successful in business, good looking and very charming. However, if you have not had a hug, sex, shared intimacy, or had a relationship in a while, the chances are you will go down the wrong road, and jump into the first bus (any relationship) that comes your way.  Feeling needy of love, without any understanding of your correct postcode (Step 1), how a man communicates with you on a date (step 2), the reasons your genie could sabotage your dating chances (step 3).  Without this priceless insight, you have a small window of opportunity to get it right next time. 

Sex and dating may be great at first, but love will fade very quickly if you don't get the fundamentals right if men treat you like a doormat, ghost you, are unreliable or don't commit.  Unfortunately, only pain will guide you to avoid more of it so if you have had enough heartache in love, it's time to learn your toolkit. 

If the love you dream of finding is priceless to you, as it was to me, let me fast-track your results in love, to transform your heart and life!  Here is reminder of each step.

Step 1

Step 2

Step 3

Every woman needs to know The Top 3 Dating Tips in advance of dating, if men are ghosting you, are unreliable, or don't commit. Or come along and join me on the next Free Webinar, The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

Your love quote today:

Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence. Vincent Van Gogh

Loving Wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Divorce Recovery For Women

It is the biggest adjustment you will go through, learning to live alone again, learning about yourself and living independently, as you look after your children (if you have a family).  It's a massive life-transforming learning curve while you are coping with your emotions, and negative thoughts while finding your way forward. 

Divorce recovery can be a slow healing process especially if you had a toxic relationship leaving your self-confidence at rock bottom.  Whether you are at the beginning or a few years into your divorce recovery, the way you feel about yourself, men, and your relationships will take you down two roads. Either a continued negative spiral I wouldn't want anyone to endure, or the catalyst to positively transform your happiness and mindset that will lead to the new future you truly deserve.

Here at Love Coaching You, we understand that there’s the loneliness, the feeling of not being whole; after all the disillusionment, pain and heartache in your marriage.

There is also the fear of being single. How will I cope? It’s scary to start over by yourself after depending on your marriage. You may have merged your identity so closely with your spouse’s – defining yourself as half of a couple, not as an individual – that you can’t imagine continuing on your own. 

Perhaps you don’t know if you’re strong enough to take care of yourself without a spouse’s help. Or you’re ashamed of singlehood in a society defined by relationships. But don’t worry, single or divorced for a while, you will start to feel YOU again. 

Take your time and effort for your part, as it can be challenging to reinvent yourself as a single person, but through patience and positive thinking, you can and will do it, if you are ready to learn about yourself - to experience a new way of living, feeling, behaving mentally and emotionally.  

If you no longer want pain, the heartache and you are ready to shift your happiness.  If you want your own business for greater financial freedom, invest in property for your security, or progress your career to regain control of your heart and life, and support your family, we are the right experts at LoveCoachingYou to give you the priceless toolkit you will need. 

By learning new skills you will become:

• The Best You, to positively shift the way you feel and think about yourself.
• You will learn to love yourself, redefine and rediscover the Best You.
• Your new approach will personally impact every area of your life with a new ripple effect.
• You will reset your inner happiness, and relationship compass towards the future you can have, and want if you are hungry for personal enlightenment to take you from where you are now, to where you want to be much so more quickly than you could alone. 
• It's so wonderful to know you will lead your children (if you have a family or want one) by a new example. 
• You will be stronger, and better-equipped co-parent with your ex.  

Hello my name is Karen Marshall, I am a relationship and love expert, high-qualified well-being expert, coach, mentor, trainer and consultant. I understand what works and doesn't because I too hit rock bottom to personally experience becoming the Best Me and what it takes to do this.  I know what works to overcome adversity, and trauma to rebuild myself mentally and emotionally.

Transforming the way I feel, think and behave was a life-changing gift I learned to master, because I no longer wanted any more heartache or pain.  I then made the decision to become an expert in love, to learn the skills to become the chooser in love to personally find a healthy, loving, thriving relationship.  Today, I have been with my husband, the love of my life, for over 14 years, in the most rewarding and loving relationship I never believed would be possible.  I want this for you too!

