29 Mar Your Self-fulfilling Relationship Prophecy
Who you expect to turn up, is your self-fulfilling prophecy
Does your Prince Charming show up, or someone very different?
Love is magical, exciting, fulfilling and rewarding when we get it right. If however, you are a woman in your late 30’s, mid 40’s or 50’s everything changes if you are still unmarried, separated or divorced. Perhaps you’re still looking for your Prince Charming, you want to settle down with, or have a family with if your clock is ticking. Or maybe you’ve experienced the pain of separation or divorce and you want to avoid making the same mistakes again.
Before you start or feel ready to date once more, this is your invaluable piece of advice today. Now is the perfect time to do something different ahead of dating.
Imagine your life is a film. Let me put your film called ‘Your love story so far’ on pause right now. Remember, the fairy tale storybooks, the endless romantic films we grew up watching all have a lot to answer for. Why? because it’s the one belief we consistently reinforce to be 100% true and society tells us that Prince Charming one day will sweep you off your feet and make you happy. Maybe you are still waiting for him to show up. One thing though you are certain about, you don’t want to keep making the same relationship mistakes, or getting hurt again if you are exhausted of relationships not working out or lasting.
Well, your fairy tale and the life you are living right now is also your self-fulfilling prophecy. What do I mean? What you believe about love, relationships, men, yourself, will keep showing up. The same love story film will keep repeating itself unless you change your story and what you believe to be true!
Here are just a few beliefs you may like to overwrite if they resonate with you? For example. You believe a man will hurt you again, let you down, you no longer trust anyone, all the good men are taken, men only want one thing. These are just some of the typical beliefs you may keep rewinding, replaying in your relationship storybook that will keep showing up for you. Or you can decide to easily shift your mindset with some simple and proven coaching techniques and strategies that work following the Find and Thrive Coaching Programme I have decided to accelerate your results.
Let’s take a minute to pause once more. Here’s an example to consider. When you access your computer database (your old beliefs), you can recreate new content to overwrite your old data (when you create a new way of thinking). When you learn to overwrite your existing relationship data, you overwrite your disempowering beliefs and replace them with new ones. Your brain then begins to create a very different love story – your new self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are you ready to overwrite your old files with new empowering relationship content?
You can create your new self-fulling prophecy anytime you choose. If you are ready and committed to change your relationship journey, your destiny will transform into your own fairy tale. I know so!
But be warned. Pain will keep showing up as your motivator to guide you if you don’t do anything different. How much more disappointment, meeting and attracting the wrong men, or pain do you want to endure? You will continue to attract the same type of guys or relationships unless you make a new choice today and overwrite your old files, just one part of the Find and Thrive 4 Step proven, tried and tested coaching approach that works.
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