The Dating and Relationship Paradox

Regardless of where you are on your dating and relationship journey, you will need to understand the dating paradox I hear most women say to me. “I am not ready to start dating yet, so I don’t need any help.” It is absolutely your paradox. When you are not ready, is when you need to do the work, to be ready.

Why? Have you heard the dilemma question; what comes first, the chicken or the egg? Whether you want to get your dating decision right or learn the skills to build a more loving and healthy relationship that works. What comes first?  New relationship skills, or dating skills?

To get it right in love next time, it is key to work on your relationship communication skills IN ADVANCE of dating.    

If you believe you are ready to start dating and you have already experienced a relationship breakdown, it is highly likely you will repeat the same patterns again in a future relationship (without realising).  Learning about your communication style now is one of the first steps to understanding to help you quickly recognise the right man for you (I call Mr Extraordinary). You will recognise him beyond chemistry, sexual attraction, shared interests and values, and what makes him the right dating choice, to significantly increase your survival together!

As my gift today! Discover your 7 Steps How to Avoid Sabotaging Your Relationship and Dating Success. This includes 20 years of insights you will get in 20 minutes. You will get the priceless insights and the wisdom to know what you need to start working on to transform your future happiness, in advance of dating.

Go to 1. if you are not dating or ready. Or 2, if you are dating.

  1. If you are NOT dating or ready for a relationship. Would you take your driving test without doing your theory first to pass your test?  No, you wouldn’t.  You would certainly make time to learn your theory to set yourself up for success. The same applies with dating.  Learn your relationship and communication insights theory first, in advance of dating, while you are single, and you will fast-track your dating success.  Instinctively, your theory will help you to very quickly recognise your Mr Extraordinary who will jump out to you when you do feel ready to get back out there dating. Or be warned, you are fall into another relationship by chance, you will follow the same patterns or mistakes (you are possibly unaware of making). To get in right in love, when you understand your style of communication better, you will then recognise the right man. 

Here is your perfect chicken and egg dating paradox example. Does this resonate with you?

E.g., I don’t want another relationship, I only want to focus on myself, my business, and my children (if you have a family).  I am not interested in dating or need any help right now.  I just want to focus on myself.

Think about this question? Would it be more beneficial to become aware of your likely relationship or dating obstacles, before, or after you feel ready for another relationship?  Yes, do your theory before.

If you don’t get your toolkit you could waste more valuable time and your life meeting similar types of men, or the wrong men. Why waste any more time?

Jo, one client I worked with, dated narcissistic men for 7 years before she took my new approach.

2. If you are ACTIVELY dating right now (as Valentines is not that far away).  The majority of women wait to be chosen by a man.  If you are feeling out of your depth or lost to know what man is right for you, I would highly recommend you put your serious dating on pause (which may seem rather unfair I know because getting the attention from men keeps you going). However, it’s the best advice I can give you as a highly qualified relationship and dating expert, if you no longer want second best and want to find and build your Mr Extraordinary most loving and healthy relationship, that can thrive! It promise your efforts, will pay off. I did for me and it can for you too!

To become the chooser in love, here are two options to get you started, if you are ready to do the work!

Option 1

To re-ignite your self-confidence in yourself and with men. You can only change what isn’t working when you become aware of what needs changing. The 7 Steps How to Avoid Sabotaging Your Relationship and Dating Success will identify this for you.  It’s your Free 20-minute guide you can open right now – click here.

Option 2

Or get started immediately on your healthy communication toolkit and experience your FREE 14 day access to the online coaching programme – How To Recognise Your Mr Extraordinary, including priceless content, my guiding videos plus easy coaching exercises. This is priceless gold dust, that took me 20 years to figure out so you don’t have to waste any more time. You will get your insights and answers in just 7-8 hours when you complete each step! Click here to decide and sign up. I am certain the programme will transform your approach. To complete the full programme you will only pay £97 on day 15 with 100% money back guarantee. Every woman needs to know these insights.

To get it right in love, do the work now!

If you love your self-development, want the solutions, and life-transforming toolkit, you can find and build your most loving and rewarding relationship you truly deserve!

Get your FREE 20 minute guide. Click here.

Or get started right now on your FREE 14 day access to the online programme How To Recognise Your Mr Extraordinary. Click here.

With loving wishes.

Karen x

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