If you are ready to fill your heart and life with the gift and toolkit available to every woman (with drive and determination) you will become the captain of your boat and life.  When you work with me the expert who has achieved the results you want.  I have walked my talk, from rock bottom to living the life I love is what makes me unique and the right relationship and love expert to help you achieve the results you want.  If you are serious about shifting how you feel, your heart and your life contact LoveCoachingYou.com

Now is the time, whether you are divorced or single, to learn the toolkit, the first step to shifting your mental and emotional happiness, that will in turn positively impact your approach in business, love and with men.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

 

 

 

The Catalyst For Change

It can be depressing and stressful at first being apart from your spouse, but there could be many reasons why you got divorced in the first place.  It is also a catalyst for change to start a new life. To rebuild a new relationship with YOU again and learn to adopt a more positive attitude towards your new life, and the time to focus on healing your heart and mind.  And a new career or business opportunity while you are supporting your children emotionally (if you have a family).

If you are still feeling rejected, or you are hurting from the emotional challenges you are facing. Here at Love Coaching You, we understand that there’s the loneliness, the feeling of not being supported without somebody to help you right now.  With over 50% of first marriages ending in divorce (ONS) the average age for men is 45 and for women, it's 42. Love Coaching You will help you to take a new approach while you are healing your heart and life. 

What could be more painful than the loss, or the fear of being single. How will I cope? you wonder. 

Perhaps you don’t know if you’re strong enough to take care of yourself without a spouse’s help.   You are now being challenged mentally, emotionally and financially without their support.

Taking time out to love and nurture yourself, your hurt and pain are important to help your recovery.  To be patient with yourself during this period in your life you can reinvent yourself as a single person, living happily single. With patience and positive thinking, and the right support. it is possible to learn to love yourself and your new life once more!

If you would value some professional empowering support, whether you are emotionally stuck, or you want to be empowered.  In my experience, since when doesn't counselling or therapy give you the solution toolkit? For the women I work with, there is nothing wrong with them. They simply need a new relationship toolkit.  Women who value their self-development, come along to my masterclass training sessions.  

It's for driven and determined women, serious about healing their hearts, and happiness to get the results in love, learning new skills in advance of dating, or in advance of being ready for another relationship.   

Hello, my name is Karen Marshall, I am a qualified relationship and love expert, well-being expert, coach, mentor and trainer with over 20 years of experience.  I understand what works and doesn't to prepare driven women with their toolkits.  If you are happily single and ready to prepare yourself with life-changing skills impacting every area of your life.  Learning to become the Best You Toolkit will prepare you with the skills to attract, recognise and build the most loving and rewarding relationship.  it's the perfect time to learn while you are happily single.

Would you take a driving test without your theory?  No you wouldn't if you wanted to pass. It's the same thing in love.  For greater success in love, learn the easy theory first, your toolkit, and you will become the best you and best partner in advance of dating, in advance of building a new relationship when you will face new tests. 

Do the work while you are happily single, and you will significantly improve your dating and relationship survival chances.  It works!

To understand what it takes, join my next webinar,

The 4 Steps My Clients Use to Attract a High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect you.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall

LoveCoachingYou.com

The type of man you would love to attract may be successful in business, good-looking and very charming. However, if you have not had a hug, sex or a relationship in a while, the chances are you will jump onto the first bus (any relationship) that comes your way.

Without the understanding of:

• Your postcode and address
• The reasons for sabotaging your dating chances
• How to recognise Mr Right's communication style in love

You have a small window of opportunity to get your dating choice right, especially if you have been hurt too many times before on your dating to love pathway.

To help more women like you fill your heart and life with your missing ingredient, the man you truly deserve to share your life with.

How we communicate in business is very different to the way we communicate in love. You will either be distant, steady or needy. As you learn about your style in love, you will easily recognise the right man who will be there by your side through the ups and downs of life. Men who are distant will feel uncomfortable with emotions, especially if you are deep down feeling needy wanting a man's love and attention. They may say all the right things, but when it matters the most, they will run the other way, to avoid emotional intimacy where possible, or they will tell you to stop nagging or end a conversation leaving you resentful because you don't feel heard or listened to. They will be unable to cope with your emotions leaving you feeling lonely inside. You feel disconnected from the man you thought was the one!

To recognise and attract the right man to you, get clear about his style in love.

Your first step to learn in advance is what is stopping you or sabotaging your chances if men continue to ghost you, are unreliable or don't commit. Coming up, you click this link to join the next Free Masterclass Webinar - The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

Your love quote today

Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence. Vincent Van Gogh

Hi my name is Karen Marshall from LoveCoachingYou, a high-qualified and accredited relationship and dating expert, coach, wellbeing expert, mentor and trainer. I specialise in helping women successful in business ready to learn their priceless toolkit in advance of dating, in advance of another relationship to get it right in love next time.

I have felt the loneliness, and the heartache to know what it feels like wondering if my life and luck were going to change with men. It was the time in my life, I decided I didn't want any more pain when my Prince Charming left me heartbroken and broken. It’s what makes me unique because I have walked my talk and today I now share the most loving relationship of my life because I achieved the results you want. I understand what works on the dating-to-love pathway and how to recognise, attract and build the most loving high-quality relationship that continues to thrive with the love of my life, Dave. I want this for you too, to find the love of your life!

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Over the next few blogs, I will be sharing a few invaluable relationship insights and secrets every woman needs to know to attract your Mr Right (a high-quality man):

Whether you are ready or NOT for a relationship, or you are actively dating, deep down you may have a fear of being hurt again if you have been let down by men too many times. If you no longer want to repeat the same relationship mistakes, you could be making the same mistakes without realising.

If you are a high-achieving woman who values your self-development, you are determined and ready to discover a new proven, tried, and tested approach that works, I am the right expert to take you from where you are now to where you want to be in weeks, noticing different results with men.

I hear so many women say to me, they are too busy for a relationship because it's an easy distraction to avoid our feelings inside. Instead, we focus on work, family, and other priorities and default to a self-protection mode keeping busy.

We tell others consciously (e.g, that we are happy being single) but subconsciously (our deeper fears will keep us stuck for many reasons). The fears you continue to hold deep down will stay with you, as you start dating, or begin a new relationship. Don't let your fears be the cause of another relationship ending, or leaving you heartbroken. As an expert, this is one of the key reasons we sabotage our chances in love you will recognise when I show you.

Or take note. your subconscious, I call your genie, will continue to bring you what you wish for if you believe deep down e.g. a man will hurt you or let you down. Then guess who will keep turning up?!

If you are actively dating - Would you take your driving test without doing the theory first? I know this may seem hard because dating is fun and exciting but it is also heartbreaking when you get it wrong. If you now want different results in love, do the work while you are single and put dating on pause for a few weeks as you learn your theory.  

Step 1 - Top Tip

How will you know Mr Right is right for you and is capable of building a thriving relationship with you?

It is critical to get your dating decision right. Without any understanding of your postcode and address, you will keep driving down the wrong roads, get lost, attract similar men you want to avoid, or your relationships will not work out. To decide what is important to you about the man you want to date and share your life with, if you are ready to settle down, get clear about your correct address and postcode. 

To accelerate your dating and relationship happiness, discover your postcode and address. You will also need to understand in Step 2, how to recognise if a man can communicate to satisfy your deeper emotional needs.

Love quote today - Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty, through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Ann Landers.

Also get:

Your Top 3 Dating Tips Free Download - If men are ghosting you, unreliable, or don't commit

Or join the next free Webinar - The 4 Steps My Clients Use To Attract A High-Quality Man Who Will Love, Value and Respect You.

With loving wishes

Karen Marshall x

LoveCoachingYou.com

Men, to find the right woman, work with a woman!

If you are a task-focused accomplished businessman, a proud man, you may be very intelligent and socially skilled too. When it comes to your personal life, women and love, you may not be having much luck if you are divorced or single. 

If you are more confused than ever about women

And you want to avoid making the same relationship mistakes. As a Relationship Expert and a woman who understands women, I accelerate results with men before you start seriously dating to recognise your (hot crazy matrix unicorn - video below) to find the right woman beyond looks and chemistry. The skills I share with men who want to attract the right woman, also apply to you if you want to strengthen your relationship with your girlfriend or wife if you are having problems not understanding each other. Even if you are recently engaged or married, this blog could be your greatest gift to understand what it takes to keep hold of your happy ever after!

Historically, men are the natural hunters and women want to be hunted. As a man, you also need the right toolkit before you are ready to go hunting to attract the right woman now or in the near future. The same toolkit will accelerate your results to build a much stronger connection with the special woman in your life for your relationship to thrive (if this is you right now).

If your business and job take up a lot of your time

You might be purposely keeping yourself busy without realising it. Filling your diary is a great way to avoid finding a new partner or avoid being with your partner at home. Sports is also a great distraction if you enjoy keeping fit, running, cycling, triathlons. Subconsciously you are also likely to be protecting yourself from another painful or threatening experience your brain is programmed to help you avoid - another woman. My advice to every man, learn about women from a woman. Or end your relationship and the same problems will show up again in another future relationship.

Imagine for one minute if you applied a new toolkit approach

You will attract your unicorn (see video below), or rebuild the one you have. Get this right, you will change the course of your future and sex life. If you have heard the saying, "A happy wife is a happy life" it is true with any woman. If you understand how to find and build a strong relationship the right woman will jump out to you (or you will recognise what you have is already with your existing partner). Think about it?

Have you ever considered what type of woman you do want to attract? Do you really know who your Mrs Right is (beyond sex and chemistry)? Or what was it about your partner that attracted you to them? If you don't know this answer. It is similar to getting into a car without a sat nav or map. You will be unsure of your destination and possibly take the longest route and continue to get lost. Or get clear about your address and you will go straight there. Which journey would you prefer?

 Your Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

Love is exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If, however, you are a man in your late 30’s, mid-40s or 50’s everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. 

Now for one moment imagine your life is a film.  Let me put your film called ‘Your relationship story so far’ on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks we grew up reading or watching on TV, they all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that you are Prince Charming and one day you will sweep the woman you love off her feet.  You will want to look after her and make sure she is happy. 

Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now may not be close to any fairy tale.  It is however called your self-fulfilling prophecy.  What do I mean self-fulfilling prophecy?  What you believe to be true about love, relationships, women, yourself, will keep showing up for you. The relationship experience you have will keep repeating itself unless you edit and overwrite your database with new files that work.

Here are just a few old data files you may like to overwrite.  For example. You believe a woman will hurt you, let you down, all the best women are taken, women will walk all over you, or you cannot bat above your station.  These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, replaying or repeating.

Here’s a new example to consider.  When you learn how to access your disempowering files you can easily overwrite them with new data that works with your new self-fulfilling prophecy.  Are you ready to overwrite your old files to find, recognise and attract your unicorn? Do you also want to know how to build a relationship that can thrive together?

To help you reset your relationship compass in a completely new direction that will prepare you in advance of meeting Mrs Right and unicorn. It only takes 1 or 3 months if you value your personal growth.

Instead of filling your time and life keeping busy or to avoid being alone or feeling lonely.  Unless you get clear about your new postcode, you are 98% likely to repeat the same mistakes in a new future relationship.

Where are you right now?  Here's a couple of questions to get you thinking:

1. On a scale of zero up to 10 (10= your life is the way you want it to be), how happy are you? What number would you give yourself? 
2. On the same scale of zero up to 10 (=you know how to attract the right woman to you beyond sex and chemistry)  What number are you?. 
3. On the same scale if (10=you absolutely understand women and their deeper needs) what number are you?

If you are ready to improve your life with women, you don't want therapy or counselling book your free 20-30 minute call today and let’s have a chat if you are time poor!

About Karen Marshall

Today a qualified and experienced Relationship Expert. Coach and Wellbeing Expert in the mind, body and energy and the steps to accelerate your relationship results!

To live your best life ever, I will help you to find and attract your unicorn relationship you will understand when you watch the Hot Crazy Matrix from YouTube featuring Dana Mclendon (this version is without the advert). Men love this!

If you don’t get this part of your life handled, how will it impact your future?

Let’s have a chat if you would like to book your free 20-30 minute Discovery Call today

Or discover what women want when you complete this online programme.  The same principles apply for women and men.

If you want to find out how to accelerate your next steps and avoid wasting any more of your life attracting the wrong women.

Wishing you much happiness and the love you truly deserve!

Karen Marshall

LoveCoachingYou.com

07590 221951

If the average age of divorce for men is 45 and it's 42 for women in the UK* should we continue to accept the status quo?

Future proof your relationship survival

In society today we only hear about two relationship extremes. A lovely wedding. It will now cost you an average of £27K - for just one day.** Should couples also include in their wedding costs, an empowering 2 days to future proof their relationship survival? What would be more valuable?

You will never consider the thought of divorce when you meet someone new you have amazing chemistry with, or when you first get married because you feel so in love. If you want a thriving relationship that will last, the most important reason why you should invest in your relationship happiness at the early stages of love is to future proof your relationship success. Taking this first easy step will especially help you to deal with conflict to more easily bring love back into flow very quickly. Also, strengthen your relationship foundations from the outset. To understand your Emotional Intelligence number on a scale of zero to 10, keep reading.....

Taking your Relationship MOT

Making the decision to take a relationship EQ MOT will transform your life and your relationship happiness. If you also want to avoid becoming a divorce statistic, if you are fearful deep down of making the same mistakes with someone new, or your current relationship it is time to develop your emotional intelligence (I will help you further down this post)? If you understand the pattern you personally follow when you argue (any previous/current relationship will give you your answer). If you are unable to understand each other's perspective, pass blame, take responsibility for your emotions, I would advise you to take a relationship MOT before you start dating, whether you are in a new relationship, engaged or have been married a number of years. Keeping the magic of love alive needs working on or you will repeat the same behaviour with another person (that could take you years to find because the grass is not always greener the other side of the fence). Once you discover the priceless insight on how to clear an argument, speak your truth and better understand how you tick and communicated, you will begin to positively react, respond and listen differently to a new partner or the relationship you may want to save or rebuild right now.

Consider these questions for a moment. How long would you let yourself bleed before you put a plaster or bandage over your wound? How long would you endure a health condition before you see a doctor? How long would you struggle at work trying to understand a new piece of software without going on a course to speed up your learning process? How much longer do you want to endure relationship or emotional unhappiness?

It will hit you hard

The impact of divorce or a relationship breakdown only becomes real when it happens. Including your legal fees, splitting your assets, home and financials (all relative to your situation). It will possibly cost you 3 or 4 times the average wedding day spend in total (once you have paid your family lawyer (approx £1200 for a straight forward divorce). The financial cost, of course, depends on your personal circumstances and financial situation. Your emotional intelligence will help you to keep afloat because you then have the devasting emotionally and mental anguish of loss, hurt and pain to deal with when you are trying to support your children's wellbeing too (if you have a family). It will hit you harder, especially if your EQ is under-developed. if this is the case your children will suffer too. Your EQ intelligence is your foundation to cope with any life challenge when it hits you hard. So wherever you are on your love pathway, starting something new, consider the skills you need to develop your EQ. If you want or have a family, they will learn by your example if you already have the right EQ toolkit - if you have been divorced, what to save your relationship or start a new one!

Transform your Approach

Possibly you could start a new relationship, save or rebuild your relationship with a new awareness of each other before you hit problems. For the solution of how you do this, I help clients quickly identify, following my unique tailored 4 step toolkit, if separation or divorce is the best way forward. I help clients save their relationship or before they are ready to start dating, I prepare them with the insight and wisdom they need to make the right informed choice critical - to recognise and attract someone extraordinary (I know so and the clients who have met the love of their life will tell you how important this step is too). If you want a fresh, proven, tried and tested approach that is not Relate Counselling or Talking Therapies (will help you chat through past or current issues) , Walking my talk as a Relationship Expert over 20 years I understand the solution and have created a unique new professionally qualified approach that works. The 4 steps I introduce over a personal 1-2-1 discovery session.

If you are ready to MOT your relationship skills you will get radically different results (over just 2 days) when you apply what you learn. It's an investment every human being should consider! Remember coaching will empower you, it is not a therapy and one day I hope my unique 4 steps healthy communication coaching programme will be the preferred go-to alternative to Relate Counselling (if therapy is not right for you).

Strengthening your emotional intelligence is also a precious life tool and skill to reach your true potential in life and love. You will take back control of your emotions more quickly if you are emotionally stuck, exhausted, anxious or depressed. Take greater steps toward in your business ambitions and life achievements. What you learn and how you apply your emotional intelligence, will positively impact every area of your life and the people you communicate with. You have everything to gain!

This is the most important tip for today so remember it. When you learn to become the best version of you, you will also become the best partner you could be to build, save, or start a new a more lasting relationship for you and it to thrive.

If you don't invest in your Emotional intelligence:

You are likely to continue as you are today, nothing will change. You will possibly continue to feel depressed or stressed for longer, overwhelmed, struggle emotionally, feel empty without the loving relationship you truly deserve, unable to cope or be productive as you would like to at work. If life has hit you hard you may feel the victim for longer if you have been heartbroken and your emotions are out of control. If you have been single or divorced a while, you feel lonely and alone, it can feel like you have no purpose (on the treadmill) without the special someone you want to share your life, dreams and future with.

If you do invest in your EQ skills:

• You will take control of your emotions instead of them controlling you.
• You will overcome stress, anxiety or feelings of depression so much more quickly
• You will be better equipped to recognise, attract and build a more loving and rewarding relationship that will thrive.
• It's why your EQ is so much more valuable than your Intellectual Intelligence (IQ).
• What price would you pay for your happiness, health and relationship success?
• Would you now agree your EQ is the most priceless life investment? We can learn knowledge, we need to invest in our EQ daily.

A Little Exercise - What is your Emotional intelligence number?

A coaching question to help you understand your EQ number today .......

On a scale of zero up to 10 (10=the best you could be at communicating), how good are you at dealing with conflict with your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance (or consider a previous relationship or another family member, work colleague you know)? What number are you?

If you are an 8 or 9 you are well developed. Anything below, imagine if you invested just 2 days of your life, how you will develop your EQ and transform your life?

I would love to inspire you to develop your new EQ toolkit every human being needs to learn.

Your next step.......

To book your Emotional Intelligence Relationship 30 minute Discovery Call today, you can book here online immediately. Simply click this link.

Or start your FREE 90 minute Online Relationship Coaching EQ Programme today!

Can you help me to help the people you care about?

Which well-ness contact in your business do you know I could contact to introduce my New You staff engagement and wellbeing programme to? Please email me karen@lovecoachingyou.com or text 07590 221951. Imagine the personal and profitable impact on your business, staff and personal happiness if every employee had their own Emotional Intelligence Toolkit. Staff would want to come into work, feel more productive if you care about their wellbeing.

With loving wishes and much gratitude.

Karenx

LoveCoachingYou.com

KarenMarshallCoach.com if you have everything but no one special to share it with you.

* according to the ONS (Office of National Statistics)

** Bride Magazine

CONSIDERING SEPARATION OR DIVORCE?

Is an emotive question and will mean something different to everyone especially if you have experienced heartache and relationship breakdown before. It’s also one of the hardest decisions you will make.  So let me give you the informed knowledge, wisdom and coaching  education if any of the following points resonate with you:

• Deep down you are questioning if you have a future together.
• You are arguing and don’t understand each other’s point of view or emotional needs.
• Your feelings have changed. You may feel bored with your daily routine and are considering ending your relationship.
• Possibly you have a family to consider and potentially could be making the biggest mistake of your life.

To make the right decision to save or rebuild what you have together or separate or divorce if this is the best way forward, don't base your decision on ignorance without seeking expert relationship and coaching support first.

Home truths

My advice speaking to you as a qualified Relationship and Well-being Expert. Life Coach and Mentor.  Also speaking personally from experience I have successfully transformed my relationship journey to know what it takes to build a more loving and rewarding relationship that can work.  It’s important you remember this. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side of the fence.  It is also highly likely you will repeat the same mistakes and feel the same way in another new relationship unless you shift your perspective.

Seeing your relationship challenges from a new perspective

Let’s take a minute to consider your relationship challenges and how to overcome them. To learn a new skill at work, you would go on a course. To feel fitter, you would practice keeping fit. To learn to drive, you would drive. To run a marathon, you would run.

It’s the same principle in your relationship. To gain new relationship skills you will need to practice them.

If you are, considering separation or divorce right now, the answer to help you is just 4 words - shift your self-awareness.

When you do this, you will positively impact your relationship experience, possibly save and rebuild your relationship.  If couples’ therapy or relate counselling is not for you. decide to accelerate your self-awareness with the priceless empowering knowledge below.

Let me also make your experience super-easy.  Investing only 5 minutes each day will get you started with one quick easy exercise I will talk you through in a moment.

Or immediately sign-up for your FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program Taster

Self-awareness

One human need essential in life is self-growth and self-development.

Without them, you will stay stuck.  If you are studying for a qualification, learning a new hobby, reading books to expand your thinking and mind, you are constantly shifting your self-awareness.

If you want a more loving, deeply connected and fulfilling relationship, let me expand your mind.

Just how self-aware are you right now?

• How do you communicate at work, or, with your partner during a disagreement? Do you get angry very quickly? Do you easily express the way you feel or think calmly? Or walk away and avoid conflict?  Now imagine the impact of your communication style on your partner.  Without any self-awareness, how you deal with conflict is a huge factor towards your relationship success or failure.

• Are you self-aware of your deeper emotional needs outside your physical relationship? Do you know why you feel unfulfilled in your relationship?  Do you blame your partner for the problems in your relationship?  Each question makes you think, doesn’t it?

• One simple exercise will only take you 5 minutes. Decide to observe yourself over one day this week.  Is your thinking more positive or negative? What do you notice about your body, is it more stressed or calm?  The voice in your head - does it talk negatively or positively?  At the end of your day notice what you notice – on the train home, when you’re having a coffee, a shower or before bedtime. What did you notice about yourself?

On a scale of zero up to 10 (10= the highest number) what number would you give your self-awareness?  If it is 7 or below, what can you do differently to increase this number? Let me show you how.

In my quest towards the relationship survival revolution, if you are you considering separation or divorce, you could save or rebuild what you have together before it’s too late:

Firstly, it’s time to take responsibility for the way you think and feel to avoid making the same mistakes (you may not even be aware of).

Secondly, if you have children, when you decide to invest in your self-awareness you will lead your children with a new example. Before you make a life-changing decision based on ignorance, taking a different perspective is the most precious gift you will give your relationship and your children (who are highly likely to suffer from mental health problems going through separation or divorce with you).  So consider your options wisely.

Top 5 Tips to shift your self-awareness (with a Free Gift to help you).

• When you begin to observe your thoughts and body, it’s the first step to take a new life-changing approach.
• Spending time to discover your natural wiring, how you communicate at work vs your relationship will give you the priceless knowledge to change your approach with your partner (an ex. or with someone new).
• When you uncover the reasons why you feel unfulfilled, bored or depressed, it is likely one of your human needs is out of balance. It is not your partner’s fault you feel this way.
• It is too easy to give up or give in. If you believe someone new will make you happy or fulfilled, then think again.
• Unless you shift your self-awareness, you are likely to repeat the same mistakes with someone new.

Your FREE GIFT Today!

A FREE 14 Day Online Video Coaching Program to start your self-awareness transformation.

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Uncover what’s important to you, what you DO WANT instead of what you DON’T WANT (to change your negative voice into a positive one).

It will only take you 10 minutes a day, to finish your FREE online 90 minutes Relationship Success Taster including a few simple exercises to shift your perspective. So you have everything to gain!

If you are an action taker, want different results in your life and relationship, any transformation is possible when you shift your awareness!  Sign-up for your FREE 14 Day Online Relationship Success Coaching Program if you haven't already.

If you are looking for answers, this is a massive signpost to help and guide you to make the right decision!

With loving wishes

Kare Marshall x

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